Man Kicks Out Wife & Stepdaughter After Teen DESTROYS His BMW!

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a wild ride ahead of us. Meet our protagonist, a 32-year-old man who’s been married to his wife “Andy” for a year. They’ve been together for 3 years total, and things have been pretty smooth sailing… except for one little (okay, maybe not so little) problem: Andy’s 16-year-old daughter, “Carrie.” Now, Carrie’s had a tough go of it, losing her dad in a car accident 5 years ago. Our guy tried to take things slow, bond with her, and make it clear he wasn’t trying to replace her dad. But sometimes, despite our best efforts, things just don’t go as planned. ‍♂️ Buckle up, because this story is about to take a wild turn!

Buckle up for a wild ride!

Tragedy strikes, leaving a void

Icy reception from the teen

️ Setting boundaries, not replacing dad ‍

Biting my tongue for the sake of peace ✌️

Moving in together, tensions rising

️ Shattered dishes and sharp surprises

Throwing shade (and objects) at the neighbors

️ Tempers flare, but no hands raised ‍♂️

⏳ A year of chaos and destruction

Homecoming horror: BMW battered!

Tires slashed, paint scratched

‍ Wife sides with destructive daughter ‍♀️

⚖️ Pay up or lawyer up! ‍⚖️

Packing up and shipping out

Divorce on the horizon, lawsuit pending ⚖️

Fed up with the toxicity

BMW Bashed, Wife & Daughter Dashed!

Well, well, well… looks like things really hit the fan! After a year of Carrie’s destructive behavior, including smashing dishes, throwing things out windows, and insulting neighbors, our protagonist finally reached his breaking point when he caught her destroying his precious BMW X5. He snapped, called her some choice words, and told her to get out. When his wife sided with Carrie, he gave them both the boot! Now, he’s facing a divorce and planning to sue Carrie for the damage. Talk about a wild ride! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this crazy situation…

Setting boundaries is important, but family therapy may be helpful.

Man explains legal options regarding stepdaughter’s actions ‍

ESH including the wife for not prioritizing her daughter’s feelings

NTA for kicking out wife’s destructive stepdaughter, pursue financial responsibility.

NTA but overreacting due to built-up frustration ‍♂️

Man regrets not getting professional help for stepdaughter’s issues

Ignoring the problem won’t make it go away ‍♂️. Both parties are at fault.

Stepdaughter destroys BMW, NTA for kicking out wife and daughter

Teenager destroys BMW, mourns, and mother defends – NTA response.

A call for therapy to resolve destructive behavior

Concerns raised on the definition of good parenting.

Neglectful adults and a damaged BMW lead to family destruction.

Parenting failures lead to destructive behavior and family breakdown.

ESH but OP could have shown compassion for potential mental illness

Family’s behavior causes chaos and destruction. ‍♀️

A plea for understanding and help for a troubled teen

Effective parenting or negligence? Punishment or just a warning?

Controversial judgment, downvoted. Both have faults, ESH. ‍♂️

Ignoring stepdaughter’s feelings before moving in makes YTA.

Concerned commenter questions legality of suing a minor. Asks about therapy.

NTA. Under-reacted, should have called cops. Terrible living situation. Don’t let them back.

ESH. The girl needs therapy, consequences, and court mandated counseling. Adults are culpable.

NTA. Harsh delivery but wife & stepdaughter need therapy for trauma

Stepdaughter’s living arrangement questioned amidst family conflict

NTA for kicking out wife and stepdaughter after destructive behavior

Legal consequences of suing a 16-year-old for car damages

Addressing teen’s behavior is crucial. ESH for not seeking therapy.

Compassionate comment suggests therapy for troubled stepdaughter.

NTA stands by decision to kick out wife and stepdaughter

Compassionate comment questions if there’s more to the story.

Mother’s decision to move daughter backfired leading to destruction.

NTA suggests therapy for stepdaughter’s issues and suing for damages.

ESH. Daughter needs help, couples counseling could save marriage

Protecting property or family? An ethical dilemma.

Compassion advised, but family better off without him.

NTA for kicking her out after property damage. Therapy recommended.

Kicking out family after car destroyed: tough but necessary decision

When stepfamily dynamics go wrong ‍♀️

Stepdad gets called out for kicking out family after BMW incident.

NTA suggests harsh punishment to save stepdaughter from addiction.

Daughter’s cries for help ignored, ESH for prioritizing car over therapy

NTA. The stepdaughter is a narcissistic spoiled brat. Sue her!

NTA- Upset at stepdaughter’s behavior, wife enabling instead of seeking therapy.

Stepfather and mother criticized for not noticing and helping troubled teen

NTA. Lawsuit may teach her a lesson about actions

NTA but don’t sue a minor with possible mental issues

Mom’s responsibility to get daughter help. Daughter’s behavior destructive. NTA.

Divorce but don’t sue: NTA for prioritizing mental health.

Teen destroys BMW, but ESH for not addressing earlier signs. Therapy suggested.

NTA, but seeking professional help for the child is important

Family therapy could have helped, but emotions can be difficult

NTA, but daughter needs counseling before she faces jail time

Counseling could have prevented this

Family feud over car destruction leads to mutual blame. ESH

User calls out OP for mistreating stepdaughter, using YTA acronym

Everyone needs therapy here, adults failed to manage situation

Teen destroys BMW, mom defends her. NTA kicks them out.

Standing up to abuse from a stepchild, NTA

Stepdaughter destroys BMW, commenter defends man’s actions. NTA.

NTA for kicking out wife and stepdaughter after destructive behavior

Setting limits with kids is important. NTA for standing up.

Stepdaughter destroys BMW, father kicks out wife and daughter. NTA.

Compassionate NTA comment suggests seeking professional help for troubled teen.

Stepdaughter destroys BMW, husband kicks out wife, NTA according to comment.

Dealing with long-term resentment in a NTA situation

Teenager’s destructive behavior earns support for legal action.

Putting a child’s grief aside for a new marriage? NTA.

Mother’s ignorance exacerbates stepdaughter’s destructive behavior. NTA.

Supporting stepdaughter was wife’s responsibility. NTA.

Stepdaughter’s destructive behavior may be a symptom of bipolar disorder

Concerned commenter suggests therapy or possible sexual assault as cause.

Mom refuses daughter’s help, NTA for kicking them out.

Compassionate comment suggests therapy for troubled stepdaughter.

OP criticized for manner of kicking out wife and stepdaughter

Kicking out wife and stepdaughter after teen’s rage, ESH situation.

Destroying someone’s property is unacceptable. NTA made the right call.

Stepdaughter’s behavior may be linked to feeling rejected after father’s death. NAH