“DON’T Send Me Xmas Cards of Your Baby!” Woman’s Cold Request to New Mom

Ho ho ho, it’s the most wonderful time of the year… unless you’re a child-free adult with a serious case of baby aversion! Meet our protagonist, a person who would rather deck the halls with anything but baby photos. ‍♀️ But when their not-so-close friend Sally insists on spreading holiday cheer with a Christmas card featuring her little bundle of joy, our hero is faced with a festive conundrum. Will they be able to navigate this awkward situation without being labeled a Grinch? Let’s dive into this holly jolly tale of friendship, boundaries, and the quest to avoid unwanted baby spam!

‍♀️ Baby Blues: A Child-Free Conundrum

Panic at the Baby Disco

‍♀️ The Mystery of the Baby Aversion ️‍♀️

Tolerating Tots, But Still Not a Fan

Sally’s Bundle of Joy… and Annoyance

“I Know You Don’t Like Babies, But…”

️ Delete, Delete, Delete

Not Exactly BFFs

The Silent Opt-Out That Wasn’t

Bah Humbug to Baby Spam?

Our child-free hero has been working hard to overcome their intense aversion to babies, but they’re still not ready to deck the halls with infant photos. ‍♀️ Despite knowing about their discomfort, Sally has been persistently sharing baby updates and now wants to send a Christmas card featuring her little one. Our protagonist tried to silently opt-out, but Sally’s private message has forced their hand. Now, they’re wondering if it’s time to put their foot down and politely request a baby-free holiday season. Will this cause a rift in their not-so-close friendship, or will Sally finally respect their boundaries? The internet is abuzz with opinions on this festive fiasco! Let’s see what the masses have to say about navigating friendship, boundaries, and the quest for a baby-free Christmas!

Be kind, YWBTA. Sally could be struggling and seeking dialogue

User calls out commenter’s extreme reaction to babies with YTA.

User calls out comment for being hostile towards children

Woman explains phobia, sets boundaries on receiving baby Xmas cards.

User suggests therapy for woman with extreme aversion to babies.

Suggestion for counseling to overcome possible anxiety disorder towards babies.

OP is entitled to her own personal space and boundaries

Being childfree is fine, but seeking therapy for disgust is recommended.

Politely declining baby Xmas card request may cost friendship

Setting boundaries with friends who have babies is important

Sally needs to grow up NTA wins this round

Asking a friend not to send baby pictures is reasonable.

NTA for not wanting Xmas cards with baby photos, valid phobia

Setting boundaries with pushy parents, NTA handled it well

NTA for setting boundaries with new mom who ignores discomfort

Respect boundaries of those with fear response to children . Friend being malicious by ignoring OP’s wishes

NTA. Many people are uncomfortable around small children, including parents.

Navigating friendship boundaries with baby cards. Good luck!

Setting boundaries with friends can be tough but necessary.

Setting boundaries is important, NTA for politely declining baby photos

Respectful reply to OP’s phobia, highlights ableism and suggests communication.

Tips for dealing with a friend who sends baby Christmas cards.

Setting boundaries with creepy acquaintances

Setting boundaries is okay, OP may need therapy though. ‍♀️

Acknowledging fear of children and offering advice with empathy.

Setting boundaries with friends who don’t respect them

Honesty is the best policy ‍♀️

Respect OP’s boundaries, cut off contact. It’s not crazy.

Politely declining baby cards is okay, but might not be popular

NTA for not wanting Xmas cards with baby photos

Woman requests no baby Xmas cards, NTA. Friend TA for ignoring.

Setting boundaries with baby pictures is valid. Don’t be creepy.

Polite response advice given to rude request for no baby cards.

Sally’s spamming baby pics? NTA for setting boundaries

Setting boundaries is important, therapy can help. Accidentally give wrong address.

Respectfully communicate your boundaries, YWNBTA

It’s okay to say no, even if it’s a gift

Proud of OP for being honest about loathing babies. NTA.

Respect boundaries and seek help for baby-related panic attacks.

Mom with phobia of babies declines Xmas card politely. NTA

Respecting boundaries: NTA as long as you’re polite

Avoiding baby photos on Xmas cards – reasonable or rude?

Friend disregards boundaries, time to unfriend or set boundaries

Protecting personal boundaries is important, seek help for revulsion.

Not everyone likes kids. NTA. Therapy may help.

As a therapist, congratulating the commenter on reducing anxiety triggered by babies.

Setting boundaries with friends who disrespect your choices

Polite response to friend’s baby Christmas card request due to condition.

NTA. The friend is shoving the baby in everyone’s face

Set boundaries, cut toxic people, and consider therapy. NTA

Suggests polite workaround to avoid baby pictures triggering phobia

Respect people’s phobias even if they don’t make sense. NTA

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for going no contact.

Establishing boundaries is NTA. Seeking therapy is encouraged

OP making progress, but Sally’s behavior makes WNBTA for no Xmas card

Member of “FTK” club gently advises new mom to respect boundaries

Politely declining baby Christmas cards. NTA

Respectful parent acknowledges child-free friend’s boundaries. Honest communication is key.

Respecting feelings is crucial, even with cute puppies

Respecting personal boundaries: NTA for not wanting baby cards

OP sets boundaries with pushy acquaintance over baby Christmas cards. NTA.

Politely decline friend’s baby Xmas card or risk offense

Set boundaries and cut toxic people out of your life.

Politely decline and cut ties if necessary. Seek therapy support.

NTA. Some personal correspondence can feel like a violation

Comparing her phobia of babies to a fear of spiders

Being honest about not liking babies can cost friendships. NTA.

Not the a**hole for being annoyed by baby pictures, but seek help. ‍♀️

Navigating social dynamics with new moms can be tricky

NTA but needs therapy. Friend ignoring boundaries with baby obsession

NTA for having pedophobia, but consider checking in with friend ❤️

Setting boundaries doesn’t make you an a-hole. Honesty is key.

Setting boundaries is important. End the friendship with someone who doesn’t respect them.

Respect boundaries – sending unwanted content is not okay

Respect OP’s boundary due to anxiety & phobia, friend is TA

Respectfully declining baby pictures is okay. NTA

You don’t have to like babies, and it’s okay. NTA.

NTA. Politely declining Xmas cards with a hint of sarcasm

Politely decline and set boundaries for holiday card exchange

Friend’s phobia of babies makes it hard to maintain friendships.

Polite response to boundary-violating Xmas card request

Setting boundaries is important and valid, therapy can help. NTA.

Politely decline Xmas cards with babies, but seek help too

Setting boundaries can be tough, but it’s important for self-care

NTA with orthopterophobia. Boundaries must be established with Sally.

Respectful NTA comment defends woman’s choice to reject baby cards.

NTA for not wanting baby updates, be honest but ready to lose friend