Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a family drama unfolding before our very eyes! Meet our concerned dad, who’s grappling with his daughter’s sudden desire to spread her wings and fly off to France as an au pair. But wait, there’s more! This honor student has always been a model child, so where did this rebellious streak come from? As tensions rise and emotions run high, will our dad be able to navigate this tricky situation without being labeled the a-hole? Let’s dive in and find out!
Daughter’s Shocking Post-Graduation Plans!

Au Pair Dreams vs. Local College Expectations

Tuition-Free College or University Abroad?

Dad’s Disbelief: Where Did This Come From?! ♂️

Dad’s Desperate Attempts to Dissuade Her

Daughter’s Counterarguments: Language Skills & Connections ️

Internship Connections & Support System

Heated Argument Leads to Tears

Mixed Reactions: Poor Choice or Poor Handling? ️

️ Dad’s Attempt at Compromise: Wait Until After College

Daughter’s Stubborn Insistence on Leaving This Year

Dad’s Defense: Not Stifling Her Hobbies

Ultimatum: Old Enough to Leave, Old Enough to Find Your Own Place

The Great Au Pair Debate: Family Feud or Father’s Folly? ♂️
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a classic case of a parent-child standoff! Our honor student daughter is dead set on living her best life in France , while dad’s over here pulling out all the stops to keep her home. From questioning her language skills to playing the sex trafficking card, this dad’s not holding back! But wait, there’s more! Daughter’s got receipts – a passed language exam and an internship with connections. As the argument reaches a boiling point , dad lays down the law: leave and you’re cut off! ♂️ Now, the internet jury’s out: did dad go too far, or is daughter making a huge mistake? The drama, the intrigue, the family dynamics… this story’s got it all! So, grab your popcorn and let’s see what the masses have to say about this au pair affair! ️
Toxic and controlling parent disowns child for wanting independence. YTA.

Daughter’s dream of moving abroad is met with harsh criticism. YTA.

Au Pairing vs Community College in France. Tough Choice!

Parent’s fear of losing control over child’s freedom. YTA.

Let her go or risk damaging your relationship.

Supportive commenter calls out dad for being TA

Father forbids daughter from pursuing dream of moving abroad. YTA

Controlling dad kicks out daughter for having solid plan

American commenter defends French people, encourages study abroad, calls out controlling parent. YTA.

Parental control backfires: YTA dad permanently damages relationship with daughter.

Don’t kill her desire for experience. Don’t kick her out!

Supportive comment. Encourages daughter’s viable plan.

Dad getting called out for being a helicopter parent

Supportive comment for daughter’s dreams, challenging dad’s fears

User calls out a father for kicking his daughter out. YTA

YTA doesn’t understand daughter’s dream to move to France

Strict dad kicks out 18-year-old daughter for following dreams

Is the daughter entitled or ambitious?

Daughter’s dream of moving abroad leads to father kicking her out YTA

Daughter threatened with homelessness over dream to study abroad. YTA

Daughter’s dream crushed by controlling dad. YTA

Let her live her life! Yelling and kicking her out was not the right move

American gets called out for entitlement YTA
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Daughter calls out controlling parent’s fear-mongering behavior. YTA.
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Daughter’s dream shattered by threatening and terrible dad. ☠️

Language barrier causing family conflict? Let’s discuss

Daughter’s dream crushed by controlling dad. YTA.

Parental support lacking in today’s world?

Parent’s overreaction jeopardizes trust with daughter. YTA ♀️

Daughter’s dream crushed by controlling father. YTA.

Parent’s lack of communication and support gets YTA verdict.

Parent struggles to let go of adult child’s dreams. YTA.

Defending daughter’s dream to move abroad, criticizing American ignorance.

Supportive comment defends daughter’s dream of moving abroad.

Conflicting views on daughter’s decision causing tension!

Let her go pursue her dream, YTA. ✈️

Skeptical commenter questions disowning daughter for moving abroad.

Father kicks out daughter over moving abroad, YTA.

Demanding fluent French on the spot is a**hole move

Moving abroad at 21, commenter defends daughter against YTA judgement
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Gap years can be great adventures to figure out life

“Letting” your child listen to rock music? YTA in every way.

Savage comment shuts down dad’s terrible parenting.

Daughter wants to move abroad, YTA kicks her out.
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Daughter called the dad YTA and hopes he regrets disowning her.

Redditor accuses dad of disregarding Reddit’s advice.

Overprotective dad gets called out for giving ultimatums to daughter

Controlled by parents, left home, successful now. YTA, apologize.

Redditor defends 18-year-old’s right to make her own mistakes

Let your baby bird fly! YTA for not supporting her.

Daughter’s desire to move abroad met with controlling parents. YTA.

A blunt comment for a stubborn father who kicked out daughter. YTA

Rock music controversy in comments.

Parental guilt-tripping and yelling leads to daughter’s departure. YTA

Don’t be a controlling parent, let your kids follow their dreams

Daughter wants to move far away to take care of kids. YTA
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Support your daughter’s dreams! YTA for kicking her out

Daughter wants to move abroad, Dad kicks her out. YTA.

Passionate defense of moving abroad for education and safety

Rock music controversy leads to dad being called YTA

Generous offer for daughter, but commenter thinks dad’s the a**hole

A parent shares their experience and advice for dealing with a child’s desire to move abroad for an experience.

Parental behavior called out as toxic and abusive YTA

Parental control or support? YTA needs to decide.

Parental control vs daughter’s dreams. YTA. Let her fly! ✈️

Encouraging reply to parent’s objections over daughter’s dreams. ✌
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Daughter kicked out for wanting to move abroad. YTA strikes again

Parental control vs independence. YTA called out.

Parental conflict may alienate children, leaving them unsupported.

Daughter calls out parent’s controlling behavior, warns of consequences.

Parental manipulation and yelling won’t solve anything

Daughter defies emotionally abusive father to pursue her dreams abroad. YTA.

Daughter plans to move abroad, dad kicks her out. YTA criticized.

Daughter’s dream of moving abroad sabotaged by controlling father. YTA.

Daughter allowed to make own decisions, dad overreacted and kicked out

Controlling father accused of racism and abuse by commentor.

Daughter’s dream of moving abroad to France criticized. YTA.

Supportive comment for daughter’s dream. Encourages travel and growth

Growing up and becoming independent is natural. YTA.

Support your daughter and let go of the reins, YTA

Supportive comment calls out parent’s actions and provides advice ❤️

Supportive comment calling out the parent’s behavior and encouraging daughter

Daughter escapes controlling, abusive father. ♀️

Encourage young people to follow their dreams and stand by them
