Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama on our hands. A newly engaged woman is facing some serious pushback from her dad and stepmom over her upcoming nuptials. Why, you ask? All because her stepsister has a crush on her man and can’t handle the news! Now, the bride-to-be is putting her foot down and setting some serious boundaries. ♀️ But is she being too harsh? Let’s dive in and see what this sassy lady has to say! ♀️
Newly Engaged and Ready to Celebrate!

Awkward Family Dynamics Arise

Tantrums and Low Contact

♀️ No PDA Allowed?!

Declining Invitations and Setting Boundaries

Support My Marriage or Don’t Come

️ Demanding Public Support

♂️ Dad Agrees with Stepmom

♀️ Family Says I’m Insensitive

Bride-to-Be Refuses to Hide Engagement, Uninvites Dad from Wedding!
Well, well, well… looks like this newly engaged gal is in quite the pickle! Her stepsister is crushing hard on her man and can’t handle the news of their engagement. So what does dear old dad suggest? Hide the ring, act like strangers at a party, and keep it all hush-hush! But our sassy bride-to-be ain’t having it! ♀️ She’s putting her foot down and refusing to play along with this ridiculous charade. And if dad and stepmom can’t get on board? Well, they can kiss their wedding invites goodbye! Talk about drama! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy situation…
Supportive commenter praises OP’s decision to stand up for himself.

Don’t let their problems become yours. NTA

Dad wants daughter to hide engagement indefinitely, NTA sets boundaries

Step sister’s behavior is unfair and disgusting. NTA.

Sister’s age doesn’t excuse father’s AH behavior

Parents’ overprotective behavior criticized for hindering daughter’s growth

Congrats on the engagement! Your family’s behavior is unfair

Celebrate your engagement openly! You’re NTA

NTA mom defends daughter’s engagement against entitled step sister.

Supportive comment against father’s behavior and encouraging message for couple
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Empathetic response to family dysfunction and lack of support. NTA

Supportive comment with confusion and concern about step sister’s behavior.

Stand your ground! NTA, not your responsibility to coddle SS.

NTA comment calls out dad’s enabling.

Cut them off, start your own family, surround yourself with support. ✂️

NTA. No reason for drama. Stepsister and everyone else grow up.
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Supportive comment defends step-sister’s right to a relationship.

Congrats on your wedding! NTA for wanting to share it.

NTA! Don’t let their BS ruin your wedding day
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You go, NTA! Don’t let anyone put you in a closet

Sibling cuddling and a ban on engagement, NTA wins
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Don’t hide your milestones because of someone else’s jealousy.

Celebrate your engagement and ignore the gaslighting. NTA

Encouraging comment on stepping out of parental control with

Supportive comment calling out overprotective behavior and offering advice. NAH

Step-mom enables bad behavior & wrongly blames it on disability

Being banned from announcing your engagement? That’s crazy! #NTA

Planning for the future of a disabled family member.

Celebrate love regardless of disabilities!

NTA. Disabled ≠ Bad behavior. Parents should’ve handled it before.

Congrats! Stand up for your happiness and don’t let toxicity in.

Supportive comment congratulating OP on their engagement, advising to not hide.

NTA stands up to dad’s unreasonable demand for secrecy

Break free from the idiocy! Elope and be happy!

Congrats! Your happiness matters, not their poor parenting choices.

Engage with your engagement! Don’t let your AH dad win!

Stand up to your dad and don’t let him control you

Stand up for your engagement, but don’t rub it in. NTA

Escaped a crazy situation but don’t invite stepsister!

Spread your light and cut out negativity!

Congrats on your engagement! Glad you stood up for yourselves.

Supportive comment calls out family’s irrational behavior.

Stepfamily drama! Commenter sympathizes with OP’s stepsister, yikes

Step-sister’s acclimation time doesn’t excuse dad’s behavior. NTA.

Supportive comment. Don’t let others dictate your life choices.

Setting boundaries, living your life, and not walking on eggshells.

Compassionate response to family dynamics and mental health struggles. ❤
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Cutting off family may be necessary for your future happiness

Stepdad withholding daughter’s engagement news. ♂️

Stand up for yourself and your wedding, NTA!

Celebrate your engagement without tiptoeing around your step-sister. NTA

Standing up for yourself and going no-contact. NTA

OP not at fault for stepsister’s lack of support/therapy, parents are.

Let them share their news and act like a couple!
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NTA. Congrats on engagement! Dad’s demands are unreasonable and unfair.

NTA: Family drama? Not your problem.
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Support for the poster cutting off toxic family members.

Stand up for yourself and announce your engagement! NTA

NTA gets support for going no contact with unsupportive family.

Setting boundaries is important, you shouldn’t have to hide ♀️

Engaged daughter not responsible for stepsister’s feelings. NTA

Live your life and don’t let anyone dim your happiness! ✨
