Man’s Chronic Pain Tears Relationship Apart

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, pain, and frustration that’s sure to get your emotions revving! Meet our leading lady, a 25-year-old gal who’s been with her man for 4 years, 2 of which they’ve spent living in blissful cohabitation. But lately, things have taken a turn for the worse as her boyfriend’s chronic pain has him moaning and groaning more than a haunted house on Halloween! Despite her best efforts to help, he just won’t budge. ‍♂️ Is she the a-hole for finally snapping? Let’s dive in and find out! ‍♀️

Trouble in Paradise?

Mr. Tough Guy’s Demanding Job ️

The Pain Progresses…

‍♀️ Supportive Girlfriend to the Rescue! ‍♀️

‍♂️ Massage? Chiropractor? Anyone? ‍♂️

‍♂️ Mr. Stubborn Ignores Advice

Her Own Pain Flares Up

The Nonstop Complaining ️

️ Tough Love Time!

Offended Boyfriend Alert!

Am I the A-hole?

Too Harsh?

Lunchtime Phone Chat

️ The Forgotten Mattress!

Worried Girlfriend

Girlfriend Reaches Boiling Point with Boyfriend’s Constant Complaining! ️

Our gal has been trying her best to support her man through his chronic pain journey, offering massages, yoga, and even chiropractic care! ‍♂️ ‍♀️ But Mr. Stubborn just won’t take her advice, leaving her feeling frustrated and fed up. After a particularly whiny week, she finally snapped and told him to either do something about it or zip it! Ouch! Now she’s worried she might have been too harsh. The internet has chimed in with some sage advice, like replacing their ancient mattress ️, but will it be enough to soothe the tension? Stay tuned for the thrilling conclusion!

Partner’s chronic pain needs medical attention, cooperation is key ‍

Partner’s chronic pain strains relationship, commenter suggests seeing doctor.

Balancing empathy and enabling in a relationship with chronic pain

Exhausting relationship with chronic pain partner. Encouraging approach suggested.

Good advice: Don’t send him to a chiropractor!

Chronic pain sufferer advises partner to see a doctor ASAP ‍⚕️

Both parties need to understand the pain and communicate kindly

Could the issue be the mattress? NAH, suggestion for solution. ‍ ‍

Offered help, but he won’t solve the problem. NTA

Urgent reminder to take chronic pain seriously ⚠️

Empathy vs problem-solving: Understanding what your partner needs

NTA! Chronic pain is tough, but burdening others isn’t okay

Living with chronic pain is tough, but seeking solutions is crucial.

Managing chronic pain: experiences with masseuse, chiropractor, and physiotherapist.

Encouraging but firm response to man’s chronic pain complaints.

Partner snaps at man with chronic pain, labeled YTA.

A fellow chronic pain sufferer sympathizes with OP; boyfriend’s TA

Take charge of your life and don’t blame others

Spouse won’t take medicine, so I give ultimatum. #NTA

A fellow chronic pain sufferer advises against enabling attention-seeking behavior

A former lifter recommends taking time off and doing exercises.

Don’t ignore chronic pain, seek help early. NTA.

Ignoring chronic pain led to a tennis ball-sized tumor!

Encourage your partner to seek medical help for chronic pain

Encourage him to see a doctor and take responsibility ‍⚕️

Chronic pain is no joke! Urging him to seek treatment.

Ignoring chronic pain can lead to serious health issues. NTA.

Living with chronic pain is a struggle

Chronic pain is tough, but it’s important to seek solutions.

NTA prioritizes self-care, shuts down negative comments about chronic pain.

Engaging with a relatable experience and offering advice

Partner’s chronic pain improved after seeing a doctor

Understanding the fear of a chronic pain diagnosis

Encouraging advice for chronic pain sufferer to seek physical therapy

Managing chronic pain is tough, but seeking help is important.

NTA refuses to seek solutions for chronic pain. Take responsibility.

Frozen packs for chronic pain relief – NTA’s advice

Encouraging comment about prioritizing one’s health,

Chronic pain requires treatment, not just back rubs

Chronic pain can be tough, but refusing to treat it? YTA/NTA

Don’t be like the fiancé’s friend. Be your own advocate!

Partner’s chronic pain leads to relationship breakdown

Managing chronic pain is personal, don’t burden others. NTA

Living with chronic pain and relationships. NTA suggests medical help.

Compassionate comment on chronic pain, suggests medical marijuana as treatment.

Partner’s chronic pain not an excuse to not help himself.

Chronic pain is not his fault but it is his responsibility

Overcoming chronic pain is possible with effort and support.

User thinks OP is the a**hole for not seeking treatment

Chronic pain strains relationship, advice to see a doctor ‍⚕️

Partner’s chronic pain and lack of proactivity causes frustration. NAH.

Don’t ignore chronic pain, it could be something serious

Addressing chronic pain is important, NTA for encouraging responsibility

Cheap online mattresses helped decrease chronic back pain.

Injury can have long-lasting effects, NTA for caring

Encouraging comment to seek medical help for chronic pain. ‍⚕️

Chronic pain can mimic brain trauma and depression. NTAH.

NTA suggests man’s chronic pain could be fixed with doctor’s visit.

Offering advice to someone stuck in chronic pain.

Partner’s chronic pain strains relationship, commenter supports OP. NTA

Sensible advice on dealing with chronic pain in the workplace

Dealing with chronic pain is tough, but seeking treatment helps. ‍♂️

Don’t enable chronic pain behavior, call people on their bullshit

Redditor calls out OP and deems them TA for breaking up

Chronic pain sufferer shares advice and tells it like it is

Encouraging NTA comment about chronic pain and seeking help.

Balancing empathy and solutions for a partner in chronic pain. NAH

Partner with chronic pain refuses to help himself, NTA for leaving.

Upgrade your mattress and pillow for chronic pain relief!

Physical therapy advised over chiropractors. NTA understands the frustration.

Advice on chronic pain ignored, NTA for seeking help.

Encouraging comment urging medical help for partner’s chronic pain.

Living with chronic pain can make one feel worthless

NTA. Exercising daily helps prevent knee surgery. Physical therapy is life-changing

Partner’s chronic pain causing relationship issues. NTA suggests tough love.

Debate on addressing chronic pain in relationships

Wife takes action to help husband’s chronic pain. NTA

Ignoring chronic pain caused irreparable damage

Relationship strained due to lack of solutions for chronic pain.