Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama on our hands. Our protagonist, a 32-year-old man, has been dutifully helping his dad out financially along with his four brothers. But wait, there’s a twist! Turns out, dear old dad has been secretly funneling money to the deadbeat oldest brother, even buying him a house! The betrayal is real, and now our hero is questioning whether he should keep supporting his dad. Let’s dive into this messy situation and see how it unfolds!
Family Drama Alert!

Mystery Money

Brotherly Love… Or Not

Helping Dad, No Problem!

Deadbeat Brother Alert

♂️ Dad’s Soft Spot ♂️

Secret House Purchase

Betrayal and Lies

♂️ Enough is Enough ♂️

One Brother Agrees

Am I the A-hole?

Family Feud: To Help or Not to Help?
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a classic case of family favoritism and betrayal! Our protagonist has been loyally supporting his dad, only to find out that pops has been secretly bankrolling the deadbeat oldest brother’s lifestyle, even buying him a house! Now, he’s torn between cutting off his dad or continuing to help, despite the lies and deceit. His brothers are divided on the issue, adding to the drama. ♂️ It’s a tough call, but one thing’s for sure – this family is in for a wild ride! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy dilemma…
NTA, keep your money for emergencies and pay specific bills.

Helping brother, not dad. NTA in secret house purchase.

Choosing to stop enabling family is tough, but necessary. NTA

Brother should live with father he’s not paying for . NTA

When your dad asks for money to buy your lazy brother a house

NTA for not supporting dad’s secret house purchase

Defending against siblings’ criticism for not supporting brother’s laziness.

Standing up for oneself and addressing family issues.

NTA and brother can snap wallets shut, hold firm

Son criticizes dad’s choice of buying a house.

Father commits fraud by lying about secret house purchase. NTA.

NTA. Helping someone down on their luck is different from enablement.

NTA. Dad needs therapy to learn how to stop enabling.

Financially assisting dad may not be fair to brother

Cut him off! NTA for not paying Dad’s bill.

NTA stands firm against dad’s attempt to milk situation

Supportive comment encourages setting boundaries with family.

Helpful suggestion for managing Dad’s finances and avoiding scams

Son discovers Dad’s lie about paying off brother’s mortgage. NTA.

NTA. Helping dad, not enabling mooching brother. Set healthy boundaries.

Dad secretly bought a house but pays brother’s mortgage? NTA.

Son suggests dad moves in with him after secret house purchase

Take control of your finances and prioritize your savings

NTA helps brother indirectly, but what about unpaid child support?

Don’t enable your dad and brother. Tough love is necessary

NTA. Son advises dad to live within his means. Crappy brother sucks.

Father’s secret house purchase breaks trust, NTA for not helping

Supporting dad’s independence while setting boundaries

Buying a house for a moocher? NTA says it all

NTA, dad lied and consequences suck, stand your ground

Generous mother-in-law was taken advantage of by lazy son

Wise advice on aging parents’ finances.

Suggests a clever solution for helping dad without enabling him

Dad used money on brother, NTA for cutting off support

Choosing between family members, is it fair?

Son calls out family for enabling dad’s financial irresponsibility

Helping brother, not dad. Dad doesn’t need the money

Father’s financial help for brother raises eyebrows. NTA.

Man discovers dad bought secret house and he’s the sole supporter. NTA.

Protect your money, set boundaries with your dad. NTA

Dad paying brother’s mortgage, no need for financial help.

Generous son discovers dad secretly bought house for irresponsible brother

Mortgage despite settlement? Financial illiteracy, or something fishy?

Feeling broke yet? Join the club

Brother’s secret house purchase without consent leads to family drama. NTA.

Sibling drama: Commenter refuses to support brother, NTA.

Stand your ground and have a honest conversation with your dad

A harsh but fair comment on a father’s financial choices
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NTA. You’re not obligated to pay for your brother’s mortgage

Financially enabling dad won’t help him. Find another way.

Dad bought a secret house but can’t pay rent. NTA advice.

One person carrying the burden of the entire family?

Father not entitled to bleed his children for mortgage payments.

Compassionate suggestion to help struggling pushover dad

NTA. If family cares, let them help. Your money, your business

Don’t fund your father’s decisions, NTA for saying no.

Cutting off financial gifts to dad, get him a financial advisor

Be careful when helping family with money

Son discovers dad’s secret house purchase. Commenter calls him out.

Son discovers dad spent his money on lazy brother’s house

Dad using OP’s money to fund brother? NTA for refusing.

NTA for not helping dad pay mortgage on brother’s house

Supporting brother’s mortgage, not dad. NTA
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Paying for brother’s mortgage, not dad’s, NTA

Don’t enable manipulative behavior. Your dad doesn’t need help.

Trust is key in any relationship

One brother gifted a house and others pay bills? NTA
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Tough love: Discussing living arrangements with family
