Hey there, Facebook fam! ♀️ Have you ever had a friend who just couldn’t accept your life choices, even when they didn’t affect them? Well, buckle up because we have a wild ride of a story for you! Our protagonist was asked to be the godmother of her long-time friend Beth’s baby, but there was a catch… Beth didn’t want the baby around our protagonist’s bisexual boyfriend, Ira. Can you believe it? Now, let’s dive into this rollercoaster of a story and see how it unfolds…
Baby Drama with Beth

No Bisexual Boyfriends Allowed

Friendship on the Rocks

Homophobia Strikes

♀️ Godmother with Conditions

Friendship Over

Beth’s Breakdown

A Harsh Hangup

Calling for Backup

Monster Accusations

Was She Right to Hang Up?
Our protagonist had enough of Beth’s homophobic comments and mind games, so when Beth called her in a panic, she didn’t exactly offer a helping hand. Instead, she reminded Beth of how she treated her boyfriend and hung up on her. However, she did contact Beth’s husband and mother to make sure someone was there to help. But was that enough? ♀️ John, Beth’s husband, certainly didn’t think so and called her a monster for her actions. Was our protagonist justified in her response, or did she take it too far? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Compassionate response to postpartum depression concerns.

Standing up for a child’s safety is always the right move
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Standing up for your partner and family. NTA

NTA, block them! Beth betrayed you to her husband.

Being NTA, OP cut off a homophobic friend and got help

Support for OP’s decision to cut off homophobic friend.

Setting boundaries and supporting a friend isn’t being an a**hole

Homophobic friend’s extreme reaction to situation questioned

Friend’s homophobia puts stress on wife, NTA for setting boundaries

Compassionate OP clarifies actions in NTA post about homophobic friend.

NTA for setting boundaries with a bigot while offering help

Setting boundaries and standing up for oneself. NTA

Cutting off toxic friends is necessary for self-care

Homophobic friend refuses to help, blames OP for being ‘vile’

Being a good person means going above and beyond

Not the a**hole for distancing yourself from a homophobic friend.
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Choosing a godparent based on homophobia? NTA shuts it down ✊

Setting boundaries is not wrong. NTA made the right choice.

Supportive comment calls out homophobia and offers compassion

Compassionate response to friend’s homophobia and mental health struggles
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Standing up for mental health, NTA takes action against abuse.

Standing up to religious homophobia
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Growing apart from a friend due to differing views

Choosing not to help homophobic friend in need, NTA ️

Standing up for your partner against homophobia. NTA

Choosing compassion over hate, even for a former friend ❤️

Standing up against homophobia and toxic relationships, NTA wins!

NTA. Ended homophobic friendship, handled crisis respectfully
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Friend in crisis, but homophobia ended friendship. NTA.

Standing up to a friend’s homophobia. NTA wins.

Standing up against bigotry, but why be friends so long?

Insensitive comment leads to justified backlash from community

Cutting off a friend for homophobia is justified

Beth and her husband are bigoted a-holes. Block and move on. NTA

Supportive comment applauds OP’s decision to prioritize child’s safety.

Cutting off toxic friends is tough, but necessary

Standing up to homophobia and toxic beliefs. NTA wins

Cutting out a homophobic friend – NTA, let them burn

You’re a saint for helping someone who hurt you deeply ❤️

Setting boundaries and notifying others was the right thing.

Cutting off homophobic friend leads to emotional aftermath
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Helping a friend in need, but betrayed by homophobia.

Friend refuses to stop homophobia, expects support despite betrayal. NTA.

Standing up to homophobia and showing empathy. NTA wins

Setting boundaries with a homophobic friend. NTA
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Homophobic friend’s concerns about partner’s orientation are baseless. NTA.

Standing up to homophobia, NTA called out long-time friend’s hatefulness

Did Beth lie or is John also a jackass? NTA.

Ending a friendship after helping a homophobic friend. NTA

Standing up against homophobia and being a responsible friend ❤️

NTA. Showing grace to a homophobe’s husband earns kindness

Cutting off toxic friends is always the right decision

NTA for seeking help and showing compassion during panic attack

NTA, better off without unhinged couple. ESH for family.

Heartbreaking betrayal by homophobic friend. NTA for ending friendship.

NTA for standing up to homophobic friend. Good for you!

Cutting toxic people out of your life is self-care

Supportive comment validates OP’s decision to seek help.
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Standing up against hate and cutting out toxic friends
