Picture this: You’ve just moved to a new city and your friend introduces you to her group of friends. You’re slowly becoming part of the gang, going on weekend trips and enjoying nights out. Then, you develop a crush on one of the guys, but your friend warns you he’s not interested. You assume he’s gay, especially since he never brings a wife around. But one day, you discover he’s not only straight, but married! And now, drama ensues…
New Girl in Town ️

New Friends, New Adventures

The Mysterious Crush

No Ring, No Wife?

The Shocking Revelation

Misunderstood Intentions

Drama Alert

The Real Reason Behind the Shock

Awkward Encounters

Silent Wife, Hovering Husband

The Uninvited

The Scandal That Almost Happened
Our protagonist, the new girl in town, finds herself in the midst of a potential scandal after discovering her crush is actually married. She’s shocked, blurting out her surprise, and her friend Eleanor quickly tries to shut her down. The group is protective of the wife, and Eleanor warns that any negative talk could turn them against her. The new girl insists she meant no harm, but the damage may already be done. Now, she’s left out of the group’s plans, wondering if her innocent surprise has cost her these new friendships. Let’s see what people have to say about this dramatic situation…
Insensitive comment on someone’s spouse appearance. Yikes

Accused of jealousy and cattiness, YTA.

ESH situation: OP assumed, Eleanor didn’t speak up, drama ensued

Questioning the treatment of wife’s looks sparks curiosity

Developing a crush on a married friend is a red flag

Using ‘that’ to refer to someone dehumanizes them. YTA.

Think before you speak, or get ready to face consequences.

Assuming someone is gay or married based on lack of interest? YTA

ESH couple keeps marriage secret, commenter judges wife’s appearance.

Crush’s sexuality aside, commenter’s judgemental attitude towards wife’s appearance.

Unveiling a marriage left hidden? ESH for keeping secrets.

Apologize and move on to find new friends. YTA.

Insensitive comment leads to group exclusion. YTA

Friend group rejects YTA after arrogant comment about crush’s wife

Suspicious missing details and catty comment lead to uninviting.

Unintentional YTA, but understandable confusion. Watch your tone in future.

Mystery wife raises red flags in the group. ESH.

Crush reveals married man, commenter calls out behavior. YTA confirmed.

Curious commenter wonders if wife’s illness causes overprotectiveness.

Traveling with a married friend without knowing their spouse? YTA.

Rebuke for assuming someone’s sexuality, but no justification given.

Crush turns to shock as friend Eleanor hides his marriage

The mystery of the crush’s wife and OP’s guttural reaction

OP accused of insulting husband’s wife’s looks. YTA confirmed

Don’t be a drama queen, YTA. Own up to it.

Jealousy accusation after shocked reaction to friend’s wife

Sister’s crush accidentally insults married man, called YTA. Sister also AH.

Suspicious behavior raises questions about crush’s marriage status

When a crush turns into shock and Eleanor’s little secret.

The elephant in the room: Why didn’t anyone say anything? ♀️

Accusatory comment, no replies. Yikes, someone’s in trouble!

Friend’s secret wife leads to blame game. Who’s TA?

Don’t judge someone’s worth based on their appearance.

Don’t judge someone’s worth by their appearance. YTA got owned!

YTA for making derogatory comments about your friend’s wife

Accusations of appearance-based judgement lead to YTA verdict.

Red-handed and unapologetic gets the boot. YTA.

Filter your words or lose your friends, YTA

Defending Eleanor’s reaction sparks debate over assumptions and grace.

Ouch! Harsh reality check for the commenter

User criticized for lack of tact in commenting about someone’s spouse. YTA ♂️

Accusation of OP being AH for omitting details about crush’s wife.

Unintentionally calling out someone’s marriage: not a great move

Misleading crush story, YTA. Consider finding new friends.

Avoid gossiping, be friendly, and move on. ✌

Engaging brain before mouth could have prevented this foot-in-mouth moment

Calm down, mind your manners, don’t make a scene

Assuming he’s gay and reacting to his wife

Uninformed about crush’s marriage, comment not nice but avoidable. ESH.

OP judged friend’s wife and assumed crush was gay. YTA.

Love makes us do awkward things

User judged and called out for lusting after married man. YTA

User calls out questionable story, suggests OP is insulting wife

Harsh comment shuts down OP’s jealousy in one sentence

When small talk goes wrong…

Accusation of jealousy and insecurity, YTA called out

Friend knew crush was married but didn’t warn about wife

Controversial comment section: Secrets and young marriages, oh my! ♂️

Red-faced crush gets called out for lack of tact

The comment accuses the writer of being homophobic ️

Don’t be a judgy person obsessed with a married guy

Insensitive comment about spouse’s attractiveness earns YTA judgement.

YTA for insensitive comment about someone’s spouse.

Think before you speak! Drama waiting to happen

Envious much? YTA can’t handle a loyal man

Ageist assumptions hurt, husband’s protective reaction appreciated

Misunderstanding due to potential autism, soft YTA with explanation.

Reminder to behave in friend group to avoid embarassing partner

Ignorance costs friendships: YTA needs to apologize

Don’t assume someone’s sexuality. YTA for insulting his wife.

Accused of being shallow for questioning friend’s lack of warning.

Jealousy detected . Accusation of dishonesty backfires.
