Hey there, Facebook fam! Have you ever had a partner’s parent go a little *too* far in trying to protect their precious offspring? Well, buckle up because this story is a doozy! Our protagonist found himself in a sticky situation when his ex-girlfriend’s overprotective father decided to run a background check on him without his knowledge or consent. What’s worse? The dad did it through his work, and it’s now come back to bite him in the behind! Grab your popcorn and let’s dive into this rollercoaster of a story!
Overprotective Dad Alert!

Clean Record, But…

Peeved but Keeping the Peace ✌️

Ex-Girlfriend Reaches Out

Dad’s Shady Work Tactics

Auditors on Dad’s Tail ️

Still Peeved, No Consent Given

Dad Tries to Make Amends

Dad Loses His Job

Ex Lashes Out

Dad’s Overprotectiveness Costs Him His Job
Our protagonist dated a woman with an overprotective father who, without any reason, ran a full background check on him without his knowledge or consent. ️♂️ After their breakup, the ex-girlfriend reached out, revealing that her father had used his company’s system to run the checks, and now the company’s internal audit department was giving him a hard time. She asked our protagonist to retroactively sign a consent form, but still peeved about the whole ordeal, he declined. When the internal auditor called to investigate, our protagonist told the entire true story, which ultimately led to the father losing his job. Now, the ex-girlfriend is lashing out, calling him an a**hole. So, let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Ex-girlfriend’s dad faces consequences for illegal actions ⚖️

Ex’s father cyber-stalked and broke the law, NTA for honesty

Ex-girlfriend’s dad got himself fired for invading privacy. NTA.
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Checking out people you’re dating is normal, but illegal actions have consequences

Taking accountability and standing up for what’s right

Intentional illegal action, but still NTA.

Honesty is the best policy, even if it costs jobs.

Ex-girlfriend’s father lost his job for illegal background check ♂️

Honesty is the best policy . Ex’s dad deserved the consequences.

Ex-girlfriend’s dad loses job for unethical behaviour

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for exposing the abuse.

Supportive commenters agree that the ex-girlfriend’s father got what he deserved

Being honest may have consequences. NTA makes a tough call.

Ex-girlfriend’s dad abuses power, gets fired after NTA’s honesty

Credit check revenge backfires on ex-girlfriend’s father

You’re in the clear! NTA and not responsible for his actions.

Ex-lover’s father fired for asking for illegal credit report

Consent is important. NTA for reporting ex’s father’s abuse.

NTA calls out ex-girlfriend’s father’s fraud, suggests possible legal action.

Choosing honesty over perjury, NTA comment section stands united

Ex’s father loses job after fraudulently running background check on NTA ❌

Father asks man to commit crime, gets fired. NTA wins!

Honesty is the best policy . Blocking the numbers is a smart move.

Honesty is the best policy . He got what he deserved

Ex-girlfriend’s father forges consent, gets caught, and blames OP. NTA.

Honesty is the best policy, even if it costs jobs

Justice served. The consequences of illegal actions.

OP did not get ex-girlfriend’s father fired, he committed a crime

Honesty is the best policy . NTA, ex’s father dug his own grave ⚰️.

Father loses job for breaking company policy to do background check for 30+ year old daughter. NTA.

Opportunist suggests a way to benefit from ex-girlfriend’s father’s mistake

Man’s honesty costs ex-girlfriend’s father his job – NTA

Ex’s dad loses job due to ex’s foolish request. NTA.

Dating the boss’s daughter: Bad idea

Ex-girlfriend’s dad loses job for illegal credit checks. NTA.

Ex-girlfriend’s dad jeopardized company and citizens’ privacy, NTA.

Man illegally runs credit check, faces consequences. NTA.

Honesty is the best policy, but maybe cash is too

Standing up for honesty even when it’s hard

Being honest cost ex-girlfriend’s father his job. NTA

NTA. Ex’s father got what he deserved for his actions
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Ex-gf’s dad fired for abusing his position, commenter says NTA
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NTA and should report ex’s father for potential identity theft

NTA, but ex-girlfriend’s family has invasive and nosy behavior

Ex-Father-in-law abuses power, gets caught. NTA!

Standing up for honesty and avoiding toxic family. YNA

Refusing to commit fraud costs ex’s father his job. NTA

Saving texts for a lawsuit? Bold move, but satisfying.

NTA. The father’s actions were illegal and unethical

Ex’s dad got what he deserved for invading privacy

NTA – Don’t blame yourself for his unethical actions

Honesty is the best policy

Ex’s dad committed fraud, NTA for being honest. Creepy behavior.

Holding someone accountable for illegal activity, doesn’t make you an a**hole. ♂️

Ex’s dad loses job after running unauthorized checks. NTA.

NTA. He messed with the wrong person

The commenter supports the OP’s honesty and justifies why they’re not the a**hole (NTA) in reporting the ex-girlfriend’s father’s misconduct at work.

No obligation to cover for him and you owe him nothing

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for telling the truth

NTA. The guy abused his position and got caught.

Honesty is the best policy , even if it costs a job
