I Told My BF I’ll Get an Abortion Unless He Cuts Off His Racist Mom

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a wild ride ahead! Meet our fierce protagonist, a 23-year-old woman who’s been dating her college sweetheart for 8 months. They’ve got big news to share with his mom… she’s pregnant! But hold on tight, because this story is about to take a shocking turn that’ll leave you speechless! Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions, drama, and some seriously messed up family dynamics. Trust me, you won’t want to miss a single juicy detail!

Shocking Revelation: My BF’s Mom Called Me the N-Word!

Big News: I’m Pregnant… But His Mom Hates Me!

If Looks Could Kill… His Mom Gave Me the Death Stare!

No Food for the ‘Negro’? His Mom’s Shocking Racism Revealed!

Plot Twist: I Secretly Understand Spanish… And Heard Every Hurtful Word!

️ One Plate for Two? BF’s Lame Attempt to Smooth Things Over

Bathroom Breakdown: Confronting My BF About His Mom’s Racism

‍♀️ BF’s Ridiculous Excuse: ‘She Doesn’t Normally See Black People Like That’

Ultimatum: Correct Your Mom’s Racism or I’m Getting an Abortion!

Threatened Breakup: BF Acting Like a Mama’s Boy

Update: I’ve Decided to Get an Abortion

‍♀️ I’m Not Mentally Ill for Choosing Abortion!

Thank You for the Advice, But I Won’t Be Shamed!

Pro-Lifers, Back Off! Your Insults Won’t Change My Mind!

️ Stop Shaming Women for Their Choices!

Pro-Lifers, Get Over It and Get a Life!

Pro-Lifers Love to Throw Insults, But Don’t Even Adopt!

Let Women Make Their Own Choices!

Racism, Ultimatums, and a Heartbreaking Decision!

Well, well, well… this story has more twists and turns than a soap opera! Our girl thought she was in for a sweet meet-the-parents moment, but instead, she got slapped with a heaping dose of racism from her BF’s mom! Can you believe the audacity of this woman, calling her the N-word and refusing to let her eat? ‍♀️ And don’t even get me started on the BF’s lame excuse… ‘She doesn’t normally see black people like that’? ‍♀️ Give me a break! Our fierce protagonist wasn’t about to let this slide, so she gave her man an ultimatum: fix your mom’s racist ways or I’m getting an abortion! Talk about a power move! But wait, there’s more! After some soul-searching, our girl has decided to go through with the abortion, and she’s not letting anyone shame her for it! ‍♀️ You tell ’em, sis! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild ride…

NTA. Having a racist MIL, a BF with no backbone, and then bringing a child into the mix would make one consider an abortion.

Navigating family dynamics with racist in-laws

BF’s failure to defend against racism is a major red flag

Cut the man child loose and good luck with your decision

Think twice before having a baby with a non-defending BF

NTA, but it’s evident that you’re not ready to be a parent. Consider terminating.

Stand up for yourself and your child, forget the racist MIL.

Defending partner from racism, won’t subject child to dehumanization

Cutting off racist MIL for abortion? NTA, life will be hell

Don’t have a baby with that man, protect yourself

NTA. Commenter advises OP to get an abortion and leave boyfriend.

User urges OP to get an abortion for right reasons

Racist MIL and unsupportive BF. Protect yourself. NTA

Cultural differences make it hard to cut off in-laws

Racism in-laws ruins relationships. Don’t start a family here.

Being pro-choice doesn’t justify conditioning fatherhood on mother’s behavior

Standing up against racism and prioritizing the safety of your child

Supportive comment urging OP to prioritize her future over a toxic family.

Empathetic comment acknowledges the tough situation and condemns racism

Think twice before ultimatums. Kids are permanent, relationships aren’t.

User advocates for abortion over racist in-laws, using slang.

Get out of the relationship and do what’s best for you. NTA.

Father-to-be’s self-centeredness raises concerns for child’s future

Supportive comment applauds OP’s decision to prioritize her own well-being.

Avoid a momma’s boy or face racist grandma battles

Perhaps having a kid isn’t the best idea right now

A grateful woman on not having a child with toxic family

Consider his and his mother’s attitude towards a mixed-race child.

Empathetic support for breaking free from toxic relationship.

Choose wisely to avoid a racist grandmother for your child

NTA. Don’t date a guy who tolerates racism.

Supportive comment encourages woman to leave toxic relationship

Dumping a racist partner is an easy decision #NTA

Mixed-race commenter supports OP’s decision to cut off racist MIL ✊

Supportive comment urges to leave toxic relationship, offers encouragement and hugs

Choosing to have an abortion due to racism, NTA. Ex couldn’t stand up to mom, not ready to be a father.

User advises OP to consider being a single parent carefully

Choosing between partner and racist family as a Black woman ‍♀️

Empathetic support for woman choosing her own path.

User recommends abortion and breakup due to partner’s behavior.

Cutting off racist family members: NTA wins the day

Bold stance on cutting off toxic family for personal well-being.

Pro-choice advice on making a tough decision with a racist MIL.

NTA stands up against racism and toxic family dynamics

NTA, but bad decisions lead to disaster

Dump the BF for not protecting you from his racist mom

Encouraging support for OP’s decision to prioritize her well-being.

Supportive comment calls out anti-abortion judgmental a**holes.

NTA, but ultimatums aren’t a healthy way to solve problems

NTA, leave that spineless dude and focus on yourself

Cutting off racist mom or abortion? NTA faces tough choice.

Empathetic support from an internet mom for OP’s tough decision

Supportive comment with clever compliment and humorous insult.

Regretful advice to avoid having a baby with a bad partner

Protecting your child from racism is more important than pleasing family NTA

Consider the long-term impact of staying with a racist family. NTA

Choosing an abortion over racist family, NTA. Focus on education.

NTA. Dump him and get the abortion. Yeet his baby.

BF should have communicated mother’s racism before moving in

Dump the boyfriend, he accepts racism and won’t stand with you.

User disagrees with using abortion as a tactic for control.

Surprise pregnancy and racism – a recipe for family drama

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize her well-being.

Dump him! If he can’t defend you, he’s not worth it

Supportive comment, congratulating OP on standing up for herself and her child.

Empathetic comment supports difficult decision about abortion

Racism can cause lasting trauma, cutting toxic people is necessary

Empathetic comment supporting abortion decision and personal autonomy.

Supportive commenter shares personal experience and encourages personal choice.

NTA. Your BF needs to grow a pair and cut off his racist mom.

NTA. If he won’t stick up for you, he won’t for child.

Supportive comment, acknowledges the situation and offers hope

Supportive comment, wishing the best of luck.

Choosing a life without hate. NTA, not now.

Harsh criticism of OP’s ultimatum to BF about abortion.

Choosing to prioritize your and your future child’s well-being.

Take control of your life and make the best decision ✌️

Abortion should not be used as a weapon in relationships.