Weddings are supposed to be a time of joy and celebration, but for one deaf family, it’s become a source of stress and conflict When a loving sister just wants to be included in her brother’s big day, she finds herself at odds with a bride-to-be who seems reluctant to accommodate her family’s needs Buckle up, because this story is about to take you on an emotional rollercoaster ride!
♀️ A Deaf Family’s Dilemma
Brother’s Big Day… But With a Catch
Bro Says Yes, Bride-to-Be Says No ♀️
Sister to the Rescue? Not So Fast…
Bride’s Day, Bride’s Way?
No Interpreter, No Son
Bro’s Not Happy, But Trying to Keep the Peace ✌️
♀️ AITA for Wanting to Be Included?
Deaf Drama at the Altar!
Our deaf protagonist just wants to be a part of her brother’s special day, but the bride-to-be seems to have other plans ♀️ No interpreter allowed, even if it means excluding half the family! Talk about a bridezilla moment. But wait, there’s more! If there’s no interpreter, our heroine’s son won’t be attending either. Poor little guy will be bored out of his mind without understanding a word! The brothers’s caught in the middle, trying to keep everyone happy. But the real question is what does the internet think? Let’s dive into the juicy comments and find out!
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Suggests alternatives to interpreter placement
Deaf inclusion at a wedding – NTA asks for interpreter
Deaf inclusion at weddings: Should interpreters be on stage?
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Bride’s ableist stance during her wedding causes controversy
NTA for the request. YTA for rejecting alternatives. Compromise is key
Deaf person denied accommodation at wedding, comment defends decision. NAH
Bride’s SIL disrespects deaf family, NTA stands up for inclusion
Deaf inclusion at weddings. A delicate balance.
Compromise is key Don’t ruin someone’s big day.
Did the wedding vows have an interpreter for non-signers?
Deaf inclusion at a wedding sparks NAH discussion
Reasonable to ask for accommodations, but trade-off between importance & inconvenience.
Bride’s refusal to compromise on deaf inclusion criticized
Deaf inclusion at weddings: interpreter placement etiquette explained
Deaf inclusion debate: Should interpreter be on stage or off?
When the wedding vows become too entertaining to ignore
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Compromise is key. Interpreter off to the side. NAH situation
Bride wants her day to be about her and her husband ♂️ ♀️
Deaf inclusion at weddings? Print out vows could work!
Bride’s vows, bride’s rules. YTA for not respecting her wishes. ♀️
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Bride’s choice, but reasonable alternatives suggested for deaf inclusion
Is an interpreter next to the couple too distracting?
Deaf inclusion debate: Location seems to be the issue here
Debate on interpreter placement shows ESH are at fault
Reasonable compromise suggested for deaf inclusion at wedding
Wedding vows spotlight dilemma – NAH suggests compromises for inclusion
Deaf inclusion at weddings shouldn’t be a problem
Deaf inclusion at weddings: reasonable or unreasonable request?
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Be flexible and considerate for a NAH solution
OP gets called out for not compromising on deaf inclusion
Bride refuses deaf inclusion at wedding, commenter suggests reasonable solutions.
Innovative suggestion for deaf inclusion in weddings
Deaf inclusion explained, NTA. Watch video with captions later.
ASL interpreter at a wedding is common courtesy
Reasonable compromises for deaf inclusion at weddings
Compromise is key for deaf inclusion at the wedding
Professional ASL interpreter recommends consulting BSL interpreter for placement. NTA.
Bride criticized for not considering deaf inclusion at wedding
Mic-less vows may warrant interpreter, NAH.
CODA friend offers perspective on accommodating deafness at weddings.
Deaf guest not accommodated at wedding, but no hard feelings
Wedding drama: Commenter accused of being controlling by bride’s advocate.
Suggestion for deaf inclusion met with resistance, soft YTA.
Deaf commenter supports accommodation request, praises family values
Attending without hearing vows is okay, alternatives suggested
Balancing inclusion and personal preferences at a wedding
Suggests signing vows instead of having interpreter on altar.
Bride should learn sign language for her future family
Compromise is key. YTA for refusing and insisting.
A comment suggests the bride’s sister is being inflexible.
NTA stands up for family’s BSL communication at wedding
Empathetic commenter supports deaf inclusion and shuts down hearing privilege
Brother should have made deaf inclusion arrangement automatically. NTA.
Deaf inclusion at wedding: NTA but partner is. Interpreter necessary.
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Embrace the beauty of sign language and inclusivity in families
People suggesting degrading accommodations to a reasonable request is repulsive . NTA x 1 million
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Including an ASL interpreter at a wedding is a no-brainer
Deaf commenter shares struggles of accommodation, offers creative solutions
Deaf inclusion at weddings is a must-have. NTA.
User calls out bride for selfishness in wedding planning ♀️
Wedding is about bride and groom. Accommodate and meet halfway. YTA.
Inclusion request not AH behavior, bride’s surprise odd
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Deaf inclusion debated; interpreter not a distraction
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Deaf inclusion matters! ASL interpreter supports brother’s stance.
Welcoming a new family member shouldn’t be this difficult
Inclusion should not be up for debate. NTA ❤️
Deaf advocate suggests hiring professional interpreter for inclusive wedding
NTA. An interpreter would blend into the scenery and allow engagement.
Future sister-in-law prioritizes aesthetics over deaf inclusion. NTA
NTA asks for brother’s wedding understanding, AH SIL unaccommodating.
Accommodations are tools, not just ‘nice to have’
Disability accommodation shouldn’t be a fight
Don’t let the haters bring you down, NTA!
Bride’s exclusion of Deaf family is unreasonable and alarming ♀️
Deaf inclusion request sparks thoughtful discussion
Bride gets called out for ableist wedding day behavior
NTA defends deaf inclusion, calls out ignorant commenters
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Inclusive wedding with a sign language interpreter gets support ❤️
Compromise questioned in request for sign language interpreter
Don’t exclude the bride from her brother’s big day ♀️
Supportive commenter calls out bride’s ableism
Bridezilla faces criticism for not accommodating deaf family members
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Fair compromise suggested but bride’s decision should be respected
Asking for accommodations is NTA, but finding a compromise helps
Deaf inclusion shouldn’t be up for debate on someone’s wedding day ♀️
Groom wants interpreter at his wedding, but bride refuses
Brother’s wedding, brother’s rules. Not the a**hole.
Future sister-in-law’s ableism sparks important family discussion
