We all have our own beliefs and principles, but what happens when a friend’s request goes against them? In this story, a woman faces a moral dilemma when her best friend asks for help with her unplanned pregnancy. The friend wants financial support, but our protagonist has a condition that leads to a heated argument. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster.
Best Friends and a Life-Changing Decision

A Clear Stance on Pregnancy

A Desperate Call for Help

The Only One Who Could Help ♀️

A Meeting to Discuss the Plans

A Heated Argument and a Tough Choice

Respecting Beliefs and a Failed Trick

A Friendship Put to the Test: Support or Principles?
A woman is caught in a moral dilemma when her best friend asks for financial help with her unplanned pregnancy. The protagonist is willing to support her friend, but only if she chooses to have an abortion. When the friend tries to convince her to give the money without any conditions, our protagonist stands her ground, leading to a heated argument and a friendship on the rocks. With mutual friends now involved, the situation becomes even more complex. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this controversial situation…
Confused commenter questions OP’s beliefs on pregnancy support and abortion

Friend demands $9000 for pregnancy support, but NTA stood firm.

Friend demands money for pregnancy support, but gets caught lying. NTA.

NTA for setting boundaries and not forcing beliefs on others

Friend asks for support, commenter calls out conditional friendship.
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Your money, your choice. Losing friends over it? NTA

Friend demands $9k for pregnancy support, but both are toxic.

Friend tries to fraudulently get money, caller supporters are naive
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NTA. You have no obligation to financially support your friend’s pregnancy

Sensitive question about friend’s motivation for abortion.

Friend demands $9k for pregnancy support, but lied about abortion. NTA

Friend demands $9k for pregnancy support, but commenter says NTA.

Your money, your decision. Friends shouldn’t pressure you.

Confusion over AITA for not giving money or ending friendship.

Doubting friend’s pregnancy and motives . Proceed with caution.

Friend demands money with stipulations, NTA for refusing to comply

User believes friend was trying to trick them for money

Not the a**hole for not wanting to pay for someone else’s child

User questions friend’s contradictory beliefs and motives regarding pregnancy.
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Lying friend demands money for pregnancy? NTA, not your responsibility

Friend demands $9k for pregnancy support, commenter says NTA.

Friend tries to bait and switch for $9,000. NTA stands firm.

Respectful disagreement on pregnancy support. Stand by your principles

You’re not the a-hole for not giving her $9k
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NTA. Helping a friend is different than bankrolling a baby for life

Antinatalist stands with OP against friend’s financial demands

Suggests shaking down the father for money, asks for cash

Friend demands $9,000 for pregnancy support, commenter says NTA
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You don’t owe anyone money, spend it on what matters

Friend demands $9,000 for pregnancy support, but OP dodged it. NTA

Choosing to have a child is a lifelong commitment , not a one-time payment

ESH verdict given for friend demanding money for pregnancy support.

Support for childfree beliefs and not financing friend’s child. NTA

Ending a toxic friendship is tough but necessary. Stay strong

Not obligated to help for $9k. Whack beliefs aside.

Curious commenter questions beliefs behind demanding pregnancy support

Standing up for yourself and your money

Friend is called out for using money to control friend’s decision

Friend lies for money, NTA refuses to support unwanted pregnancy

Setting boundaries is important. Friends should respect them.

Friend demands $9k for pregnancy support, commenter says NTA.

Toxic beliefs and demands for money – ESH in this situation

When friendship comes with financial expectations

Money doesn’t buy love, even for pregnancy support
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Friend asks for money, OP refuses. NTA. Stick to decision.

NTA. She needs to take responsibility for her pregnancy.

Friend demands money instead of support, NTA sets boundaries

Not your affair, not your bill to pay

You were nice to support her abortion, but not obligated financially. NTA

NTA for not providing financial support, but offer emotional support

Sarcastic comment about pregnancy support with NTA judgement.

Donating money is a personal choice, and verification is reasonable. NTA

Agreeing to support a specific situation doesn’t mean unlimited obligation

Friend demands $9,000 for pregnancy support, but NTA stands firm

User suspects friend lied about abortion to extort money. NTA.
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Setting boundaries and sticking to them. NTA wins.
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Friend wants money for pregnancy, but OP has right to refuse ♀️

NTA stands firm on pregnancy support, emphasizing financial and physical costs.

You set boundaries, stick to them. NTA

Abortion is cheaper than a child, friend is in over head

NTA. Don’t let guilt-tripping friends scam you for money

Not responsible for friend’s pregnancy, suggest contacting the father.

NTA refuses to pay for friend’s child, suggests others help instead

NTA. Friend lied and played switcheroo for money. Child’s welfare uncertain.

NTA. Money, beliefs, and situation don’t matter. Your choice.

Standing up against pregnancy grifters. NTA

Debate over OP’s beliefs on having kids sparks discussion

NTA stands their ground against pregnancy support demands.
