Ugh, don’t you just hate it when you’re 34 and life throws you back into high school drama? Meet our protagonist and her free-spirited friend, Summer. Summer is a wild child who forgets to pay her phone bill and once hitchhiked to Mexico without telling anyone. But hey, that’s what makes her Summer! Now, Summer’s boyfriend, Will, is the human equivalent of a dry ham sandwich and is causing some serious drama. ♂️ So, grab your popcorn and let’s dive into this story of friendship, phone calls, and the refusal to apologize!
High School Drama at 34
Summer’s Wild Side
Phone Bill Forgetfulness
True Friendship ❤️
Meet the Boyfriend: Will ♂️
Will’s Phone Call
Just Another Summer Situation
Will’s Persistence
Phone Call Chaos
The Never-Ending Calls
Enough is Enough!
Threatening to Block
Summer’s Call
Apology for What?
Standing My Ground
No Apology Necessary
Friendship on the Line?
Apology Denied: A Tale of Friendship and Drama
Our protagonist is thrown into a whirlwind of drama when Summer’s boyfriend, Will, starts blowing up her phone, demanding to know where Summer is. Despite explaining that she has no idea and that Summer often disappears, Will just won’t quit. After 50 calls, our protagonist has had enough and threatens to block him. When Summer finally resurfaces, she expects an apology for the ‘phone blowing up’ comment, but our protagonist stands her ground. She refuses to apologize to the milquetoast boyfriend, potentially jeopardizing a two-decade friendship. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation and whether our protagonist should have just sucked it up and apologized…
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NTA, but he’s not a dry ham sandwich . Someone who calls you 50 times is not harmless. Keep your distance .
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Don’t play their game. She needs to take responsibility
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Summer’s friendship ended by AH boyfriend. You’re NTA, Summer’s not either.
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Friend’s disappearance causing boyfriend to blame you? NTA, don’t apologize.
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NTA. Friendship over. She should have had your back.
Steer clear of unhinged boyfriend & rethink friendship with Summer
Free-spirited friend’s disappearance fuels boyfriend’s anger
Unhinged boyfriend calls 50+ times, owes apology. NTA
Sassy response to insecure boyfriend’s request for apology
Concerned commenter fears for friend’s safety from unhinged boyfriend
Friend’s messy situation and demanding apology? NTA, ditch them! ♀️
NTA defends friend against angry boyfriend, deserves apology
NTA, but concerned. Plan to help friend leave if needed
Boyfriend’s anger may stem from fear of girlfriend’s infidelity
Being a ‘free spirit’ doesn’t justify being selfish and irresponsible.
Friend’s boyfriend shows controlling behavior. NTA for standing up.
Disturbing behavior from boyfriend sparks concern and anger
Cutting ties with drama: commenter is NTA.
NTA! Take screenshots of the calls and explain everything to Summer.
Concerned commenter calls out boyfriend’s abusive behavior
Stand your ground, NTA! Don’t reward bad behavior
Don’t apologize for being yourself and sticking up for yourself!
Confronting a free-spirited friend’s irresponsibility can be tricky
Boyfriend accused of bad behavior after friend’s disappearance.
Dry ham sandwich comment adds humor to boyfriend’s controlling behavior. NTA
NTA and needs to talk to friend alone over coffee ☕
Support for OP’s accountability and criticism for boyfriend’s behavior.
Supportive comment suggests break up is inevitable for controlling boyfriend
Is the angry boyfriend a cartoon or just misunderstood?
Don’t normalize harassment. NTA for blocking his number
Red flags and apologies due! NTA deserves better
Supportive comment calls out gaslighting and victim-blaming.
Supportive comment, encouraging friend to dump controlling boyfriend.
Friend chooses toxic relationship over long-lasting friendship NTA
Friend’s disappearance sparks concern for her safety and well-being.
Stand your ground, friend. NTA
Friend’s boyfriend owes apology for aggressive behavior, friend for apology stunt. #NTA
Stand your ground! Don’t let him control your friendships.
Standing up to a toxic friend can be tough
Friend’s disappearance strains relationship, NTA for holding her accountable.
Supportive comment defends friend’s actions and predicts relationship issues.
Friend’s disappearance sparks boyfriend’s anger, commenter advises apologies all around
Friend’s disappearance causing trouble and harassment at work
Supportive advice for friend’s boyfriend, with a touch of humor
Friend’s disappearance sparks debate on loyalty and ego. NTA.
Boyfriend is controlling and owes apology, not the other way around
Show evidence to prove NTA status and confront calmly
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Hilarious NTA comment: “the human equivalent of a dry ham sandwich.”
