Hey there, Facebook fam! Have you ever had to deal with a messy divorce and custody battles? It’s no secret that co-parenting can be tough, especially when it comes to holidays and family trips. One mom is struggling to find a balance between sticking to the custody agreement and compromising with her ex-husband. But is she being petty or just standing her ground? Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of emotions, conflict, and drama!
Messy Divorce Drama

Custody Battle

Co-Parenting Struggles

Holiday Compromises

Christmas Plans

Request for a Change

Custody Agreement Conflict

Standing My Ground ⚔️

Refusing to Change

Insistence and Resistance ♀️

Accusations and Limits

Explosion

Unresolved Issues

Additional Points

Family Trip and Christmas

Carnival Compromise

Holiday Custody Chaos: Petty or Justified?
After a messy divorce and custody battle, one mom is struggling to find a balance between sticking to the custody agreement and compromising with her ex-husband. Despite having a 50/50 custody arrangement, she has given up her holidays with her daughter to accommodate her ex’s plans in the past. However, when she asked for a change to spend Christmas with her daughter on a family trip, her ex refused and insisted on following the custody agreement. Frustrated, she decided to stand her ground and refused to change her upcoming holiday, leading to accusations of pettiness and vindictiveness. Is she being unreasonable, or is it time for her ex to learn the meaning of compromise? Let’s check out what the internet has to say about this dramatic situation!
Stand your ground and keep evidence to enforce custody agreement.
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Divorced mom advises keeping evidence for abusive ex in court.

Ex-husband a petty cartoon villain causing custody battles. NTA.

NTA commenter suggests sticking to agreement with petty ex.

Ex-husband wants commitment, but only to what he wants. NTA

When in doubt, use his words.

Ex-spouse denies flexible agreement, but expects flexibility on holidays

NTA suggests monitored communication options for divorcing parents

Stick to custody order, don’t let him manipulate you

Don’t give in to his demands! You compromised enough.

Putting your foot down to prioritize holiday traditions

Divorced parent stands up to stubborn ex, demands fairness

Divorced parent stands ground on custody, NTA.

Stick to the schedule and let him celebrate Christmas later

Divorced parents can’t compromise over holiday custody. ♀️

Balanced co-parenting wins: NTA honors custody and ex’s rules

Divorced parent advises to seek legal advice and stand your ground

No quarter for selfish co-parents, NTA stands their ground

Ex-husband’s hypocritical behavior called out by commenter

Consistency is key. Use parenting apps for recorded communication. NTA.

Stick to the agreement, NTA.

Flexibility goes both ways, Trini men

Don’t let him take advantage of you anymore! Stick to agreement.

Being accommodating doesn’t mean being a doormat.

Navigating custody battles? Document everything to protect yourself.

Legal agreement protects NTA’s holiday plans.

Ex offers no compromise, just wants their way. Document behavior.

Stand your ground and don’t let him bully you.

Don’t let him control you. Stick to the custody agreement.

Parallel parenting tips for high conflict exes. NTA

Stick to the custody agreement and avoid games

Ex-husband wants a favor but won’t compromise. NTA.

Fairness in custody battles: NTA comment stands out.

Ex-husband wants to have it both ways? Stick to schedule!

Standing up for yourself as a co-parent

Setting holiday custody precedent, ex fails to reciprocate. NTA.

Use a parent communication app to avoid vindictive Ex

Stick to the agreement and don’t let him manipulate you. NTA

Sound advice for divorced parents struggling with custody conflicts

No need to feel guilty. Stick to your plans.

Stick to custody agreement, document everything, take him to court

Stick to the schedule & keep records to avoid custody battle

Stick to the plan, NTA. Don’t let him take advantage.

Stand up for yourself! NTA

Don’t let the bully win, stand your ground!

Co-parenting drama: double standards and no compromise, NTA.

Stick to the court order and use a co-parenting app

Ex-spouses battle over custody. NTA holds ground against cretin.

Stick to the custody order: NTA for being inflexible

Stick to the custody schedule and plan for future holidays. NTA

Stick to the custody agreement , communicate through lawyers only

Ex-husband accused of gaslighting and controlling holiday custody. Stick to agreement.

Stick to the custody agreement and document everything.

Stick to the agreement and don’t fall for manipulation.

Stop discussing custody, send the same response. NTA

NTA for wanting fair holiday custody agreement with uncooperative ex

Polite response to custody conflict with a hint of sass

Stand your ground and don’t let him bully you!

Don’t fall for emotional manipulation, stick to holiday schedule. NTA

Compromise in co-parenting is important, but know your boundaries.

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries.

Stick to the parenting agreement and don’t engage. NTA

Divorced couple argues over holiday custody, commenter warns to be careful

Co-parenting success story: Compromise is key!

Stand your ground and keep the holidays you want! NTA
