Get ready for a juicy tale of family drama, young love, and the battle of the anniversaries! Our story revolves around a tight-knit family of cousins, where relationships are scrutinized and celebrations are a big deal. But when one cousin’s 3-month ‘anniversary’ clashes with another’s 1-year milestone, sparks are bound to fly! Buckle up, because this family feud is about to get wild!
Meet the Cousins: A Tale of Two Relationships!

The Invisible Boyfriend: Excluded from Family Events

Introducing Bella: The Good Christian Cousin

Happy 2 Weeks, Babe! The Couple That Posts Together…

A Tale of Two Anniversaries: Bella’s 3-Month vs. My 1-Year

♀️ Sorry, Bella! I’ve Got Plans… It’s My ACTUAL Anniversary!

Lesson Time: What Does ‘Anniversary’ Actually Mean?

️ Gossip Alert: Bella Tells Her Mom, Who Tells My Mom!

♀️ Mom Says Apologize, But I’m Not Sorry!

3 Months vs. 1 Year: The Anniversary Showdown!
In this epic battle of the anniversaries, our protagonist finds herself torn between celebrating her own 1-year milestone with her boyfriend and attending her cousin Bella’s 3-month ‘anniversary’ party. With family pressure mounting and accusations flying, she stands her ground and refuses to apologize for prioritizing her own relationship. But the drama doesn’t end there! Bella’s mom gets involved, claiming that Bella and her beau are the superior couple. Talk about family feuds! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild situation…
No favoritism and no pressure – NTA made the right decision

Celebrating love > family obligations. NTA

Standing up for yourself without hurting others. NTA

Setting healthy boundaries with family, NTA

Putting your relationship first is valid. NTA

Celebrating a monthiversary is fine, Bella’s still an a**hole.

Is a 3-month anniversary party really that important?

NTA says it as it is, no sugarcoating

Celebrating dating anniversary at family event? NTA wins.

Celebrate your way! A clever gift idea with good vibes ✨

Family expects attendance for 3-month relationship, ignores 1-year milestone. NTA

Celebrate your real anniversary, not a three-month milestone!

Savage comment shutting down the idea of a 3-month anniversary party

Don’t let clucking hens dictate your happiness

When family takes a backseat to young love

Red flags in the relationship, but OP is still NTA
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Break the favouritism cycle, force your partner onto them

Soft ESH situation, tone matters. Apologize for snapping if needed.

Clear favoritism shown by cousin for her 3-month anniversary. NTA.

Anniversaries don’t start at 3 months, NTA is right

Don’t apologize, your cousin sounds entitled and NTA.

NTA thinks 3-month dating anniversary party is over-the-top

NTA! Commenter calls out Miss Bella’s need for constant acknowledgment

Christianity and favoritism don’t mix! NTA for standing up.

Eye-rolling at cousin’s attention-seeking 1-year anniversary post. NTA.

User questions if Bella has any shortcoming, family may be ridiculous.

Celebrating your own anniversary instead of cousin’s party. NTA

Support for not inviting cousin’s partner to future events.

Celebrate your anniversary! Family can wait

Celebrating love and calling out hypocrisy with NTA comment

Celebrating 1 year is fine, but a party for 3 months?

Celebrating your own anniversary is more important than appeasing family.

Celebrating a 3-month anniversary? NTA for prioritizing family event ♂️

Skipping the apology until receiving respect from family. NTA

Why celebrate a month-sary with a party and gifts? NTA.

Calling out the absurdity of a 3 month anniversary.

Celebrating week/month anniversaries nauseating? Let cousin be, NTA.

Standing up for oneself, NTA suggests tit for tat.

Celebrating their own anniversary doesn’t mean they’re snubbing family ❤️

Early relationship, NTA, and a funny anecdote

Unapologetically standing up for your relationship, NTA

Competitive family events creating drama. Commenter is sane

Anniversaries are overrated, NTA keeps it real

Cultural differences in celebrating anniversaries, and celebrating with SO.

Celebrating a 3-month anniversary is crazy

Etiquette game over: celebrating a minor anniversary and family obligations.

Sassy comment suggests petty revenge on anniversary snubbing cousin
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Stand your ground against narcissistic relatives.

NTA for celebrating 1-year anniversary, cousin needs to grow up

Standing up to a controlling parent. NTA

Stand up for your relationship and put your partner first

1-year anniversary over 3-month party. Is something wrong with cousin?

Counting smaller anniversaries is fine, NTA for not attending event.

Standing up for your relationship against family judgment

Dealing with annoying new couples – we’ve all been there
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Red flags everywhere! NTA’s cringey encounter with wackjob cousin.

Family’s expectations of marriage impacting cousin’s relationship choices. NTA.
