Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a wild ride ahead with this bride-to-be’s tale of woe. Her bestie from way back agreed to be her maid of honor, but it seems like she’s gone AWOL! ️♀️ Despite the bride’s best efforts to keep things chill and communicate, her MIA MOH has left her high and dry. ️ No dress opinions, no party planning, not even a single text back! As the big day approaches, our bride is at her wit’s end. Will she have to demote her disappearing bestie? Let’s dive in and see how this bridal drama unfolds!
Bride’s BFF Blues: Maid of Honor MIA!

Stress & Anxiety Alert: No Pressure Promise

Excitement Turns to Radio Silence

Texting into the Void: Bride Left on Read

Bridesmaid Dress Dilemma: Opinion MIA ♀️

Bachelorette Party Planning Paralysis

Google Form Ghosting: Maid of Honor MIA

Bride’s Dilemma: What to Do Next?

Update: 3 Month Ghosting Spree

Dress Distress: Did She Even Order It?

Depression & Privilege Accusations ️

AITA for Asking Her to Step Down? ♀️

Bridal Bestie Betrayal: Should MIA Maid of Honor Get the Boot?
Well, well, well… looks like our bride-to-be is in quite the pickle! Her childhood bestie agreed to be her maid of honor, but it seems like she’s gone off the grid. Despite the bride’s best efforts to keep things low-key and communicate, her MIA MOH has left her hanging. No dress opinions, no party planning, not even a single text back! As the big day approaches, our bride is at her breaking point. To make matters worse, her ghosting bestie dropped a bombshell just a month before the bachelorette party, leaving the other bridesmaids in the lurch. And when confronted, she pulled the depression card and accused our bride of being privileged! Talk about a low blow. Now, the question on everyone’s mind: should this disappearing act of a maid of honor get the boot? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this bridal bestie betrayal!
Maid of honor ghosts bride before wedding, NTA gives advice.

Kindly pass on wedding planning duties due to friend’s anxiety

Giving tough love – valuable lesson for flaky friend.

Suggesting alternatives to keep the peace with former BFF

Choosing a MOH who finds things stressful is a recipe for disaster ♀️. Other bridesmaids might have to pick up the slack.

Let her know someone else is taking responsibilities. NTA

Mixed messages and stress lead to tough decision for bride.

Sincere concern and communication can help resolve friendship issues.

Find a maid of honor you can rely on

Have an open dialogue about delegating MOH duties

Acknowledging the friend’s shortcomings but still NTA for asking her to step down.

Bridezilla alert! Commenter calls out bride for expecting free labor

Maid of Honor duties debate sparks YTA judgement
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Bridezilla pressures friend into bridal party, calls her YTA.

Weddings shouldn’t be an excuse to exploit your friends

Irresponsible friend gets the boot. NTA

NTA bride needs a different maid of honor

Supportive advice for a bride’s flaky friend.

Bridezilla alert! YTA for expecting free labor from MOH

Giving grace period before removing bridesmaid. Good advice!

Respect your friend’s limitations and don’t set them up to fail

Choose your MOH based on who will help and support you

Choosing a MOH with severe stress and anxiety? ♀️

Bridezilla? Commenter calls out bride for bad faith planning.

Overcoming anxiety as a maid of honour. Important job, scary bits.

Consider your friend’s mental health before asking her to step down.

Let her have the title and do everything without her

Bridezilla alert! YWBTA. Be considerate and don’t revoke an honor.

Give the benefit of the doubt and check in

Choosing an unwilling MOH is a recipe for disaster ♀️

Solving problems together is the essence of true friendship
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Anxiety is tough, but lack of communication isn’t excusable. NTA
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Sensible advice on handling MOH responsibilities without causing drama

MoH is a position of honor, not free labor. YTA.

Honesty is the best policy Have a gentle talk with her.
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Offering a solution with empathy and support. NTA

Loving firing needed for MOH who ghosted bride-to-be. NTA

If a friend’s not putting in effort, it’s okay to replace.

Choosing a different MOH would have been a better decision

Bridezilla alert? Comment suggests ulterior motives for BFF’s absence

Stepping down from a wedding? NTA, anxiety is tough

Appoint a co-MoH to get things moving and avoid stress

Bridesmaid shares experience with unhelpful MOH and advises bride to talk to her friend

Understanding NTA bride gracefully lets anxious friend off hook
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Being a MOH can be overwhelming, communication is key

Is the MOH bailing or just not up for it?

Sensible advice on handling a flaky MOH. Congrats bride-to-be! ❤️

NTA. Honest advice for a bride dealing with a flaky friend

Polite suggestion to replace ghosted maid of honor

Just replace her as MOH, no need to confront her

Preserve dignity and tread lightly to save the friendship.

NTA Bride regrets not delegating tasks to MoH at wedding

No bachelorette or bridal shower? Find a happy helper instead!
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Suggests a considerate way to avoid stressing out friends.

Clear expectations are key in bridal party roles

Being NTA doesn’t always mean the friendship is saved

Lazy MOH gets fired by bride. NTA, friend should help.
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Handling a ghosting MOH with grace and maturity

A regretful ex-BFF shares advice on how to handle a similar situation

Relief or disappointment? Mental health over wedding responsibilities. ♀️

BFF loses Maid of Honor role and ghosts bride, but behaves at wedding

Guy asks for maid of honor duties, supports NTA verdict.

Wedding advice for a NTA bride with missing bridesmaid.

Bridesmaid shares MOH responsibilities, but not decorating skills

Bridesmaid suggests group planning to avoid MOH feeling alienated

Sensitive reply seeks explanation for friend’s behavior

Bridesmaid empathizes with planning stress, suggests alternate MOH arrangements. ❤

Understanding friend’s limitations, no a-hole here

Bride and friend both suck for lack of communication

Don’t make maid of honor a job and let others plan
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Delegate duties to bridesmaids, don’t strip her of position.

Replace unreliable maid of honor? NTA. ♀️

Bride’s friend not pulling weight, make other arrangements ♀️

Delegate planning, set deadlines, confront friend, NTA

Offer another role, try to talk again, there might be more.
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Bride considers demoting friend who ghosted her before wedding.
