Hey there, lovely Facebook fam! You know how we all love a good dose of drama, right? Well, buckle up, because I’ve got a story that’ll make your jaw drop! Imagine your ex getting married on your child’s birthday and not even bothering to acknowledge their existence. Sounds like a plot from a soap opera, but it’s real life, folks! So, let’s dive into this rollercoaster of emotions, shall we?
The Traumatic Past

Denial and Drama

Girlfriend’s Shock

Life Goes On

Absentee Dad

The Shocking Revelation

Priorities?

The Call-Out

Family Defends Him ️

Fiancé’s Support

Family Attacks ️

Ex Gets Married on Son’s Birthday, Ignores Son: A Tale of Drama and Heartbreak
Our brave momma left her abusive ex while pregnant and had to fight to prove he was the father. Life moved on, and her son turned 5. But guess what? Her ex chose that very day to get married and didn’t even bother to wish his son a happy birthday! Can you believe it? So, momma bear took matters into her own hands and called him out on social media. And oh boy, did it cause a storm! Family and friends took sides, and the drama reached new heights. ️ Let’s see what people had to say about this unbelievable situation…
ESH, move on. Your son deserves better than bitter parents.

Advice to move on and focus on being a good parent

Focus on being there for your kid, let dad do him

Supportive comment assures OP they’re not the a**hole. Encourages new family.

ESH, but social media won’t fix anything. Sad situation

Rising above pettiness and letting karma do its work.

Custody battles can be messy, ESH for involving the child

Protect your son and move on. Don’t let your ex’s toxicity affect your new life. YTA.
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Harsh but necessary advice for a stalking victim.

NTA comment shuts down family’s defense of dad’s behavior.

Cutting off family: harsh but necessary for the neglected son

Harsh truth about absent father, NTA.

Divorced mom wishes she exposed ex’s lies earlier. NTA

Parental neglect calls for child support and moving on

Pushing a toxic relationship with child involved is ESH

Calling out social media oversharing: YTA for exposing family issues

Supportive comment highlights father’s lack of consideration for son.

User calls out OP for obsessing over ex and neglecting son.
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NTA for being furious at ex’s selfishness. Therapy and healthier environment suggested.

NTA dad should cut ties with toxic sperm donor and family

Opinionated comment called out for being self-centered

Cutting off toxic people is the first step

Why involve an abusive father? Is it better than none?

User calls out OP for bitterness towards absent sperm donor father

Ex’s indifference hurts, but FB posts may be petty ♀️
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Struggling single dad vents frustration on FB, not the A-hole.

Encouraging support for single parent and child’s stability ❤️

Cutting dad out may be best for son’s well-being

Don’t let a deadbeat dad ruin your son’s birthday. Focus on providing your son with all the love and care he needs.

“Spermdonor” ignores son on his birthday, supporters called out

Focusing on absent father for 5 years sucks for everyone

User thinks OP was childish for FB post, Dad clearly uninterested
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Shaming won’t make him a model father. ESH.

Empathetic comment defends against shame. NTA

Cutting ties with absent father for son’s well-being
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Respect yourself and your son, forget about the AH ex

Focus on being a good parent instead of blaming your ex

Father chooses fiancé over child, ESH. Focus on new life

Focus on your son and forget about the absent father

Parenting struggles with a deadbeat sperm donor and selfish stepmother.
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Parental conflict on child’s birthday. ESH for not prioritizing son.

Father’s neglect of son on birthday prompts call to action

Complicated family dynamics lead to a messy situation. ♂️

Creating drama on social media won’t help your child
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YTA for obsessing over absent father. Does stepdad plan to adopt?

ESH, but dragging him on social media won’t help ♀️

ESH accuses OP of stirring drama and being immature.

Letting go of a deadbeat dad and focusing on the kid

Cutting toxic people out of your life is self-care

Pushing child on sperm donor causing harm, everyone sucks here.

OP invited absent father but YTA for expecting involvement. ♂️

Helpful advice on moving on and prioritizing child’s needs.

Father’s lack of involvement in parenthood earns YTA judgement

User suggests therapy for OP’s toxic mentality, ESH.
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Social media rant won’t fix absent parenting, ESH

A commenter empathizes with OP’s frustration, advises to move on.

Man not involved in child’s life, move on and raise son

Move on and live your best life without your ex

Focus on positive relationships with in-laws for son’s sake

ESH: Commenter discusses bigger issue of parental rights and responsibilities.
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Bringing abusive ex back hurts son. YTA.

Harsh truth on deadbeat dad. Move on, focus on son.

Co-parenting with an ex who doesn’t care? You’re better off ♀️

NTA commenter advises to let the deadbeat father go.

NTA for not wanting son, but being an a**hole generally

A heartwarming suggestion for preserving memories for the neglected son ❤️

New wife deliberately ignored son’s birthday? NTA.

Petty social media post escalates family drama. ESH.

Absentee dad called out for ignoring son’s birthday

Don’t involve your child in adult issues, focus on positivity

NTA mom receives no support from absentee dad on son’s birthday

Father rightfully prioritizes son’s feelings over stranger’s reputation

Parent seeks advice on co-parenting with absent family members.

A custodial parent with a different perspective. ESH.

ESH but prepare for bio-dad relationship. Happens often.
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