Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Imagine being a young mom, left to raise your child alone after enduring traumatic abuse from your ex. You’d think the father would step up and be there for his son, right? Well, think again! ♂️ This deadbeat dad takes the cake for the most selfish and heartless actions. Get ready for a wild ride filled with paternity tests, courtroom drama, and a wedding that’ll make your blood boil!
A Tumultuous Start: Pregnancy, Abuse, and Denial

Paternity Bombshell: The Truth Comes Out!

Courtroom Drama: Girlfriend’s Shocking Reaction! ♀️

Moving On: College and a Fresh Start

Birthdays Ignored: A Father’s Absence

Shocking Discovery: Wedding on Son’s Birthday!

No Call, No Card: Priorities Revealed ♂️

Receipts Collected: Exposing the Deadbeat Dad

️ Family Feud: Defenders and Accusers Clash!

Fiancé Speaks Out: 3 Years of Absence

Inbox Attacks: Family’s Relentless Accusations

❓ The Burning Question: Am I the A**hole?

Deadbeat Dad Marries on Son’s Birthday, Ignores Child!
Can you believe the audacity of this so-called father? Not only did he deny his own child and put the mother through hell, but he also had the nerve to get married on his son’s birthday without so much as a phone call or a card! The internet was quick to rally behind the mother, calling out the deadbeat dad for his selfish actions. But wait, there’s more! The father’s family had the gall to accuse the mother of being the reason the child has no father figure! The irony is just too much to handle. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this jaw-dropping situation…
Move on and don’t be bitter. Your FB tantrum didn’t fix anything ❌

Advice to work through feelings and prioritize child’s well-being

NTA, focus on raising your kid, he’ll see who’s there.

Family in denial, but your fiancee will be all the father your son needs. Good luck

Social media won’t fix it, but deadbeat dad is ESH ♂️

Rise above, let him reveal his true character

Father denies paternity but mother insists on a relationship. ESH.

Protecting your son should be top priority. Move on. YTA
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Harsh but honest advice to move on and seek therapy

NTA comment shuts down entitled family’s defense of deadbeat dad

Cutting off contact with deadbeat dad and family, NTA

Clear NTA judgement and advice to move on.

Taking the high road didn’t work, exposing him would’ve.

Move on and seek child support. He’s not a role model ♀️

Pushing for a relationship with a ghosting, abusive father?

YTA for publicly exposing personal issues on social media.

Heartbreaking situation, dad is a terrible sperm donor.

Obsessing over ex won’t help, can’t force deadbeat dad. ♂️
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NTA for being furious at ex’s selfishness, but focus on therapy and providing a healthy environment for your son. Let ex pile on evidence of his cruelness.

Cutting ties with neglectful father for son’s well-being

User accused of being obsessed with absent father. ESH.

Cut off toxic ex and family for child’s well-being

Is having an abusive father better than none?

Engaging with a dissenting opinion: YTA for expecting more from a sperm donor. Focus on your fiancé as a better dad instead.

Ex-boyfriend’s lack of involvement hurts, but Facebook drama doesn’t help
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Father ghosts son for years, OP gets angry on FB

Ex denying paternity, better for son to have stability

Cutting out the dad might be for the best . ESH

Don’t air your dirty laundry on Facebook, focus on your son

“NTA” Dad denies paternity and ghosts son for years. Son’s response.

Mother’s refusal to accept reality and focus only on ex sucks

User thinks OP is the a**hole for FB post.
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Shaming ex won’t make him a model father. ESH. ♂️

NTA – Brutal honesty may be hard to swallow, but not wrong.

Cutting ties with deadbeat dad for son’s sake
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Respect yourself and move on. Don’t obsess over him.

Mom called out for creating drama instead of focusing on son ♀️

Ex denied paternity, NTA for moving on with fiance. ESH situation.

Focus on your son and values, forget the deadbeat ex

Choosing to keep deadbeat dad away from child is NTA.
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Admitting fault, suggesting alternative, and ending conflict.

Fight for your son’s future and let love win. ❤️

OP wants dad involved despite him giving up rights. ESH.

Don’t create social media drama over an absent father. ESH
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Stop obsessing over absent father, focus on loving fiancé

ESH, but dragging him on social media was petty

ESH. Commenter calls out immature behavior in a dramatic situation.

Don’t let a deadbeat live in your head rent-free. Focus on the kid

Move on, block him and his family, he’s not coming back

Pushing an absent father on a child can be harmful. ESH.

Parenting is a two-way street . Accept his decision and move on. YTA.

Decide what you want from your ex for your son’s sake

Parenting is not just about financial support . But if he denies paternity, leave him alone.

OP’s toxic mentality and FB stalking is ESH material. Therapy recommended.
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Posting on FB in a rant is ESH, did nothing to improve the situation

It’s understandable to be upset but he didn’t want a child ♂️

Father denies paternity and has been clear about his involvement. ESH.

Move on and have a fantastic life , forget the ex

Focus on the positive, let your son have a relationship with in-laws

Debate over parental rights and responsibilities, ESH for their actions.
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Brutal honesty. Bringing father back hurts son more. Let go.

Real talk . It’s time to focus on your son.

Co-parenting with an absent ex is tough, but public shaming won’t help. Focus on your son.

NTA comment: Deadbeat dad gets karmic retribution but move on.

Father denies paternity, gives up custody, NTA in this situation.

Documenting experiences for son’s future: a thoughtful gesture.

New wife deliberately planned wedding on son’s birthday. NTA.

Petty social media post – ESH. Ignore him like he did you.

Calling out an absentee father, but questioning the need for abuse.

Focus on being a good parent, not bashing the absent dad.

NTA mom receives unsupportive reply, told to have some pride.

Father cleared of paternity, not obligated to maintain relationship.

Protecting your child should be your priority, time to move on.

Parent shares experience and reasons for ESH verdict, warns against father’s control

Prepare for bio-dad’s arrival, ESH but understandable decision. ♂️
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