Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a heart-wrenching tale that’s sure to leave you on the edge of your seat. A loving couple’s world is turned upside down when tragedy strikes, leaving them facing an impossible decision. Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions as we dive into this gripping story of love, loss, and the ultimate test of a marriage. Can this couple overcome the odds and find a way forward? Let’s find out!
A Devastating Dilemma: Raising a Child Born from Trauma
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Tragedy Strikes: Wife Becomes Victim of Heinous Crime
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Bombshell News: Wife is Pregnant from Assailant
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♂️ Husband’s Hesitation: Raising the Child of an Attacker
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Fears of Resentment: The Challenges of Raising a Child Born from Violence
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A Conditional Agreement: Husband’s Terms for Raising the Child
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Deal Breaker: Wife Refuses Husband’s Conditions
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Husband’s Desire for a Biological Child: A Non-Negotiable
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♀️ Wife’s Final Decision: No More Children
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️ Divided Opinions: Family and Friends Weigh In ♂️
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The Elephant in the Room: Racial Differences and the Child’s Appearance
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Husband’s Racial Background: A Contrast to the Unborn Child
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Husband’s Ultimatum: Raise Assailant’s Child or Divorce?
Well, well, well… this story has more twists and turns than a soap opera! Our poor wife has been through hell and back, and now she’s faced with the impossible decision of raising her attacker’s child. Meanwhile, her husband is laying down some serious ultimatums. He’ll only raise the kid if he can treat it like a stepchild and have a biological baby of his own later on. Talk about a rock and a hard place! To make matters even more complicated, the unborn child’s racial background is a stark contrast to the husband’s. It’s a mess, y’all! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild situation…
Protecting your child from the rapist – NTA

Don’t wait, divorce her. Your sister’s adoption idea is stupid.

User defends OP’s decision to not want to be involved.

NAH. You’re not required to raise your wife’s assault baby. File for divorce and request a paternity test.

Sending positive vibes and hope for a happy future. ❤

NTA commenter questions if SA was reported and perpetrator caught.

Deciding to raise or divorce over non-biological child: NTA.

Legal complexities of surrogate fatherhood contracts explained

Divorce now to avoid being legally liable for assault baby

Divorce laws and custody battles complicate this already difficult situation.

User warns husband of potential trauma for assault baby. NAH.

A difficult situation with no clear villain. Best wishes ❤️

Professional therapy needed to navigate grief and trauma.

Supportive comment encourages therapy and empathy for traumatized wife.

Navigating legal paternity can be tricky. NAH for now.

Debate on using ‘SA’ instead of ‘rape’. NAH, difficult topic.

User believes traumatized wife’s baby is better off without father.

Strong condemnation of husband’s ultimatum and suggested solution.

Suggests AH leaves traumatized wife as they can’t support her.
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NTA called out for potential mistreatment of assault baby.

Complicated legal issues at play, seek professional help ASAP!

Heartbreaking comment on a husband’s ultimatum, suggesting divorce.

Husband’s ultimatum reveals abusive and selfish behavior

Supportive comment highlights the consequences of abandoning traumatized wife.

Heartbreaking story of a traumatized assault survivor abandoned by husband.

The commenter empathizes with OP’s wife and her difficult situation.

Husband’s ultimatum to traumatized pregnant wife – not okay

Redditor sympathizes with wife, calls out husband’s ultimatum. NAH.

Husband pressures traumatized wife to have another baby, called out for abuse

A comment calling out the husband’s ultimatum and highlighting the importance of treating the child well.

Reader calls out OP’s ultimatum, defends wife’s decision to keep baby.

NTA, but protect yourself legally and emotionally with a paternity test.

Incompatibility and empathy in dealing with a traumatic situation. ❤️

NAH but child will notice you want nothing to do with them

Compassionate comment defends wife and unborn child from ultimatum

Commit or leave: no half-assing raising a child that’s not yours.

User calls out husband’s ultimatum as insensitive and ego-driven.

Pregnancy loss is traumatic; OP is an a-hole for ultimatum.
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Supportive comment encourages husband to consider wife’s trauma and vows ❤️

Encouraging seeking help for SA survivor. Don’t be selfish.

Be prepared for a legal battle if you keep the baby

Fierce favoritism and unfairness towards stepchild. NTA.

Husband refuses to raise non-bio baby after wife’s assault. YTA.

YTA. Husband gives ultimatum to traumatized wife after SA pregnancy.

User calls out husband’s ultimatum, urges therapy for both, YTA.

User calls out husband for being unsupportive and selfish. YTA.

Choosing DNA over a traumatized wife’s baby is a**hole move.

A scathing YTA comment calling out lack of empathy and concern

User calls out husband for immaturity and lays out reasoning.

Insensitive comment suggests leaving traumatized wife, internet disagrees

Avoiding trauma and raising a family needs empathy, not ultimatums.

Supportive comment urges leaving abusive husband to prepare for baby alone.

Marriage involves ‘for better or worse.’ Man up. ❤️

Divorce advice for traumatized wife’s ultimatum situation, NTA.

Heartbreaking situation, child needs love and support despite circumstances. ❤️

States need to change laws on financial responsibility. Beware ancestry sites.

Empathy for the wife, criticism for the husband. Divorce not solution.

Compatibility issues on having children, a dealbreaker for relationships.

Prioritize your own well-being and avoid resentment towards the child

Couple at a crossroads: to raise or not to raise?

Disbelief and lack of empathy towards SA victim

Choosing to have children is a big deal, NTA.
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A powerful reminder that parenting requires commitment and sacrifice. ❤️

Respectful and wise decision to enforce boundaries for tragic situation

NTA advises cutting ties before baby’s born for both’s sake.

NTA. Raising SAer’s child? Know child support laws and pros/cons.

A warning about child support and fatherhood responsibilities.

Insensitive comment suggests victim-blaming and lacks empathy

Survivor of SA receives support for her choice to raise baby.

NTA. Honest communication is key. Divorce may be necessary.

Clear NTA verdict, with practical advice for child support concerns.

Compromise failed. NTA for wanting out of marriage without baby.

Navigating trauma and parenthood, NAH suggests amicable separation.

Reader questions accountability of the perpetrator and mother’s nonchalance.

NTA for leaving if she keeps assault baby & no bio kid

Victim-blaming is never okay, educate yourself

Choosing to raise an assault baby is a tough decision
