️ Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama on our hands that’s sure to make your jaw drop. Meet our protagonist, a loving husband caught in the middle of a picky eater showdown with his brother-in-law, J. From fast food fixations to marijuana meltdowns, this story has it all! As tensions rise and tantrums explode, our hero must navigate the treacherous waters of family dynamics and decide whether to stand his ground or risk alienation. Get ready for a wild ride filled with fried chicken, Mediterranean mayhem, and a Father’s Day fiasco that’ll leave you questioning who’s really the a-hole in this messy situation!
The Picky Eater Dilemma

Fast Food Fiend

Salads vs. Fried Chicken

Teaching Responsible Smoking

Tantrums and Trouble

My House, My Rules

️ No Special Treatment ♂️

The Missing Weed Pen

Mediterranean Mayhem

A Stressed Wife’s Tears

Support from the Ladies

Dad’s Dilemma Advice ️

Picky Eater Pandemonium: A Father’s Day Fiasco!
Well, well, well… the internet has spoken, and boy, do they have some thoughts on this picky eater predicament! From siding with our steadfast protagonist to calling out the coddling of a grown man’s childish behavior, the responses are as diverse as J’s junk food cravings. Some argue that tough love is the only way to break this cycle of tantrums and special treatment, while others wonder if there might be deeper issues at play. But one thing’s for sure: this Father’s Day fiasco has struck a chord with many, leaving us all questioning the fine line between accommodating family and enabling entitled behavior. So, grab some popcorn and let’s dive into the juiciest reactions from the online peanut gallery!
Not the a**hole for banning tantrum-throwing brother-in-law.

Picky eater or not, acting like a toddler deserves consequences!

NTA. J’s parents should get him help. Avoiding BIL not sustainable.

Setting boundaries with entitled family member. Growth opportunity.

Negligence or picky eating? Possible sensory processing issue or developmental delay.

Grown man throws tantrum, gets banned from brother-in-law’s house.

Understanding comment highlights importance of controlling negative behavior. NAH

Asking about J’s condition, NTA, and downvotes.

Setting boundaries with picky eaters can be tough, but necessary.
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Brother-in-law is NTA, but his tantrums are concerning

Encouraging NTA comment for picky eater brother-in-law’s behavior change.

NTA. Brother-in-law’s tantrums are unacceptable, consequences justified. MIL’s parenting questioned.

Standing up to childish behavior is always NTA

No more picky eater brother-in-law allowed in the house

Uncle banned for picky eating habits. NTA parenting win!

Concerned commenter asks if brother-in-law has intellectual disability.

Understanding and empathy for a possible spectrum condition.

️ No food fights allowed: Banning picky eater for bad behaviour

Support for NTA decision, curiosity about father-in-law’s diagnosis.
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Agreeing with father’s advice, NTA handles picky eater tantrum
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Is the brother-in-law’s behavior excusable due to a disability?
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Setting boundaries with in-laws is reasonable. NTA.

NTA for banning picky eater BIL, but need to change venue. ♀️

Curious about neurodivergence, but NTA vote based on title.

Picky eater’s tantrum leads to justified ban from house. NTA

Is picky eating and tantrums a sign of autism?

Concerned commenter questions brother-in-law’s mental health

Possibility of undiagnosed autism raised, need for support emphasized.

Encouraging therapy as a condition for family functions.

Embrace your picky eating and dietary restrictions. NTA

Banning picky eater BIL for bad behavior, NTA according to comment

Spoiled brat picky eater banned from house. NTA!

Insightful comment on possible mental issues and food selectivity.

Suggesting a possible reason for his behavior with empathy. NTA ❤️

Don’t enable picky eaters, set boundaries. NTA.

Setting boundaries with a 20-year-old picky eater. NTA

Asking about brother-in-law’s condition in NTA comment section
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20-year-old throwing tantrums over food? Definitely NTA.
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NTA! Let the in-laws cater to his bratty behavior

Picky eater BIL throws tantrum, gets banned from house. NTA.

NTA stands firm against picky eater brother-in-law tantrum.

Picky eater friend group drama – NTA stands firm ️
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NTA! J needs to grow up and learn to behave

Enabling a picky eater at 20? NTA for protecting your home

Spoiled brat brother-in-law banned from house for tantrum. NTA.
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Enabling picky eaters leads to tantrums at any age.

No more tantrums allowed in the safe space! NTA

Brother-in-law’s tantrum? Definitely a toddler in an adult body. NTA

Enforce your boundaries with a calm and caring voice

Banning picky eater brother-in-law for tantrum – NTA

Picky eater throws tantrums like a child, NTA stands ground.

Compassionate picky-eater suggests family issues, supports OP’s decision

Setting boundaries with a tantrum-throwing brother-in-law

NTA for banning picky eater brother-in-law due to his tantrums.

Stand your ground! Don’t let picky eaters ruin the vibe

NTA but J needs rehab and boundaries for his tantrums.
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Stand your ground! NTA for banning temper tantrums.

Family in denial about brother-in-law’s possible intellectual disability

Respondent suggests brother-in-law may have autism; urges compassion.

Banning him won’t solve underlying issues. Be more understanding. YTA.

Setting boundaries with family is not being an a**hole.

Is J’s picky eating a sign of a developmental disorder?

Brother-in-law’s tantrum results in deserved time out from house.

Suggests brother-in-law may be autistic and needs therapy. NTA.
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Brother-in-law’s pickiness causes epic tantrum and gets him banned. NTA.

️ Don’t be a rude houseguest or you’ll get banned! NTA.

Concerned comment suggests seeking professional help for brother-in-law’s behavior.

Is it a case of NAH or ESH?

Understanding comment on possible behavioral disorder and supporting NTA.
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NTA’s sensible approach to picky eater brother-in-law’s tantrum

Suggest therapy for wife to set boundaries with brother

Concerned commenter suggests therapy for picky eater brother-in-law.

Family feud over picky eater leads to house ban

NTA bans picky eater brother-in-law from house after tantrum

Grown man acting like a toddler banned from house.

Blunt approach needed with entitled picky eater brother-in-law. NTA.
