I REFUSE To Let My BF Call My House ‘Ours’ – Am I Being Selfish?

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of a newly single mom who just scored her dream house and is ready to start fresh. But wait, there’s a twist! Her boyfriend of two years is getting a little too comfy, calling it “our” house and leaving his stuff everywhere. Is he trying to sneakily move in? ️‍♂️ Or is our leading lady just not ready to share her space? ‍♀️ Get ready for some serious boundary-pushing drama!

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‘Our’ House, ‘Our’ Bed, ‘Our’ Kids… Hold Up!

When the Kids Are Away, the Boyfriend Wants to Play

Boyfriend Gets Heated Over ‘Ours’ Debate

‍♀️ Am I Being Selfish for Not Wanting to Share? ‍♀️

Supportive Comments Lead to Solo Soul-Searching ‍♀️

Packing Up His Stuff for Some Much-Needed Me Time!

Boyfriend Overstepping Boundaries or Loving Gesture Gone Wrong?

Well, well, well… looks like our leading lady is in quite the pickle! She’s finally got her dream home , but her boyfriend seems to think it’s “our” house now. He’s leaving his stuff everywhere and always hanging around when the kids are gone. She just wants some alone time, but he’s not having it! The internet has spoken, and it’s clear she needs to set some serious boundaries. Let’s see what the masses have to say about this boundary-pushing beau! ️

Enforcing boundaries in a relationship is important.

NTA. Concerns for BF’s living situation, nesting & pushiness. Be careful OP.

Be careful, he might gain tenancy and become difficult to evict

How about setting boundaries and having some ‘me time’?

Don’t let him control your home. Make him leave. NTA.

Concerned commenter questions why OP is with unstable partner.

Dump him! Not worth the red flags or sex.

Protecting yourself and kids is not selfish. End it. NTA.

Concerned commenter warns OP not to let her addict BF take advantage.

Establishing boundaries with a ‘hobosexual’ BF – NTA

Harsh truth: he won’t change, consider leaving.

Red flag alert! Commenter calls out manipulative language tactics.

Setting boundaries is important. NTA.

Red flag alert! Relationship not progressing to desired future.

Your boyfriend seems to be trying to move in. NTA.

Setting boundaries is important for your and your children’s safety.

Age and career interests raise concerns about the man’s intentions

Setting boundaries in a relationship – NTA for standing firm

Consider red flags, mental health, and future children before committing.

Sarcastic warning about potential squatter boyfriend. Move on, sis.

Enforcing boundaries and owning your house is NTA

Setting boundaries is important. NTA’s partner’s reaction is concerning. ⚠️

Setting boundaries with partner over shared living space.

Protect your home and your children from addiction and toxicity

Recovering alcoholic offers advice on BF’s manipulative behavior. Leave him.

Suggests time apart to help partner see the seriousness

Alcohol misuse red flag. Sobriety and sponsor chip first priority

Prioritize yourself and kids, set boundaries, avoid unnecessary headache

Setting boundaries is important. NTA. Dodging a bullet

Is it really about the house or the relationship issues?

Red flag boundary stomper established as resident. Get therapy ASAP.

Red flags and manipulation – time to end the relationship?

Protect your space! Set boundaries with your possessive boyfriend

Protect your home and family – consult an attorney

BF is moving in without officially moving in. Stop him!

Red flags: OP’s BF leaving valuables, getting packages delivered. Toxic relationship.

Setting boundaries in a relationship is important for everyone involved

Harsh but necessary advice for someone in a toxic relationship.

Protect your boundaries and take control of your home!

Red flags Get him out if not sober & in AA

Be cautious, he may legally become a tenant without notice

Set boundaries early on in a relationship

Harsh truth with a dash of sarcasm. ESH

Don’t let anyone destabilize your life, NTA

Protect your property and boundaries to avoid future problems

Choosing a partner with mental health and addiction issues – NTA

Don’t deal with people who don’t take no for an answer

Don’t settle for less, prioritize yourself.

Setting boundaries is important when it comes to sharing space

A warning of the dangerous situation the OP is in

Boundaries are important in any relationship. NTA

Don’t let him stake his claim too soon

Stand up for your boundaries and kick him out. NTA.

Putting yourself and your children first is key to happiness

Concerned comment calls out problematic relationship –

Setting boundaries with an addict ex-partner

Break it off before he manipulates and pushes his way in.

Concerns raised about boyfriend’s mental and alcohol issues

NTA. Beware of manipulative behavior and take a break.

A cautionary warning about dating someone with an ‘alcohol problem’

User calls out OP’s ‘hobosexual leach’ of a boyfriend

Beware of tenancy laws! Don’t let him establish tenancy. Change locks

Protect your home and your heart. Don’t let him in!

Protect your children and yourself from toxic living situations.

Boundaries are important. NTA. ‍♀️

Dating an alcoholic parent as a child-free person is risky.

Concerned commenter advises ending unhealthy relationship due to age and past.

Be cautious of an active addict’s words and actions.

Red flag recognized and practical advice given. Protect your assets!

User questions partner’s maturity, advises to stand up for self. NTA

From dislike to like: ownership in relationships ❤

Setting boundaries with possessive partner can lead to controlling behavior

Red flags: Mental health/alcohol abuse issues and passive moving in

NTA. Numerous red flags indicate low value male. End it.

Take back your space, NTA. Pack his things and communicate clearly.

Protect your space! ‍♀️ Keep your house yours.

Take control of your relationship with a firm but fair message ✊

Single mom defends her right to call her house her own

Taking control and setting boundaries with a ‘hobosexual’ boyfriend.