Get ready for a wild ride, folks! We’ve got a tale of two lovebirds with totally opposite styles – one’s a clean-cut programmer, and the other’s a tatted-up pet groomer! Despite their differences, they’ve been going strong for nearly a decade. But now, a new challenge has emerged: ear stretching! Will our gal’s desire for pretty jewelry tear them apart, or will love conquer all? Buckle up, because this story’s about to get juicy!
A Tale of Two Styles: Tattoos, Piercings, and Love!
Opposites Attract: Programmer Meets Pet Groomer!
Tattoo Tension: Big Piece, Big Concerns!
Money Talks: Boyfriend’s Ink Concerns!
Stretching Saga Begins: Pretty Jewelry, Big Decision!
Whim or Win? Stretching Kit Acquired! ️
Boyfriend’s Distaste: No Pencils in Ears, Please! ✏️
♀️ Promise Made: Stopping Before Point of No Return!
Sizing Up: 10g to 8g, Boyfriend Watches! ️
Unpleasant Look: Boyfriend Hates Gauges!
Aesthetic Argument: Punk vs. Streetwear!
Disheartened Dilemma: To Stretch or Not to Stretch?
Debating Desires: Honor His Wishes or Follow My Heart? ❤️
Attractiveness Anxiety: Changing Past Acceptance?
♀️ WIBTA? Continuing Ear Stretching Despite Boyfriend’s Hatred!
Ear-Stretching Showdown: Love vs. Personal Style!
Our gal’s in a real pickle! She’s been itching to stretch her ears and rock some cool jewelry, but her boyfriend’s not having it. He thinks gauges are too punk for her streetwear vibe and worries she won’t look good with them. Now, she’s torn between following her heart and keeping her man happy. Will she give up on her ear-stretching dreams, or will she stand her ground and let her personal style shine? It’s a classic case of love vs. self-expression, and the internet’s got some thoughts! ️ Let’s dive into the juiciest responses and see what folks have to say about this ear-resistible dilemma!
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NAH. It’s a tough situation, your body your choice vs his preferences.
Respectful disagreement over stretched ears in a relationship. NAH.
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You do you! Your body, your choice. Communication is key.
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Off-topic comment, but interesting question about ear stretching.
A delicate situation where compatibility is key
NAH. Respect each other’s preferences in body modifications
Do what makes you happy. If he leaves, it’s his loss.
Stretched ear holes risking whole relationship?
Is body modification a betrayal? Commenter’s boyfriend thinks so.
NAH for all the reasons already stated. Some things are more of a turn off than others.
Think twice before stretching your earlobes, it may cost you
NAH, but tough decision. Respect both parties’ rights.
Partner dislikes body modifications, but NAH for having them.
When to move on from a relationship with differing preferences ❤
Respect your partner’s wishes or face the consequences.
Do what you want, but accept the consequences.
Respect your partner’s preferences, but don’t let them control you
Compromise with a 2g size instead of larger gauges.
Don’t let anyone pressure you to change your appearance. NAH
Middle-aged man warns against stretching lobes, advises to listen to partner.
Consider professional consequences before making permanent body modifications
Accepting differences or heading for a breakup? ❤️
Your body, your choice. But don’t be surprised if he’s turned off
It’s your body, your choice. But it may affect relationship.
Your body, your choice! NTA for getting the piercings.
Tattooed commenter shares experience and advice on body modifications. NAH.
Compromise in relationships is key. YTA if you ignore feelings
Think twice before modifying your body, it’s for life.
Partner dislikes ear stretching, but NAH if you do you!
Respect his comfort zone, but be prepared to lose him ☠️
Choose love or jewelry? YWBTA for being selfish.
Your body, your choice, but consequences may affect relationship
Navigating different aesthetics in a relationship can be challenging
Empowering comment with a NTA verdict
Stretched ears can be reversible, according to personal experience
NAH, but partner may not like stretched earlobes. Cry at own risk.
Embrace your unique self! Don’t let others judge you.
Partner’s attraction dilemma: NAH for choosing, but relationship consequences possible.
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Respectful disagreement on body autonomy in a relationship
NTA for wanting to keep her unique aesthetic.
Partner disapproves of appearance choice, commenter suggests breakup.
Respectful disagreement on body autonomy in a relationship
Opposing views on genital piercing in relationship.
NAH but borderline YTA. Making a body mod choice on a whim at 30, sounds like a teenager in how you’re sulking.
Be true to yourself, the right person will accept you! ❤
Engaging a therapist could help with internalized language.
Respectful agreement that it’s her body, her choice.
Be true to yourself, even if it means ending a relationship. ❤️
Body modification choice, but may affect attraction.
Opposing views on gauges causing relationship conflict
Compromise is key in relationships. Consider stopping to please him.
Respect your partner’s opinion but ultimately do what makes you happy
Partner dislikes tattoos and piercings. OP pushes boundaries. NAH.
Respect each other’s preferences and make a decision together
Different beauty perspectives may make you incompatible, NTA
Respectful NAH comment on physical attraction in relationships.
Boyfriend dislikes girlfriend’s appearance, but NAH for her choice.
Respectful NAH comment on stretching ears and relationship repercussions.
Opposing preferences causing strain on relationship.
Respecting partner’s preferences over personal choices in relationships
Be honest with your boyfriend about stretching, NAH situation.
Stretch safely! Check r/stretched for tips and advice.
Be careful with stretching. Head over to r/stretched to learn how.
Ignoring your partner’s opinion is not compromise. YTA
Opinion on partner’s appearance, NAH, but reconsider the decision
Partner dislikes stretchers, but OP can do what they want.
Stretching ears is a personal choice, but consider its impact
The classic debate: body autonomy vs. partner preference
Body modification: NTA but could be a deal breaker
Body autonomy vs. physical attraction ♀️
Listen to your ears! NTA, ex is now an ex.
Do what you want, but don’t be surprised if he leaves
Partner doesn’t like ear piercing, is it a betrayal?
Personal preference or dealbreaker?
Partner dislikes ear stretching, commenter understands and wouldn’t want it.
