Picture this: you’re at your own wedding, and everything is going smoothly until your mother-in-law (MIL) and her sisters decide they want to play their traditional family song. The only problem? It’s a rap song from the 80’s or 90’s, filled with explicit lyrics about graphic sex and drug use. You’ve already put it on the ‘do not play’ list, but they’re not backing down. What would you do? Well, one bride faced this exact dilemma, and her decision has sparked a family feud that’s still going strong. Let’s dive into the story and see if she made the right call…
The Wedding Drama Begins

The MIL’s Song

Graphic Lyrics

The Do Not Play List

DJ Says No ❌

Inappropriate Lyrics ♀️

Not Fair?

No Arguing at the Wedding

No More Dancing

Feeling Guilty

Ruined Night

Nonstop Texts

Ultimatum ⚠️

No Response

Husband’s Thoughts

The Wedding Song Showdown
Our bride-to-be thought she had everything under control when she added her MIL’s explicit rap song to the ‘do not play’ list for her wedding. But when the big day arrived, the MIL and her sisters demanded the DJ play their song, causing a major scene. The bride stood her ground, refusing to let the inappropriate song be played, and as a result, her MIL’s side of the family spent the rest of the night sulking. Since then, she’s been bombarded with texts accusing her of not accepting their family traditions. Even her husband thinks she may have overreacted, but agrees that his family should have dropped the issue by now. So, what do you think? Was the bride in the right, or should she have let the song play for the sake of family harmony? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…
It’s your day, do it your way Don’t let anyone ruin it.

Brave move! Don’t let selfish family members ruin your day

Former hip hop DJ supports bride’s decision to ban controversial song
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Wedding song drama, but what’s the song?

Bride receives support for banning MIL’s misogynistic song at wedding

Family excluded from celebration, MIL can play song elsewhere

Respecting wedding traditions, but bride has the final say

Unexpectedly explicit song surprises and entertains commenters

Setting boundaries with in-laws: NTA for banning song

Bride bans MIL’s song at wedding, not the a**hole. Commenter approves.
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Bride stands up to MIL’s controversial tradition at wedding. NTA

This commenter found the banned song lyrics shockingly inappropriate for weddings.

Bride bans MIL’s controversial song at wedding. Commenter questions tradition.

Bride stands up to overbearing MIL at wedding. NTA ♀️

NTA says MIL’s song is trash and not wedding-appropriate

Wedding day is for the couple, not for the guests. NTA
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Wedding is for the couple, not the guests. NTA

Bride takes bold stand against offensive song at wedding. NTA.

Family drama at its finest.

User cancels MIL’s controversial song at wedding, common sense prevails

Bride rightfully banned inappropriate song and dance at wedding.

Tradition overlooked? Redditor asks about banned MIL song at wedding.

Support for bride’s decision, with a curious twist

Clever DJ tactics for handling DNP list requests

Stand your ground! MILs can be a real pain

Controversial song ruins wedding for entire family

NTA for banning MIL’s song, but could have discussed beforehand. Congrats!

Bride bans controversial song but should have given heads up.

Wedding songs can be a touchy subject, but it’s your day

Bride stands up to in-laws’ controversial song choice at wedding

DJ causes drama by not admitting lack of song choice

NTA: Parents throwing hissy fit over wedding song

NTA. MIL’s song is an abusive joke. Don’t give in.

Wedding music drama: Bride stands up for banned song list

NTA bride flexes veto power, saves elderly relative from TMI

Let your husband handle it, NTA ♀️

NTA! Commenter agrees bride made the right call banning MIL’s song

Spouse needs to step up and support bride.
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NTA bans MIL’s controversial song at wedding, hilarious comment thread ensues
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Reddit approves bride’s decision to ban MIL’s controversial song.

NTA but spouse’s neutrality favors MIL, have a talk

Bride takes a bold move by banning MIL’s song

NTA. MIL’s ‘tradition’ is inappropriate and self-absorbed

Bride rightfully bans MIL’s controversial song at wedding

Avoiding wedding disasters: NTA for banning MIL’s song

NTA defends bride’s decision to ban MIL’s inappropriate song.

NTA bride takes stand against MIL’s controversial wedding song

Bride rightfully bans MIL’s inappropriate song at wedding

A wedding day without shishkabobs is a good day

Cutting toxic family members: NTA wins with style

Setting boundaries with in-laws extends beyond just the wedding day

Wedding drama averted with NTA aunt’s DJ bribe story

Bold bride stands her ground against inappropriate MIL song at wedding

Stand your ground on banning MIL’s controversial song at wedding!

Wedding drama: Bride stands up to MIL’s controversial song request. NTA
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NTA, but communication is key! Avoided conflict with heads up

Guests should respect the bride’s wishes, not demand filthy songs ♀️

Wedding day, bride has the right to ban MIL’s song
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NTA commenter calls out narcissistic behavior with fiery language

Stand your ground and set boundaries. Good for you!

Cheers to a drama-free wedding! NTA and good luck

Publicly singing those lyrics?! NTA, you saved their dignity.

Wedding troupe needs a PG backup song. NTA here.

Support for bride’s decision, condolences for in-laws’ entitlement

NTA wedding drama: Bunny hop vs controversial song

MIL’s song lyrics are outrageous! NTA for banning it.

Bride-to-be bans MIL’s inappropriate song at wedding NTA

Bride bans MIL’s controversial song at wedding: NTA

NTA, family should respect bride’s wishes for a enjoyable wedding

Bride bans MIL’s song at wedding, commenters agree it’s inappropriate

Wedding, traditions, and sleazy songs: NTA bride takes a stand
