Being sick is the worst, especially when you’re a busy bee like me! I’ve been stuck in bed for weeks, feeling awful and missing my boyfriend. He’s been begging to see me, but I don’t want to risk getting him or his little siblings sick. ♀️ Well, buckle up, because this story is about to get wild! My boyfriend decided to take matters into his own hands and surprise me… but let’s just say, it didn’t quite go as he planned. Get ready for some drama, folks!
Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired

Missing My Man, But Not Wanting to Share My Germs

Persistent Boyfriend Just Wants to See His Girl

Sleeping Beauty Gets an Unexpected Visitor

Surprise! It’s Not Dad, It’s the Boyfriend

Wait, How Did You Even Get In Here?

He Just Couldn’t Stand Being Apart

Not Cool to Show Up Uninvited, Dude

Boyfriend Says: Stop Whining, Be Grateful

Radio Silence Since the Surprise Visit

Thanks for the Feedback, I’m Reading It All

️ Update Coming After the Talk

Sorry for the Fever Confusion!

Don’t Worry, I’ve Seen a Doc

Appreciate the Concern, Everyone

Boyfriend’s Surprise Visit Turns Into Heated Debate!
So there I was, sick as a dog , trying to rest and recover when suddenly, I was woken up by someone rubbing my back. Thinking it was my dad, I was shocked to find my boyfriend instead! He apparently couldn’t stand being apart and surprised me by guessing our garage code and letting himself in! ♂️ I told him it wasn’t cool to show up uninvited, but he said I should be grateful and stop whining. We went back and forth until he finally left, and now he’s giving me the silent treatment. The internet has much to say about this situation, so let’s dive into the top responses and see what everyone thinks!
Boyfriend breaks into girlfriend’s house, dismisses her feelings, and violates her privacy. NTA, RUN!

Protect yourself from stalking and break-ins. Seek help from www.rainn.org

Breaking into someone’s house and touching them while asleep? NTA, get away from him ASAP!

Ex-boyfriend ignores boundaries, end things for your own safety

Trying to be thoughtful, but major invasion of privacy

Change the password on your door. NTA. Run.

NTA, but don’t forget to take care of your health ❤

NTA for not wanting to see him. He broke in!

Disturbing break-in story, commenter supports NTA and offers advice.

Boundary violation! Change your locks, block him, and move on.

Breaking into your parents’ home? NTA, that’s unhinged behavior.

Set boundaries with your clingy bf or move on. NTA

Change the lock code and phone code ASAP! NTA.

Breaking into someone’s home without permission is stalker-level behavior.

Breaking into someone’s home and touching them while asleep? NTA.

Dump the creep and get yourself to a doctor ASAP!

Privacy invasion! NTA. Change passwords on all devices.

NTA commenter expresses concern for sick person’s health, urges medical attention.

Clarification about the term ‘busybody’, no drama here

Common password leads to chaos. Def NTA in story.

Unwanted surprise visit from ‘ex’: boundaries matter. NTA

Boyfriend broke in, violated boundaries and played games. NTA.

Break up with him and change your passwords immediately!

Beware of humidifiers! A relatable self-care mistake

Insecure and psychotic boyfriend breaks in while she’s sick

Breaking into someone’s house is never okay. #NTA

Leave him. Breaking into your house is rude, illegal, and abusive.

Red flags! Break it off with him ASAP.

Dump him! He broke in while she was sick in bed

Breaking into someone’s house while they’re sick: a-hole move

Setting boundaries is key in any healthy relationship.

Stay away from him! NTA

Breaking into someone’s home and blaming them is never okay

Auntie advises to block him on every contact avenue

Break-in leads to breakup! NTA needs to tell parents ASAP

Concerned commenter urges sick person to see a doctor ASAP

Breaking into bed while sick = illegal and terrifying. NTA

Respect boundaries: NTA made clear, he trespassed. End it

Unhinged behavior in a relationship is a red flag

Break up with him, change the locks, and get cameras!

Taking care of your health is important, NTA. See a doctor

NTA, change all your codes, end the relationship, inform parents

Red flags and disregard for others’ health.

Polite correction on terminology, but supportive of OP’s actions.

Refusing to take no for an answer, he broke in?! NTA.

Dump him ASAP! NTA for sure.

Uninvited entry, password breach, tracking app suspicions – NTA, stay safe!

Run far away, it’s a red flag for controlling behavior!

Leave him, change passwords, and see a doctor. You’re NTA.

Breaking into someone’s house and bed without permission? Definitely NTA!

Invasive partner breaks in while she’s sick, NTA for feeling violated

Boyfriend breaks in to check on sick girlfriend, exposes family to Covid. NTA.

Protect yourself and your property from entitled exes. ✨

Setting boundaries is important! NTA for standing your ground.

Beware of the intruder! Change your garage code immediately!

NTA. He broke into your house and gaslighted you.

Creepy! Change passwords and stay away from him!

Encouraging comment advises OP to prioritize own safety and wellbeing.

Avoid men who say ‘you should be grateful’

Setting boundaries is crucial, break-ins are never okay.

Ex-boyfriend breaks in while she’s sick, commenters disgusted.

Secure your privacy, reevaluate the relationship. NTA

Red flags! Change your code and stay safe!

NTA: Red flags! Break up with him now.

Lesson for all women: Cut off those who don’t respect No

iPhone password breach leads to silent treatment. YTA.

Run for your life! ♀️ He didn’t respect your boundaries.

NTA for confronting him but concerned about fever. See a doctor ⚕️

A heartwarming story followed by a justified verdict. NTA

TIL the difference between a busy body and being busy

Setting boundaries is key to a healthy relationship.

Protect yourself, leave him. Change passwords. Watch out for stalking

Stay safe from false negatives. Get tested for strep properly.

Change the passcodes and tell your parents. Major red flag!
