Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, friendship, and some serious boundary-crossing. Our leading lady has been with her man for a decade, but lately, things have been a bit rocky. Enter the new BFF, who’s got her fiancé wrapped around her finger. But when tragedy strikes and the BFF wants the fiancé by her side during childbirth, our protagonist is left wondering if she’s being unreasonable or if this is crossing a major line. Let’s dive in and see what kind of mess we’re dealing with!
Trouble in Paradise?

Enter the New BFF

Awkward Conversations

Jealousy Creeps In

Tragedy Strikes

Trying to Understand

Intimate Memories

Seeking Advice

Empathy Mode: ON

Chill Vibes Only ❄️

The Final Straw

Is This Friendship Crossing the Line?
Our girl is in a tough spot – her fiancé’s new BFF is leaning on him hard after losing her partner, and now she wants him in the delivery room! Our protagonist is trying to be understanding, but it’s a lot to handle, especially with their own relationship on the rocks. She’s worried it might be bordering on an emotional affair, but she’s been pretty chill about everything else so far. Is she overreacting or is this a step too far? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this sticky situation!
Setting boundaries with friends in delivery room. NTA.

Fiancé wants to be in the delivery room for another woman? NTA

NTA. Fiancé in delivery room for another woman? Total boundary cross.

OP’s husband’s relationship with another woman makes her uncomfortable. Yikes.

Fiancé wants to be in delivery room for another woman? NTA, set boundaries.

Fiancé wants to support another woman in delivery room? NTA disapproves

NTA questions the woman’s motive for wanting someone else’s partner.

A male friend as a birthing partner? NTA, but that’s strange.

Interesting theory, but let’s focus on OP’s healthy boundaries.

Emotional affair and damaging. Counseling could help. ESH.

Red flag alert! Potential emotional affair, focus on your relationship.

Setting boundaries during childbirth with someone else’s partner. NTA

Friend’s behavior is inappropriate and concerning, NTA.

Fiancé’s close relationship with best friend crosses boundaries. NTA.

Navigating boundaries and relationships during childbirth can be tough . It may be helpful to seek counseling

Fiancé wants to be in delivery room for another woman… Red flags raised, set hard boundaries now.

Setting emotional boundaries with fiancé’s friend during childbirth

Validating feelings and communication can prevent future relationship issues. NAH
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/dd238a18-b794-4bb5-9136-69c2c83ce0bb.png)
Fiancé wants to be in delivery room for another woman?!

Curious about who else will be in the delivery room

Male friend present during delivery for another woman? NTA reacts

Discussing boundaries with SO when supporting another woman during delivery.

Cautionary tale of infidelity and hidden affairs.

Fiancé offered to be in another woman’s delivery room, commenter calls out the inappropriateness and wonders if the woman will ask him to raise the child. #NTA

Defending opposite-sex friendship in emotional delivery room situation. ❤

The vulnerability of mourning women attracts men like bees

Fiancé wants to be in delivery room for another woman? NTA.

Red flags everywhere It’s time for a serious talk.

Birth is intimate. Partner shouldn’t be intimate with someone else. NTA.

Husband wanting to be in delivery room for another woman? NTA.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/a64d1c65-1aeb-4d2e-bbb7-3af1a5be0f84.png)
Fiancé wants to be in delivery room for another woman?

NAH: OP expresses discomfort with fiance being in delivery room for friend’s wife, suggests setting boundaries for friendship. Supportive comment with internet hugs.

Fiancé in delivery room for another woman? NTA explains.

Red flags abound in emotional affair. Question paternity

Partner’s behavior raises red flags, counseling may help resolve issues. ❤️

When a friend wants your partner’s total attention ♀️ NTA

NTA commenter thinks fiancé shouldn’t be in delivery room for another woman
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/0060e11c-d5b9-4b04-b656-61520288dca2.png)
Setting boundaries when fiancé wants to be in another woman’s delivery room

Fiancé wants to be there for another woman’s delivery

Fiancé’s emotional affair with woman giving birth? NTA for confronting.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/bfea3bca-b772-4f45-9264-5053e4fb19ce.png)
When your partner’s friend becomes a threat

Friendship boundary crossed? NTA, suggests a possible motive
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/15614ac7-eafc-4412-884a-501268c54a19.png)
Partner shouldn’t be in delivery room. NTA

Husband prioritizing friend over family? NTA’s advice hits hard

Ultimatum time! If he’s considering being in another woman’s birthing room, time to leave.

Communication is key: Discussing boundaries in the delivery room.

Is the baby his? Awkward request for a 3-year relationship.

Demanding a paternity test is crucial in this situation.

Choosing a male friend to be in the delivery room?

Fiancé has no right to make medical decisions, family member needed ⚠️

Respectful boundaries and support are key during childbirth. NTA.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/e9ec1656-85e4-4ebb-a2e1-58972cc54466.png)
Therapy is important, but his presence during birth is inappropriate. ♀️

Red flag alert! Trust your instincts, something’s fishy here.

Engaged and already considering another woman’s delivery?

Red flag alert! NTA should have a serious talk.

Fiancé has feelings for another woman , counseling recommended

Intimate moment. NTA for not wanting partner in delivery room.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/5e4146e8-93c4-4f70-99f7-9a3fb78a9efb.png)
Fiancé wants to be present for another woman’s delivery, NAH explained
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/97e53ba2-4d84-4d8f-9d62-39335bc2a8da.png)
Separate friends are fine, but delivery room is not. NTA.

Jumping to conclusions? Counseling recommended for real help.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/bd2e4110-2220-4c27-8aa5-d3dc265eae80.png)
Setting boundaries with close friends of the opposite sex

Third wheel in the delivery room? NTA, but emotional affair?

Partner’s behavior in delivery room raises red flags

Setting boundaries with shady friends is crucial. NTA for that.

Jealousy and insecurity in a relationship

Red flags everywhere, suspicions of an affair seem justified.

Setting boundaries with a grown man. NTA, but ESH territory.

Fiancé wants to watch another woman give birth NTA.

Respectful boundaries are important in cross-gender friendships

Male friend defends OP’s decision to not let friend in delivery room
