Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy story that’s sure to get your emotions running high. This guy’s ex dropped a bombshell by coming out as a lesbian, leading to their divorce. But wait, there’s more! She was pregnant, and despite his reservations, she decided to keep the baby. Tragedy struck when the baby was born prematurely and didn’t survive. Now, he’s facing backlash for not rushing to his ex’s side at the hospital. Is he really a heartless jerk, or is there more to this story? Let’s dive in and find out!
The Heartbreaking Divorce

The Unexpected Pregnancy Plot Twist

Tragedy Strikes: The Premature Stillbirth

The Angry Calls and Texts Pour In

The Ex’s Hurtful Accusation

Feeling Relieved but Guilty?

Am I the A-hole for Feeling This Way?

The Cheating Revelation Changes Everything

Abortion Considered for the Baby’s Sake

Love for the Baby Despite the Circumstances

Wanting a Baby with the Right Person

Love for Babies in General

Setting the Record Straight

The Shocking Conclusion: Is He Relieved or Heartbroken?
Well, well, well… this story took quite a few twists and turns, didn’t it? From the divorce to the pregnancy, the stillbirth to the angry accusations, it’s been a wild ride. Our guy here claims he’s not happy about the baby’s death, just relieved he won’t have to deal with his ex anymore. But some people are calling him out, saying he’s a cold-hearted a-hole. What do you think? Is he justified in his feelings, or should he have been there for his ex during this traumatic time? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this messy situation…
Breaking hetero norms can be stifling sometimes
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Decent response to ex’s stillborn. Acknowledged loss and sent flowers

Ex-wife’s stillborn baby is a huge loss, but he’s NTA.

Divorced dad gets support for not consoling cheating ex’s stillborn baby

Divorced dad stands his ground and cuts off ex after insensitive comment

Divorced dad’s justified decision to distance himself from ex’s tragedy.

Sperm donor or not? NTA’s response to ex’s stillborn baby

Divorced dad urged to process and grieve the stillborn baby

NTA for moving on from ex’s deceitful behavior

Divorced dad’s decision not to attend ex’s stillborn baby’s funeral is supported by an RN colleague. Sent flowers instead.

Validating NTA comment on stillborn baby situation and ex’s response.

Responding with empathy and support despite criticism from ex’s family.

Divorced dad stands by his decision not to visit ex-wife in hospital after stillborn. Mixed feelings acknowledged. NTA.

Divorced dad stands by his feelings and refuses ex’s demands.

Compassionate response to grieving ex earns NTA verdict ❤

Divorced dad gets support for being relieved after ex’s stillborn. ❤️

User defends divorced dad and calls ex-wife a cheater

Supportive comment acknowledges difficulty of situation, affirms dad’s actions.

Validating complex feelings during tough times

NTA OP, don’t feel obligated to be friendly with your ex
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Divorced dad defended for not bothering ex at hospital. NTA

Divorced father receives support for setting boundaries with ex.

Ex’s family is immature, you’re NTA. Block the hate

Controversial comment with no replies. Yikes!

Divorced dad not at fault for cold response to cheating ex

Ex-husband draws clear boundary after ex’s stillborn baby. NTA.

Balancing empathy and boundaries, but question at the end inappropriate

Divorced dad not responsible for ex’s stillborn baby

Divorced dad receives support for not comforting ex after stillborn

Grieving divorced dad receives backlash for cold response

Compassionate response to ex’s stillborn baby. Clean break achieved

Ex-wife accused him of being TA to hide her cheating. NTA.

A commenter sympathizes with the divorced dad’s situation but thinks he could have handled it better

Divorced dad struggles with ex’s stillborn baby, but NTA overall.

OP receives support for not owing anything after ex’s betrayal. NTA
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Ex’s loss of baby vs loss of child support checks

Ex’s new family wants you to be a convenient villain

NTA for not wanting to associate with ex’s stillborn baby
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Divorced dad stands up for himself after ex’s betrayal

Ex cheated and new GF wants sympathy? Not your problem ♂️
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NTA. Ex is lashing out due to loss. You dodged drama.

Supportive comment shares similar heartbreaking experience of cheating.

Compassionate comment about divorced dad’s stillborn baby response.

Mom defends divorced dad’s cold response to cheating ex’s stillborn baby

Divorced dad receives backlash for not attending ex-wife’s stillborn baby funeral

Divorced dad receives support for his response to ex’s stillborn baby

NTA thinks ex used him for a baby, owes her nothing.

Ex cheated, left, now playing victim over stillborn baby? NTA.

Divorced dad not TA, ex cheated with GF

Ex’s affair partner calls divorced dad heartless, but he’s NTA.

Protecting his heart after pain. NTA. Find true love

NTA for feeling relief about avoiding impending complications.

NTA commenter criticizes ex-wife’s actions, calls her a**hole.

Ex cheated, no obligation, sent flowers. NTA

Divorced dad stands his ground and is relieved about not seeing ex-wife.

NTA. Cheating and expecting emotional support is lunacy ♂️

Compassionate reply acknowledges boundaries and suggests no contact for now.

Breaking away from drama and trauma. Good luck, dad

Sending flowers after stillbirth: NTA. Misdirected grief at play

Pro-choice for women, but not for men? NTA

Block them . NTA . Move on with your life .

Divorced dad relieved to not be tied to cheating ex

Heartbreak leads to relief and recovery for NTA dad

You do you King! NTA. You dodged a bullet

Lesbian ex’s cheating no excuse for selfish behavior. NTA.

Not responsible for her grief. Moving on is healthy

Divorced dad gets support for not wanting to pay everything

Divorced dad not at fault for ex’s stillborn baby

Divorced dad not at fault for not visiting ex’s stillborn baby
