Picture this: You’re in a loving relationship, and your partner is very vocal about how much they despise cheating. They’ve even experienced the pain of being cheated on in the past. But then, one day, you notice that their stance on cheating seems to change when it comes to their own friends. What would you do? Would you call them out on their hypocrisy or let it slide? This is the exact situation one guy found himself in, and he’s wondering if he’s in the wrong for pointing out his girlfriend’s double standards. Let’s dive into the story!
The Cheating Conundrum

Taking Sides

Girls’ Night Out

Double Standards?

Her Friend’s Innocence

But That’s Different!

Hypocrisy Exposed? ️♂️

A Cheating Dilemma: Hypocrisy or Justified? ♂️
Our protagonist has been with his girlfriend for 2 years, and she’s always been very clear about her hatred for cheating. However, when one of her friends seemed to be attempting to cheat on her boyfriend during a night out, our protagonist’s girlfriend brushed it off as no big deal. When he pointed out this double standard, she got defensive and accused him of being out of line. Now, he’s left wondering if he’s in the wrong for calling her out on her hypocrisy. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA calls out girlfriend’s double standard on cheating.

Cheating is always wrong. No double standards.
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NTA calls out hypocritical GF for red flag behavior

Red flag alert! Confronting girlfriend’s hypocrisy on cheating.

The girlfriend’s hypocrisy on cheating exposed.
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NTA calls out girlfriend’s hypocrisy on cheating

Discuss boundaries with GF to avoid cheating, be clear and firm

Cheating hypocrisy called out, relationship advice given. NTA.

NTA calls out girlfriend’s hypocrisy on cheating.

NTA. Beware of hypocrites – they may cheat too!

Did OP’s GF cheat too? Comment suggests so.

NTA calls out friend’s hypocrisy on cheating, suggests warning her bf

Girlfriend’s double standard exposed by commenter.

Girlfriend’s ‘hypocrisy’ exposed by commenter’s astute observation

Girlfriend may be projecting her own infidelity. NTA wins

Hold her accountable for cheating during girls night out

NTA calls out double standards in cheating, suggests exit strategy.

Call out hypocrisy and red flags. NTA wins.

Dumping a cheater: harsh but necessary? ♂️

Double standards and gaslighting:

Confronting the hypocrisy of cheating standards

Ex-husband’s affair proves ‘protesting too much’ on cheating, NTA

Dump her , she’s okay with cheating

Red flag alert Double standards in relationships

Beware of the pack mentality , consider running

Respect boundaries in relationships, and you’re NTA!

NTA exposes girlfriend’s hypocrisy on cheating, raises fidelity doubts.

Calling out hypocrisy – never out of line!

“No but that’s different…” saves you from being YTA

Girlfriend accused of cheating and gaslighting. Trust issues arise.

Double standards in cheating. NTA wins.

Calling out cheating hypocrisy

Calling out double standards on cheating, NTA wins this round

NTA calls out girlfriend’s hypocrisy on cheating.

Red flag? NTA questions girlfriend’s friend and her loyalty

NTA: Confront girlfriend’s hypocrisy on cheating. Dump her if necessary.
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Double standards and potential hypocrisy. NTA.

Girlfriend’s hypocrisy on cheating exposed, NTA asks the right question

NTA calls out attempted cheating and predicts girlfriend’s actions

Red flags flying. Is it time to reevaluate the relationship?

A bizarre comparison to justify cheating?

Dump the hypocritical girlfriend, don’t be the a**hole.

OP’s dilemma: moving goal post and paranoia. Relationship doomed? ♂️

Intentions matter: Ex’s attempt to cheat = cheating, NTA
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Beware of hypocrisy: could your girlfriend be cheating too?

NTA calls out girlfriend’s hypocrisy on cheating

Dumping hypocritical girlfriend with double standards.

Red flag alert! Girlfriend’s hypocritical behavior exposed.

Kissing and flirting = cheating. NTA takes a stand.

Red flag alert: Is girlfriend hiding something?

Red flags in girlfriend’s cheating hypocrisy, trust your instincts.

Dump her ASAP. Nothing good will come of it.
