Did I Go Too Far By Saying I Co-Parent With The Nanny?

A mom , who has been separated from her husband for a year and is on the brink of divorce, sparked a family feud after her comment at her ex-MIL’s party. She has been communicating with the nanny who takes care of her two kids during her ex-husband’s time as he is usually unavailable. At the party, her ex-MIL praised them for co-parenting well, and the mom responded by saying she loves co-parenting with the nanny. This caused a backlash from her ex-husband and his family. She is now asking if she’s the a**hole.

Navigating co-parenting with a nanny during a divorce.

Sharing parenting responsibilities with the nanny

Struggling with co-parenting and communication with busy ex-husband.

Taking charge of co-parenting with the nanny

Efficient communication with ex and nanny improves kids’ time-sharing

Navigating co-parenting with the in-laws. Family first ‍

Navigating co-parenting with a difficult ex, frustrations and all

Sarcastic response to MIL’s co-parenting comment with nanny

Navigating co-parenting with the nanny? Ex drama included

Is OP the a**hole for co-parenting with their nanny?

Co-parenting with the nanny: genius or too far?

Divorce and co-parenting can be challenging, but what happens when the nanny becomes the main caregiver during your ex’s time with the kids? One woman found a solution by communicating directly with the nanny instead of her ex, but when she made a joke about co-parenting with the nanny, things went south. Was it harmless humor or a low blow? Let’s dive into the debate and see what people are saying about this controversial approach to co-parenting.

NTA for calling out deadbeat Dad, but risky to do it around his family

NTA! OP made a harmless joke about co-parenting with the nanny. Ex is TA for not being a present father and for baiting OP. ESH for dragging ex ILs into it. Best case: ex steps up. Worst case: ex fires nanny out of pettiness.

NTA. Document everything and take it to court.

Divorce drama with a piece of work husband. NTA.

Honesty is the best policy

One-liner truth bomb shuts down drama. ‍♀️ #NTA

NTA for co-parenting with nanny, but may have sunk the ship.

Co-parenting with the nanny? ESH, but he’s a deadbeat.

Commenter questions lack of context, receives relevant replies.

Co-parenting is not about snide comments and burning bridges.

NTA, but may want to avoid situations with ex.

Exes can be snakes but NTA for co-parenting with nanny.

Calling out the ex and his family, but not the best move

Co-parenting with the nanny: a petty move with long-term consequences

Co-parenting with the nanny? ESH needs to grow up ‍♀️

Communication breakdown? ESH and kids shouldn’t hear bad-mouthing.

Fight for custody with evidence. NTA, but keep calm.

Divorced co-parenting creates complications for nanny and creates conflict.

Apologize to MIL for sarcastic comment about her kid

Sarcastic humor wins! Group chat for more active MIL involvement.

Commenter regrets saying something that made communication difficult.

Co-parenting with nanny sparks conflict, making life harder for kids. ESH.

Calling out bad behavior can feel great, but has consequences

Co-parenting with nanny? YTA accused of being a deadbeat parent.

Why email when text is more instant?

Publicly shaming ex and nanny? ESH

Calling out co-parenting with nanny makes life harder for everyone

OP is labeled as YTA for complaining about her partner’s work schedule.

Chaotic co-parenting with the nanny – everyone’s at fault

Don’t air dirty laundry, YTA. ESH situation, control yourself.

Avoid involving kids in drama. YTA, he’s an a**hole too.

Standing up for yourself against your ex with NTA support

The comment suggests a complicated situation with untold details…

Encouraging reply to divorce – take action

Recording interactions with ex. Perfect clapback earns praise.

Safe to talk about parenting strategy without little ears listening

Toxic vibes all around

Co-parenting with the nanny? NTA for setting boundaries

Single dad gets criticized for hiring nanny; defends his parenting.

Engaging in parenting debates? Don’t forget empathy and understanding!

Divorced parents should be the bigger person for their kids.

Standing up for co-parenting with nanny, facing unfair criticism

Standing up to hypocrites #NTA

Don’t engage with ex’s family, patience is key, good luck

Sometimes co-parenting with the nanny is the best option #NTA

Don’t stoop to childish behavior, co-parenting with nanny not equal.

Co-parenting with the nanny? Not the a**hole!

Take charge of co-parenting and gather evidence to protect kids.

Co-parenting with the nanny? ESH, but prioritize the kids’ well-being

Communicate through lawyer to document neglect for court ⚖️

Navigating custody and nanny responsibilities. ‍

When being honest makes you look like an a**hole ‍♀️

Navigating co-parenting with a nanny can be messy.

Co-parenting with the nanny or co-parenting with ex?

Commenter gets praised for not being an a**hole, but receives criticism.

Getting into a petty argument with your ex is never worth it

Divorce drama affects the children, ESH except for them

Using email to communicate with ex about co-parenting: bad idea?

Effective co-parenting tip: CC your ex when contacting the nanny

Calling out bad behavior: NTA takes the heat

Dad’s long hours and youngest child necessitate nanny co-parenting ‍ ‍

Navigating co-parenting with an ex’s nanny