There are many things that cause women to look in the mirror and hate themselves . Women are constantly picking apart their appearance and how they look, thinking they are ugly, fat, or not good enough for men.
Social media and beauty standards have influenced women, even more, making them feel insecure. As it turns out, there are men who feel that the things women hate about themselves are beautiful.
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Beauty trends don’t matter.
“A lot of those beauty trends. Thigh gaps, that weird bikini gap thing, stretch marks etc, I genuinely don’t care. Also apparently some are self-conscious about freckles, I think they look stunning,” shared SecretSummerMidnight .
Boobs are boobs.
TheBigPasta said, and many other men agreed, that while women are constantly upset about the size of their boobs, most men do not care about size. All boobs are great to them, they don’t discriminate against any size.
Freckles are stunning.
sloowhand said he cannot understand why people hate so much on freckles, but they think that freckles are absolutely amazing. From small ones in a variety of places, to the ones that go across the bridge of a girl’s nose, freckles are perfect.
Stop straightening your hair.
“It’s really fun to look at. Some women seem to try to straighten/curl but I think going with what your hair wants is best. Your hair refuses to be anything other than an afro? Rock it sister,” said MQ116 .
Scars and stretch marks are not as obvious as you think.
CilliamBlinton confessed that men rarely, if ever, notice scars or stretchmarks on women. In fact, he didn’t even see them on his girlfriend until she made a remark about them. That tells us everything we need to know.
Don’t cover those greys.
FuckOffJenn said that while many women strive to cover up their greys and dye their hair, he thinks that grey hair on women is actually rather hot and attractive. So, ditch the dye and let it go naturally ladies.
Be strong.
iamme_72584 said women are always afraid to be “dominant” in a relationship and make decisions, but he actually wants women to be strong and firm more often. He says that it’s better when a woman is confident and strong in their opinions and desires.
Having larger than normal lady parts.
Unknown_Captain shared that a girl he dated had “larger than average” labia and she was very insecure about it, so much that she cried when they got intimate together for the first time because she thought he would leave and find her unattractive. He said that if you love someone, a little extra labia won’t change a thing.
Noses.
“Literally every girl I have had a fling/relationship with has had a big Roman nose. I literally didn’t care and now turns out I am automatically drawn toward girls with Roman noses. I was turned off by one of them more for how insecure she got about her nose rather than the actual nose itself which I could not care less about,” shared Shrk_designer .
Just be real.
jrugz320 said that there’s nothing more attractive than a woman who can be 100% herself and real around him. The more you own what you like and why you like it, the more you can truly get to know someone.
Being super smart.
TheOvy said that so many women try to dumb themselves down because they think that guys want that, but it is really the case that guys are attracted to a woman who can hold her own and is very smart.
Farting and pooping.
“So many women hold their farts in or hide pooping in the dating phase or even early relationship. I’m miserable when I have to do that. If a dude can’t handle a woman that needs to poop and fart, that’s a great way to know you’re dating a child,” said leftlegYup .
Eyebrows.
smolinga said too many girls are concerned with their eyebrows and not being too big, but eyebrows that are “too small” are the ones that look pretty bad, he thinks. He also said that if you want to grow body hair, do it up.
Going around without makeup in public.
seniorfrito said that so many women are insecure about leaving the house without makeup and seeing others without it, but in reality, not everyone wants a girl who is always done up to the 10s with a full face on.
How you laugh.
“Their laugh – it’s always going to be cute even if you snort with snot running out your nose – we’re most likely going to be happy that you laughed at our jokes and ignore everything else,” shared AdministrativeBat305 .
