Imagine losing your precious 7-month-old baby to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) and then discovering that your husband has given away some of your baby’s belongings to his unsupportive sister without your knowledge. This heart-wrenching story is about a grieving mother who is trying to find comfort in her baby’s belongings, only to have them taken away by her husband to help his sister. With emotions running high, our protagonist faces conflict with her husband and his family, leading to a situation that will leave you feeling a mix of sympathy and anger.
The Unthinkable Tragedy

Endless Questions

Healthy and Happy Baby

Finding Comfort

The Heartbreaking Task

Insensitive Remarks

Unimaginable Pain

Limiting Contact

Mysterious Box Search

Missing Belongings

The Shocking Truth

Helping His Sister?

Yelling at Hubby

Feeling Awful

Demanding Everything Back

Family Arguments

Upset Husband

Grieving Mom’s Belongings Given Away
Our heartbroken mother is struggling to cope with the loss of her 7-month-old son to SIDS. As she tries to find comfort in her baby’s belongings, she discovers that her husband has given away some of their son’s clothes to his unsupportive sister without telling her. This leads to a heated argument between the couple, as well as with the husband’s family, who call the grieving mother controlling and bitter. The husband believes he was just trying to help his sister, who has a 5-month-old baby and two older kids, but the mother feels betrayed and demands everything back. As the conflict unfolds, the husband becomes upset and refuses to discuss the matter further. Will the family ever find a resolution to this heart-wrenching situation? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional rollercoaster…
Husband gave away deceased son’s clothes without consent. Commenter empathizes.

Heartbroken mother shares grief and anger over husband’s actions.

Grieving mother deserves respect and empathy. NTA.

Compassionate response to grieving mother’s husband giving away son’s clothes.

Mother expresses anger towards husband’s actions and SIL’s behavior. NTA.

Heartless husband gives away deceased son’s clothes without consent

Heartbreaking loss, unsympathetic husband. NTA for being upset.

Husband’s betrayal and refusal to communicate leads to marriage breakdown

NTA: Husband gave away deceased son’s clothes to hurtful sister-in-law

Grieving mother shares how she still holds onto deceased child’s belongings

Heartless husband gives away deceased son’s clothes without consent
NTA, fight for what’s rightfully yours.

Heartbroken mother receives support after husband gives away son’s clothes

Redditor struggles to decide if mother or husband is not the a**hole

Supportive comment suggests seeking therapy and relationship advice

Empathetic commenter urges grieving mother to confront husband for closure.

Supportive comment – Woman calls out husband’s actions and suggests consequences.

Compassionate comment offers condolences and suggests grief counseling. ❤️

Respectful disagreement on moving on from deceased son’s clothes

Deceased son’s clothes given away without consent – NTA
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Heartbroken mother receives virtual support after husband’s insensitive actions

Spouse gave away son’s clothes without consent – coping advice

Compassionate response suggests seeking therapy for heartbreaking situation.

Supportive commenter recommends moving out after husband’s insensitive act.

Grieving parent offers advice on coping with loss through kindness ❤️

Heartbroken mother advised to take action and seek counseling.

Supportive comment validates mother’s anger towards husband’s insensitive actions.
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Understanding different ways of coping with grief, NAH in relationship.

Grieving mother rightfully upset over husband’s actions

Husband gave away deceased son’s clothes without consent, NAH situation.

Compassionate comment acknowledges pain and criticizes husband’s actions.

Supportive comment suggests therapy to navigate husband’s behavior. ❤

Compassionate comment acknowledges grief and suggests empathy for both parents.

Couple needs grief counseling to move forward after tragic loss ❤

Grieving mother seeks therapy, husband not an a**hole in NAH situation ❤

Prioritize therapy and communication over material possessions. NTA.

Heartbreaking loss, unsupportive husband. NTA. Find peace ❤️

No empathy for the husband’s heartless actions
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Respect the grieving process . Return the baby’s belongings.
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NTA commenter warns of red flags, shares a cautionary tale.

Heartbroken mother receives support after husband gives away son’s clothes

Heartless husband gets called out for disrespecting deceased son’s belongings

Husband’s lack of support and sister’s accusations cause turmoil. NTA

Insensitive husband gives away deceased son’s clothes without consent

Spouse gives away deceased son’s clothes without consent. Commenter sympathizes

Heartfelt support from commenter, empathizing with the OP’s grief and anger ❤

Compassionate commenters express sympathy for mother’s heartbreaking loss

Supportive comment: Stand up for yourself and your morals NTA.
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User offers sympathy and suggests legal action against SIL and husband.

SIL has older kids, why no hand-me-downs? Husband is spineless

Seeking professional help is crucial in this sensitive situation

Condolences to OP, who is NTA, and a vote to throw away the family

Reddit offers support and advice to heartbroken mother.

Compassionate commenter empathizes with mother’s loss and condemns husband’s actions.

Grieving mother accused of being controlling for wanting to keep deceased son’s clothes
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Grieving mother struggles to connect with husband after son’s death

Mother defends father’s actions, calls out insensitive sister-in-law. NTA

Moving on from a loss is hard. NTA for giving away clothes

NTA: Get your stuff back and leave husband at his sister’s

Mother’s justified anger at husband’s heartless actions

Spouse’s absence during family conflict earns commenter’s support. ✌

Heartbreaking story of a mother’s pain and family’s emotional incompetence.

Losing a child to SIDS is painful. Seek support

Supportive comment empathizes with grieving mother after family conflict

Respondent sympathizes with mother and suggests petty revenge.

Supportive comment calls out husband’s insensitive behavior.

Husband gives away son’s clothes without consent. Wife angry.

Husband gave away deceased son’s clothes without consent. Heartless move. NTA.

Heartbreaking story of a grieving mother and husband’s betrayal ❤️
