Imagine having 21 grandchildren, but only two of them have faced unimaginable hardships due to the loss of their father and the struggles of their mother. In this story, our loving grandma is trying to provide some much-needed support to these two young adults, but her actions have caused a rift in the family. Let’s dive into the emotional rollercoaster of this family’s journey and see if grandma’s actions are justified or not.
Tragic Loss of a Son

Struggling Daughter-in-Law

Kids Fending for Themselves

College Dreams Achieved

The Other 19 Grandchildren

Stable Families

Health Declines

The Caring Duo

Weekly Support

Wonderful Grandkids

❤️ Equal Love

Financial Support

Daughter’s Disapproval

Grandma’s Financial Support: Fair or Unfair?
Our protagonist, a loving grandma, has 21 grandchildren. Tragically, two of them lost their father and had a mother with addiction issues, leaving them to fend for themselves. These two grandkids have always been there for their grandma, helping her with chores and keeping her company. Despite their hardships, they managed to get into college, and grandma decided to provide them with financial support for their education. However, this decision has upset one of her daughters, who thinks it’s unfair to the other 19 grandchildren. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Grandpa steps up for struggling grandkids, faces family backlash! NTA
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Grandpa receives backlash for helping struggling grandkids. NTA!

Don’t let ‘whataboutitis’ guilt trip you. Spend your money guilt-free!
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Grandfather stands up for struggling grandkids despite family backlash

Grandpa faces backlash for helping struggling grandkids. NTA.

Grandpa faces family backlash for helping struggling grandkids.
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Grandpa faces backlash for supporting struggling grandkids.

Grandpa praised for supporting grandkids, advised to reassure daughter’s kids too.

Grandpa’s kindness sparks controversy within family.
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Passing down money is optional. NTA. Spend it how you want!

Generous grandpa faces backlash for helping struggling grandkids.

Grandpa faces backlash for helping struggling grandkids, NTA comment wins

Grandpa helps struggling grandkids, faces backlash from family! NTA
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Grandma defends herself against family backlash for helping grandkids ❤️

Supportive grandpa gets backlash for helping struggling grandkids ❤️

Planning ahead to avoid family disputes over inheritance. NTA

Compassionate grandpa faces family backlash for helping struggling grandkids ❤️
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Grandpa’s only support for struggling grandkids criticized by family
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Grandparent alienation is heartbreaking. Daughter needs to respect boundaries.
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Grandpa faced backlash for helping struggling grandkids. NTA!

Grandpa defends helping struggling grandkids, calls out daughter’s greediness.

Grandma receives support for helping struggling grandkids ❤️

Understanding grandma’s love for all grandchildren

Grandpa faces backlash for helping orphaned grandkids. NTA wins!
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Grandpa’s money, Grandpa’s rules

User suggests calling out daughter’s unfairness in helping grandkids.

Fair vs. equal: Grandpa’s dilemma explained

Grandpa praised for helping struggling grandkids despite backlash from family

Spread love like grandpa did

Generous grandpa chooses to help grateful grandkids, not entitled ones.

Generous grandpa gets backlash from ungrateful family members.
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Grandpa stands up for himself and his grandkids.

Grandpa receives support for helping struggling grandkids despite backlash.

Grandpa faces family backlash for helping struggling grandkids

Grandpa faces backlash for helping struggling grandkids.

Grandparents are like parents, NTA. Family should support.

Grandpa stands his ground against guilt-tripping family.

Grandpa’s unconditional love for struggling grandkids sparks family controversy ♂️

Generous grandpa receives support for helping struggling grandkids ❤️

Grandpa’s love for grandchildren sparks supportive response.

Grandpa’s kind gesture deserves appreciation, not backlash from family!

Grandpa’s kindness receives praise amidst tragedy and family drama

Grandpa stands up to ungrateful family.

Late but great? Grandpa faces backlash for helping grandkids
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Leave a letter explaining the will to avoid family backlash

Grandpa receives backlash for helping struggling grandkids.

Grandparent helps struggling grandkids, faces backlash from family. NTA

Family drama over grandpa’s financial help to grandkids. NTA

Generous grandmother helps family despite backlash.

Heartwarming comment defending grandpa’s actions. Spread love ❤️

Grandpa faces backlash for helping struggling grandkids. NTA wins.
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Supporting family doesn’t make you a**hole. NTA

Grandpa spoils granddaughter who visits, NTA for helping struggling grandkids.

Grandpa’s helping hand causes family drama. NTA wins!

Suggests using humor to kickstart empathy in selfish family member.

Grandpa’s unconditional love for grandkids sparks support.

Fairness of support questioned, commenter defends grandpa’s actions.

Protect your inheritance from greedy family members. NTA

Grandpa faces family backlash for helping struggling grandkids. NTA.

Supportive comment defends grandparent’s actions, praises impact on grandchildren.

Supportive comment about grandparent-grandkids relationship

Grandpa helps struggling grandkids, faces backlash from entitled family.

Grandpa’s favoritism causes family feud

Generous grandparent receives support for helping struggling grandkids ❤️

Grandpa faces backlash for helping struggling grandkids. NTA!

Grandpa’s love for struggling grandkids sparks family backlash. NTA

Grandpa faces backlash for helping orphaned grandkids. NTA comment offers advice.
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Grandfather’s generosity towards struggling grandkids deemed NTA by commenter.

Grandpa faces backlash for helping struggling grandkids. NTA.

Grandpa praised for choosing equity over equality for struggling grandkids

Generous grandpa faces family backlash for helping struggling grandkids. ❤️

Navigating family dynamics and favoritism can be challenging

Grandpa’s fair reasons for helping grandkids. NTA.

Grandpa faces backlash for helping grandkids without father.

Grandpa’s love for grandkids sparks family backlash. NTA wins hearts

Grandparents supporting struggling grandkids, facing family backlash. NTA

Keep doing what’s right, help those in need.

Supporting struggling grandkids may cause family conflict and inheritance issues.

Grandpa praised for taking care of good grandkids

Support for helping struggling grandkids despite potential family backlash

Grandpa supports struggling grandkids, faces family backlash.

Grandpa’s favoritism towards grandkids sparks NTA comment.
