Marriage on the Rocks: Husband’s Porn Obsession Threatens Couple’s Bond

Have you ever felt like your partner’s attention was elsewhere during intimate moments? Well, our newlywed couple found themselves in a bit of a sticky situation when the hubby asked to watch porn while his wife was pleasuring him. Living with his mom and long-term guests, they tried to keep things quiet and quick, but things took a turn when he started preferring handjobs and BJs over penetration. Let’s dive into their story and see how they navigated this delicate issue… ️‍♀️

Married Life and Porn

Silent Acceptance

His ‘Motivation’

The Truth Comes Out ️

Porn During Intercourse

A New Plan

Late Night Surprise

The Dreaded Request

Heartbroken

Silent Night

The Big Question ❓

UPDATE: A Heart-to-Heart

Quality Over Quantity

Gratitude and Growth

A Flourishing Future

Porn, Pleasure, and a Broken Promise

Our newlywed lovebirds found themselves in a pickle when the hubby couldn’t resist watching porn during their intimate moments. He claimed it gave him the ‘motivation’ to finish, but it left his wife feeling unappreciated and heartbroken. After proposing they watch less porn and focus on quality time, he agreed. But that very same night, he asked to watch porn while she was giving him a BJ. She stopped, cried herself to sleep, and wondered if she was in the wrong. ‍♀️ After discussing the issue, they decided to work together, stop watching porn, and seek therapy if needed. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation and how they handled it…

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