Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Imagine this: your fiancé’s best bud is facing a terminal illness, and all he wants is one last hurrah. But when your man comes begging for you to foot the bill, what do you do? Our leading lady found herself in quite the predicament when her unemployed fiancé guilt-tripped her for days over refusing to fund the trip. But wait, it gets better (or worse, depending on how you look at it)! Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster ride and see how it all unfolds!
Fiancé’s Dying Wish: A Final Vacation

Begging for Funds, Guilt Tripping Ensues

Borrowing Money, Boys’ Trip Begins!

SOS Call: Out of Cash, Demanding Plane Tickets! ✈️

♀️ Poor Planning, Not My Problem! ♀️

️ Arguing Ensues: Can’t Leave Them Stranded!

Texting Tirade: Desperate Pleas for Payment!

Homecoming Blowup: Stranded, Exhausted, Memories Tainted!

️ Name Calling & Accusations: No Empathy!

Fiancé in Shock: Behavior & Lack of Empathy!

Unemployment Woes: Fiancé Can’t Afford Getaway

Sole Breadwinner: Money’s Tight, Tickets Too Much!

Stranded, Broke & Furious: Fiancé’s Final Vacation Fiasco!
Well, well, well… looks like our leading man managed to scrape together some cash and jet off with his bestie for a sports-filled getaway! ✈️ But when it came time to head home, the dynamic duo found themselves in quite the pickle. Out of money and desperate, the fiancé rings up our gal, demanding she pay for their plane tickets! When she refuses, all hell breaks loose. Cue the guilt trips, name-calling, and accusations of lacking empathy. The boys had to endure an 8+ hour road trip home, and the fiancé was NOT happy. He claimed she tainted the memories of this final vacation and caused unnecessary exhaustion for his ill friend. But here’s the kicker: our leading lady is the sole breadwinner, and money’s tight! Paying for those tickets would’ve left her strapped. So, what does the internet think of this wild ride? Did our gal do the right thing, or should she have coughed up the cash? Let’s see what the masses have to say! ️
It’s not your problem nor your friend’s; NTA

NTA sees through manipulative plan to get funds for trip.

Think twice before marrying someone irresponsible.

Red flags alert! Break off the engagement ASAP.

Supportive comment acknowledges OP’s decision and criticises fiancé’s behaviour.

Red flags galore! NTA, but ditch the guy ASAP.

Partner’s friend stranded, but expecting you to fund trip? NTA.
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Fiancé’s fake emergency is a red flag. NTA but reconsider relationship.

Roundtrip vs 1-way tickets debate sparks NTA comment.

Partner’s shady behavior leaves stranded fiancé and dying friend.

NTA for denying entitled, unemployed partner money. Question the relationship.

NTA stands firm on not giving money to selfish fiancé.

Fiancé’s lack of planning leaves dying friend stranded. NTA.

NTA comment calls out toxic relationship and canceled wedding.
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Fiancé manipulates and accuses, but you’re not the a-hole

Don’t marry an entitled brat. Run away while you can.
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NTA, friend tries to manipulate OP, guilt-tripping them. Stay strong

Skipping round-trip tickets? NTA, but shenanigans declared!

Red flags raised for fiance and dying friend. NTA.

Empowering response to manipulative fiancé.

Fiancé relies on her to fund trip home, called AH.

Setting boundaries in a relationship:

Spelling correction turns into ominous warning about ex-fiancé

Don’t marry him! ♀️ He feels entitled to your money.

Money, fiancé, and morality.

Dump him! He manipulated you and insulted you.

NTA for questioning fiancé’s behavior towards dying friend.

Partner not parent. Clear limit. He’s still the a-hole.

Borrowing money for one-way tickets and expecting you to pay back? NTA.

Something’s fishy here. The comment raises a valid point.

Setting boundaries is key to healthy relationships.

Fiancé’s sick friend wants money for a trip. NTA for refusing.

User thinks fiancé is irresponsible and using them as a bank
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Did the friend intentionally not buy return tickets?

NTA. Partner tried to guilt trip you into funding trip.

Travel plans gone wrong, judgmental commenters and no cash? NTA.

Fiancé’s manipulation backfires, commenter questions long-term compatibility.
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NTA but pre-marital money talks are crucial

Partner using OP as a bank, needs financial responsibility classes. NTA

Travel tip: Always book round-trip tickets to avoid stranded situations!

NTA- Leaving without funds was a poor decision, don’t cave.

Don’t marry him until he gets his finances in order

Standing up to a manipulative partner

Wedding on the rocks? Fiancée refuses dying friend cash. NTA.

Empathetic NTA comment advises reflection and future planning.

NTA for not bailing out fiancé’s poor planning & manipulation
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Partner’s abusive behavior, NTA comment advises against marriage.

Standing up for yourself and your dying friend. NTA

Don’t marry him if you don’t agree with his behavior

Don’t marry someone who can’t handle their finances

Unemployed fiancé emotionally abusive, commenter questions his good traits. #NTA

Sassy comment shuts down entitled fiance.

Red flag! Commenter warns of manipulative behavior from fiancé.
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User draws comparison to House episode, declares NTA and criticizes guilt-tripping behavior.

Supporting a grown man? Hope you’re not 20. NTA.

NTA: The fiancé planned to spend loan & guilt-trip partner. Don’t marry.

Unemployed people need jobs, not vacations – harsh but true.

Dump his moocher ass ASAP and save your money

Don’t let guilt-tripping manipulate you. NTA.

Savage comment shuts down entitled fiancé and his friend

Partner’s unemployed friend puts strain on relationship with entitlement issues.
