Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, weight loss, and a boyfriend who might just be a few fries short of a Happy Meal. Meet our 19-year-old heroine, who’s been battling the bulge since forever. She’s no stranger to the yo-yo dieting game, but this time, her beau’s ‘helpful’ suggestions have left her feeling more than a little hungry for answers. Is he a caring partner or a calorie-counting creep? Let’s dive in and find out!
Trouble in Paradise: Boyfriend Suggests Starving for Love

From Fab to Flab: High School Weight Loss Journey

Stress Eating Strikes Back: Pounds Pile On

To Eat or Not to Eat: Current Calorie Conundrum

Foodie at Heart: Eating Without Overeating

♀️ Compliments or Lies? Insecurity Creeps In

Boyfriend’s Shocking Suggestion: Starve Yourself Skinny!

Love or Starvation? Questioning Boyfriend’s Care

⚠️ Update: Boyfriend’s 500 Calorie Meal Plan

Hungry? Just Drink Water, He Says!

Boyfriend’s Apology: Just Trying to Help? ♂️

Did I Overreact? Second Guessing Myself

Boyfriend’s Starvation Suggestion Leaves Girlfriend Hangry for Answers!
Well, well, well… looks like our girl’s boyfriend has some pretty ‘interesting’ ideas about weight loss. Apparently, the key to shedding those pesky pounds is to just stop eating altogether! Brilliant, right? ♀️ But wait, it gets better! If hunger strikes, just chug some water and you’ll be fine. Hmm… something tells me this guy might not be the sharpest tool in the shed. Our heroine poured her heart out, sharing her past struggles with food and body image, but boyfriend dearest just wants her to be ‘happy’ (read: skinny). Now, she’s left wondering if she overreacted. What do you think, internet? Is this a case of tough love or just plain old dumb advice? ️ Let’s see what the masses have to say!
Dump the boyfriend, seek help from a dietitian and therapist

Dump the weight, not yourself, you deserve better

Dump him now! His behavior is creepy and unhealthy

Body-shaming boyfriend? Dump him, love yourself!

Break it off directly instead of silent treatment. NTA

Body shaming and pressuring to lose weight? Get out!

Former ED sufferer empathizes with OP, calls out BF’s behavior

Body shaming? Time to dump him! NTA
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Dump him! Your health is more important than his body standards

Don’t settle for someone who feeds on your insecurities

Empowering response to controlling weight comment.

Don’t starve yourself for this jackass

Encouraging response to unhealthy relationship and potential health concern

Dump him and find someone who appreciates you as you are

Dump the toxic boyfriend and prioritize a healthier lifestyle

Love yourself first! Dump him if he can’t accept you. ❤

Body-shaming and controlling behavior. NTA, leave him

Fasting = weight loss. NTA suggests effective, healthy approach.

Defending fasting as a healthy weight-loss option. YTA not clear.

Intermittent fasting ≠ starving. First world problems, SMH Americans

Empathetic comment encourages self-love and respecting boundaries.
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It’s okay to feel insecure about your body, but don’t give up on your relationship over this. He probably just wants to help.

Shaming someone’s weight is never okay

Encouraging reply from someone who’s been there, urging to leave him

OMAD as a reasonable long-term diet strategy

BMI controversy sparks transatlantic debate in comments

Body shaming disguised as preference is a red flag

Body shaming and encouraging disordered behavior is a red flag

Self-love is key, seek therapy for a healthy perspective. NTA ❤

Don’t stick around for someone who wants you unhealthily skinny

Body shaming boyfriend – she deserves someone who loves her unconditionally

Dump the piece of s**t and seek professional help.

Body positivity and self-love over toxic relationship demands

Dump the trash bf and focus on healthy habits

Controlling what you eat is a red flag for abuse

Leave that toxic relationship. You deserve better.

Supportive comment against unhealthy weight loss and toxic behavior.

Dump him and find someone who loves you for you!

Empathetic response to toxic behavior, encourage leaving the relationship.

Embrace your body and don’t settle for toxic standards

Body-shaming isn’t the answer. Healthy habits and self-love are

Dump him! Your worth is not determined by the scale

Dump him and ghost him! Starvation is dangerous! You’re NTA

Fasting isn’t starvation, but watch out for liquid calories
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Fasting can be healthy, but don’t let anyone shame you.

Educate your ignorant boyfriend or leave the toxic relationship

Engaging and informative reply with weight loss tips

NTA, leave the guy. He values aesthetics over your health

Dump his a** and hit the gym for a happier you

Don’t let anyone bring you down. Seek help if needed.

Dump the loser and have a snack! You deserve better

Stand up for yourself and your health, but consider clarification.

Don’t starve yourself for a guy who wants to change you

Body-shaming boyfriend is a huge loser, don’t starve yourself

Body shaming? Nah. Red flags? Absolutely.

Dump him! He’s the a-hole for body-shaming

Toxic ex pushed her into disordered eating, glad she left

Don’t listen to him! You’re perfect just the way you are ditch the loser

Navigating insecurity and weight loss concerns, with a possible a**hole

Encouraging response to body-shaming partner with self-care advice

Find real love. Let him go and never understand it

Dump the toxic boyfriend and keep your healthy weight.

Body shaming? NTA reminds her to love herself

Take care of your body and break up with toxic partner

Supportive comment recommends checking with a doctor for healthy weight.

Dump him! Don’t change for someone who can’t accept you.

Dump the BF! His behavior is abusive and manipulative.

Dump the loser! Doctor warns against eating disorder

Encouraging comment reminds woman to prioritize self-love ❤️

Dump him and find someone who appreciates your healthy weight

Dump him! You don’t need that negativity in your life.

Body-shaming is never okay, stand up for yourself

Body shaming disguised as a preference
