Husband Agreed to Raise Niece & Nephew, NEVER Told Wife! Now They’re BARELY Speaking

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of secrets, promises, and family drama that’ll make your jaw drop! Our protagonist, let’s call him ‘Uncle Hush-Hush’ , made a life-changing decision years ago that he kept hidden from his wife. Now, with tragedy striking and responsibilities piling up, the truth is out! Will his marriage survive this bombshell? Let’s dive in and find out! ‍♂️

The Secret Guardian Agreement

Auntie & Uncle to the Rescue! ‍♀️ ‍♂️

The Promise

Tying the Knot, No Kids Allowed

The Untold Truth

Tragedy Strikes

Helping Hands

Securing the Future

Agreeing to the Trusts ✅

The Shocking Revelation

Brother’s Worries

️ The Talk

The Hypothetical Question ❓

The Harsh Reality Check

The Accusation

The Secret That Shattered a Marriage!

Well, well, well… looks like Uncle Hush-Hush is in some hot water! He thought he could keep his guardian agreement a secret from his wife, but fate had other plans. With his SIL’s unexpected passing and his brother updating the will , the cat’s out of the bag! His wife is furious , and their marriage is on the rocks. But wait, there’s more! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama!

Proper communication is key! YTA for not disclosing earlier.

Husband in trouble for hiding major life decision from wife

Man hides being a guardian for kids from wife. YTA confirmed

No asterisk for no kids. YTA for guilt-tripping wife.

Wife rightfully upset after husband springs unexpected guardianship on her

Husband and wife’s differing views on children could end marriage. YTA

Husband broke agreement to raise kids without discussing with wife

Husband’s secret decision puts wife in tough spot. YTA.

User calls out OP for calling wife selfish, suggests taking kids on a short trip to understand their grief. YTA.

Husband hides niece and nephew from wife, gets called out YTA

Not disclosing a major life decision = YTA

Husband’s omission of raising kids resulted in a heated argument.

Husband agreed to raise two kids without telling wife? YTA

Husband wanted to raise niece and nephew, didn’t tell wife. YTA

Did he forget or purposely hide it? Judgment depends. No kids, no responsibility.

Lack of communication caused a rift. YTA.

Making life-changing decisions for others without their consent? YTA

User calls out husband for being TA for not discussing taking in kids with his wife, and pressuring her to relent.

Husband lied to wife about raising kids, calls her selfish. YTA

OP refuses to compromise and expects wife to suck it up. YTA ‍♀️

Husband should have told wife about raising kids. YTA

Husband lied to wife about raising kids, now calls her names

Husband’s secret guardianship agreement with niece causes marital rift

Husband wants wife to raise niece and nephew, YTA according to comment.

YTA should have told wife before marriage. Time to apologize

Husband’s secret decision to raise niece and nephew enrages wife

Husband hides major family decision from wife, gets rightfully called out. YTA

CF commenter calls out husband for lying to his wife

Not telling your spouse about a major life decision is wrong

Husband’s failure to communicate leads to marital tension. YTA.

Hiding major agreement = YTA. No manipulation allowed

A nuanced take on the ‘child-free’ debate and a shocking update.

ESH commenter empathizes with OP’s wife but acknowledges the difficult situation

Husband left out a big detail and now he’s TA

Dealbreaker alert! Husband’s silence on kids leads to marital discord

YTA for not telling wife about raising niece and nephew

CF spouse’s perspective on undisclosed child-rearing leads to YTA judgement.

Wife reconsidering marriage due to husband’s lack of communication

YTA for not seeing your wife’s perspective

User judges the husband to be TA but wife also sucks a bit

Husband kept raising niece and nephew a secret from wife. YTA.

User calls out husband for being TA in unexpected twist

Husband refuses to take responsibility for not telling wife. YTA

YTA for lying to your wife. Own up to your mistake

Married woman calls out husband for keeping major decision secret

Husband’s secret decision to raise niece & nephew in marriage, YTA.

Wife wasn’t given a choice about raising niece & nephew

YTA for lying about raising kids without wife’s consent

Red flag! YTA move. No discussion, no agreement with spouse.

Husband’s lie about raising niece and nephew jeopardizes marriage. YTA.

Yikes! Husband’s decision to not tell wife backfires big time

OP is TA for not discussing guardianship with their spouse

Husband failed to communicate about raising niece and nephew. YTA.

Husband kept niece & nephew a secret from wife, YTA

Keeping guardianship secret from wife is selfish and wrong

Honesty is key. YTA should apologize & offer easy divorce

Husband agrees to raise niece & nephew without wife’s knowledge

Red flag : Husband made huge decision without consulting wife

Husband’s secret decision to raise kids, BIG betrayal of wife.

Husband lied by omission and called wife selfish. YTA

OP was TA for volunteering their wife without her consent

Deceitful husband gets called out for lying about raising kids

OP blindsided wife by agreeing to raise niece and nephew without discussion ⚠️

Red flag! Communication is key in a marriage

Husband’s secret responsibility causing marital problems. YTA for pushing it.

Husband’s secret agreement to raise kids leads to marital strife ‍♂️

User calls out OP for hypocrisy in raising blood relatives only.

User calls out husband for being selfish and breaking agreement.

OP is the a**hole for not telling his wife about the kids.

Agreeing to raise kids without spouse’s consent is a**hole move

Yikes! One mistake could cost him his marriage!

Redditor asks for judgment but can’t handle the truth

Childfree woman calls out husband for not communicating about raising kids

Redditor calls out OP’s edit blaming Reddit for consequences.

YTA for not telling your wife and playing the victim

Deceived wife is rightfully furious and deserves better.

Husband lied to wife about raising kids, YTA according to commenter.

Man lied to wife about raising niece and nephew, YTA.

Husband accused of wasting wife’s life- YTA for not telling.

Husband hides raising two kids from wife, claims it ‘shouldn’t matter’

Harsh judgement on husband’s lack of respect and communication.

User calls out husband for lying by omission. YTA

Husband lied about raising kids, wife justified in divorcing him

Husband broke ‘no kids’ rule, needs to make peace with wife