Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy story of love, betrayal, and baby daddy drama that’ll have you on the edge of your seat! Our main man here is caught in a sticky situation with his cheating ex who’s about to pop out a baby that may or may not be his. He’s torn between being there for the birth and protecting his own heart from more heartbreak. Get ready for a wild ride as we dive into this messy tale of love, lies, and paternity tests!
Heartbreak and Betrayal: The Cheating Ex

Baby Daddy Drama: Who’s the Father?

⏰ Countdown to Delivery Day: The Ex’s Demands

To Be or Not to Be… in the Delivery Room

Protecting His Heart: The Tough Decision

The Ex’s Fury: Missing Milestones

♀️ Momma Drama: The Ex Goes to His Mom

♂️ Standing His Ground: Fairness After Betrayal ⚖️

Keeping His Distance: Avoiding More Heartache

♂️ The Big Question: Is He Being an A-hole?

The Verdict: Is He a Heartless A-hole or a Smart Cookie?
Well, well, well… looks like our guy is stuck between a rock and a hard place! On one hand, he wants to be there for his potential child, but on the other, he’s still reeling from his ex’s betrayal. It’s a tough call, but is he really being an a-hole for protecting himself? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! Get ready for some hot takes and sassy comebacks as we dive into the comments section!
NTA for refusing to be manipulated into missing the birth
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Opting out of watching ex give birth is acceptable.
NTA

NTA. Cheating ex should not expect support during birth.

Suggests a prenatal paternity test before entering delivery room.

Choosing not to watch ex give birth, NTA, she should respect boundaries

NTA. If it’s not his, she can’t demand his support.
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Refusing to watch ex give birth to possible non-biological child.

User questions ex’s motives for wanting him at birth.

Refusing to watch ex give birth after cheating. NTA.

Ex made her bed, NTA for refusing to watch birth

Prenatal blood test solves paternity dispute, NTA for refusing.

NTA refuses to be manipulated into signing birth documents. ♂️

Ex cheated, invites to delivery, NTA for refusing attendance

Potential hidden agenda behind the ex’s request?

It’s his choice, but he shouldn’t blame her later. NTA

No sympathy for cheaters. Verify paternity before making decisions.

NTA. She did the wrong thing and you’re not at fault.

Being there for the birth is more about supporting the mother ❤️

Missing birth of maybe-baby from ex who hurt you? NTA.

Respectful boundaries set, NTA for not watching ex give birth.

Supportive reply to ex-partner giving birth alone.

NTA has the right to refuse watching ex give birth ♂️. Suggests contacting other potential baby daddy.

NTA. She should have done the test when asked
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NTA. The comment suggests the child may not be his.

User doubts ex’s fidelity and suggests getting paternity test ASAP.

NTA! Protect yourself legally before being in the hospital.
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Being cautious about paternity test, not obligated to witness childbirth. ♂️

If the baby’s not his, NTA for refusing to be there.

NTA. She made her bed and now has to lie in it. ♂️

Don’t be put on birth certificate before DNA test. NTA

Hope it’s not yours, NTA for not wanting to be there ♂️

NTA. Suspicious behavior from ex regarding paternity. Broken trust.

Demanding a paternity test before attending the birth.

Avoiding the delivery room to dodge child support? NTA wins

Don’t feel pressured to witness a baby’s birth that may not be yours. Trust your intuition.

Get a lawyer to plan for paternity test. NTA.
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Being there for the birth of a non-biological child: Legal implications

Mother’s blood can be used for DNA test, she should do it. NTA.

Avoid the trap, NTA. Wait till paternity is confirmed.

NTA. Suggests DNA test before supporting ex during childbirth.

Protect yourself ✅. Don’t sign anything until you’re sure

Women manipulating men to watch birth to overlook cheating.

Bargaining chip: NTA. Agree to be there *IF* paternity test done.

Don’t attend the birth, it’s emotional and she’s manipulating you. ♂️

Father shares his experience and supports OP’s decision. NTA

Refusing to be present at birth without paternity test. NTA.

Hopeful NTA comment empathizes with OP’s situation.

NTA not willing to watch ex’s baby that may not be his.

Mother-in-law should be in the delivery room, not the ex-partner

No obligation to support someone who betrayed you. ♂️

NTA, she can get a paternity test now. End of story

Insisting on a paternity test before support – reasonable or not?
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Don’t act as a father figure or you could be on the hook for child support. Run away ♂️

NTA for refusing to support ex who cheated on you.

Pre-natal DNA test can solve it all. NTA.

NTA declines ex’s request to witness birth, avoids added drama. ♂️

NTA and logical approach to a manipulative ex. Best wishes!

Trust your instincts, NTA. She made her bed

Supportive comment on NTA’s decision not to attend ex’s birth.

Protect yourself legally and verify paternity before signing birth certificate.

Real father not obligated to watch ex give birth. NTA
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NTA for refusing to watch ex give birth. Sympathies for situation.

Set boundaries and prioritize your well-being. Good luck ahead!

NTA. Possible paternity fraud and manipulation. Why not call the cheater?

NTA. Be there for the paternity test, not the birth.

Prenatal paternity test could have avoided this messy situation

Woman thinks baby isn’t his, he refuses to watch birth. NTA.

Protect yourself, get a paternity test before being in delivery.
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Choosing not to be at the birth due to infidelity

Being in the delivery room doesn’t define fatherhood

Insisting on a pre-natal DNA test to attend birth. NTA.

Paternity test can solve the issue. NTA
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NTA suspects ex’s trap, suggests communication only through lawyer and DNA test.
