Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama that’ll make your jaw drop! Meet our fierce protagonist, a woman who’s been through the wringer with her narcissistic sister and enabling parents. From childhood rivalries to college controversies, this story has it all! But wait, there’s more! Wedding woes, police complaints, and a deathbed dilemma that’ll leave you on the edge of your seat! So, grab your popcorn and get ready for a wild ride as we dive into this tangled web of family dysfunction! ️
Family Drama Alert: A Tale of Two Sisters

The 60% Rule: Keeping Scores Low

Tantrum Trouble: Sister’s Embarrassment Trumps All

Dad’s Ultimatum: No Job Until Sis Gets One!

️♀️ Missing Person Report: Parents’ Desperate Attempt

Wedding Woes: Family’s Harassment Continues

Kidnapping Complaint: Proving Hubby’s Innocence ♂️

❤️ Deathbed Dilemma: To Forgive or Not to Forgive?

♀️ Standing Firm: Refusing to Budge

♀️ AITA? Family vs. In-Laws’ Opinions Clash ⚔️

Deathbed Drama: To Forgive or Not to Forgive?
Well, well, well! This story has more twists and turns than a roller coaster! Our resilient heroine has endured years of favoritism, tantrums, and downright absurd demands from her family. From the 60% rule to the job ultimatum, it’s clear that her sister’s feelings always came first! But our girl stood her ground, landed an amazing job, and even tied the knot with her Prince Charming! Of course, the family couldn’t let her be happy, could they? Harassment, police complaints, and now a deathbed plea for forgiveness! It’s a real soap opera, I tell ya! So, what does the internet think about this emotional rollercoaster? Let’s find out!
No obligation to see dying father after going no contact

Empowering comment on reclaiming agency and setting boundaries.
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NTA. Daughter hesitant to fulfill dying father’s wish.

Family accuses husband of kidnapping and rape, commenter agrees NTA.
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Standing up to abusive parents- NTA wins

Forgiving abusers is not mandatory. You’re not the a**hole here.
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Forgiving is hard, but accepting apologies is a good start ❤

Putting yourself first and finding a loving family

50/50 chance of regretting not speaking to dying family member. NTA.

Toxic family? Your choice. Closure or not, no regrets

NTA stands up to toxic dad’s final attempt to hurt them

Don’t go if there’s no realistic goal to achieve ♀️

Family’s behavior on deathbed is unacceptable. NTA for cutting ties.

Cut ties with toxic family or make amends on deathbed?

Choosing not to fulfill deathbed wish to protect oneself.

Protecting yourself from toxic family members is not selfish

Glad she stood up for herself and didn’t let them in!
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Breaking free from toxic family. NTA

Don’t feel bad, live a happy life without toxic family
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NTA but consider future regret of not hearing his last words

Don’t let toxic family guilt trip you. NTA

NTA stands up to unreasonable family expectations

Avoiding toxic family? NTA suggests phone call over meeting.

Father’s last minute guilt doesn’t justify their manipulation. NTA

No contact with toxic family. Best decision. Hope for better.

NTA. Live your life and leave toxicity behind.
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Closure can be overrated, mark that chapter as over

Standing up to a manipulative father, NTA

Encouraging comment to fulfill father’s deathbed wish

Leaving family for success – justified or not?
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Being skeptical of deathbed amends.

Heartbreaking comment on irreversible loss of a father.

NTA stands firm against family’s crazy deathbed wish.

Sibling rivalry unresolved on deathbed. NTA for not forgiving.

User suspects family of lying about father’s health.

NTA for not fulfilling dad’s deathbed wish due to family dysfunction
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Stand your ground! You’re not the a**hole here

NTA. No obligation to make him feel better

Standing up to toxic family, NTA.

Family sabotage, NTA, and moving on.

OP is justified but could consider forgiving dad on phone

A commenter thinks the Dad’s deathbed wish is selfish.
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Regretful exchange with abusive father on deathbed. Lesson learned.
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Redditor jokes about delaying death for sibling, no replies.

Protecting yourself from abuse is always the right decision. NTA

A heartfelt plea to honor a dying father’s last wish ❤️

Cut toxic ties, honor your own boundaries.
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Standing up to abusive family: You owe them nothing

Closure comes from within. Trust your instincts. ✔

Forgiveness and closure without risking manipulation. Letter writing recommended.

Cutting off toxic family – good for mental health

No forgiveness owed on deathbed. Learn to live with actions.

Family’s history of abuse and lies leads to justified decision.

NTA stands up to dad’s deathbed wishes with powerful message

Take control of YOUR decision. Your strength is admirable
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Stand your ground and prioritize your mental well-being

Daughter refuses dying father’s wish. NTA

Standing up for yourself: NTA for refusing forgiveness and funeral

Choosing not to see dying father. NTA but consider regrets

Is it okay to not talk to your dying father?
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A twin shares her experience with sibling rivalry in college.
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Take care of yourself first , don’t expose yourself to toxicity

Setting healthy boundaries with toxic family – NTA

Don’t let his guilt be your burden.

Sage advice on making amends before it’s too late.

Don’t let them control you. Stay strong

When a dying AH parent wants reconciliation, it’s complicated

Why forgiving a dying abuser may not be necessary. NTA ✌

Breaking the cycle: Inspiring triumph over family dysfunction
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