Hey there, lovely people! Have you ever felt like you’re in a tough spot and the one person you thought would be there for you just… isn’t? Well, buckle up, because this story is a rollercoaster of emotions! Our brave heroine is a 23-year-old woman who recently had a seizure and was diagnosed with brain cancer due to an orange-sized tumor. Now, she can’t drive and needs her boyfriend’s help to get to her appointments and run errands. But will he step up? Let’s dive into her story and find out!
Orange-sized Tumor: A Nightmare Begins
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Public Transportation: A Risky Ride
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Boyfriend to the Rescue?
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Living Arrangements: No Big Deal?
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Past Sacrifices: A One-Way Street?
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Heartbroken & Feeling Abandoned
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Backbone: A Missing Ingredient?
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Treatment Update: A Ray of Hope
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Craniotomy: A Glimpse into the Procedure
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Gratitude & Exhaustion
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Boyfriend Refuses to Drive Cancer Patient: Heartless or Justified?
Our brave heroine is in a tough spot, folks! After having an orange-sized tumor removed, she can’t drive and needs her boyfriend’s help to get to her appointments and run errands. She asks him to move in with her for 3 months, assuring him that he won’t have to pay for anything. But, to her shock and dismay, he refuses, saying he can’t leave his family during COVID. Feeling abandoned and heartbroken, our heroine wonders if she’s justified in being upset or if she should apologize. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Cancer-stricken girlfriend left alone by boyfriend for family time

Dating someone selfish? Learn to spot the signs

Supportive commenters agree boyfriend is NTA and unsupportive.

Partner’s lack of support during cancer diagnosis is selfish

Heartbreaking experience but empowering advice. ❤️

Cancer-stricken woman calls out boyfriend prioritizing family over her ❌

Heartbreaking reality of healthcare and chronic illness in relationships. NTA.

Boyfriend refuses to drive girlfriend to cancer appointments. Commenter empathizes.

Support is non-negotiable ❤️ NTA
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Dump the a**hole and find someone who will be there
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Heartwarming story of a supportive partner during illness ❤️

Partner refuses to support cancer-stricken girlfriend.

Compassionate commenter offers support to cancer patient, criticizes boyfriend. ❤️

Friend’s sacrifice for cancer-stricken best friend.

Heartless boyfriend won’t drive girlfriend with cancer, get a new one

You deserve better than this ❤️ Best of luck in recovery

Partner refuses to drive cancer-stricken girlfriend to appointments. NTA.

Kind stranger offers ride to cancer patient. NTA wins hearts.

Heartbreaking experience shared, NTA commenter advises to move on

Suggesting a visiting nurse, but doubts reliability of boyfriend

Supportive comment on boyfriend refusing to drive girlfriend to appointments

NTA. In a relationship, supporting your partner’s health is crucial.

Ex-husband steps up to help, why won’t this guy?

Helpful resource provided for cancer patient in need of assistance

Partner refuses to help cancer-stricken girlfriend. NTA, dump him!

Boyfriend’s immaturity and refusal to help ailing girlfriend

Dump him and move to be with your support system

Supportive comment, emphasizing the importance of sacrifice in relationships. ❤
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Partner’s lack of empathy for cancer-stricken girlfriend is unacceptable

Empathetic comment supporting OP’s decision to leave toxic relationship.

Supportive reply to OP sharing personal experience, encouraging leaving partner ❤️
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Supportive comment and personal experience, NTA.

Questioning the future of the relationship due to lack of support

When ‘for better or for worse’ doesn’t apply

Partner refuses to drive girlfriend to cancer appointments. NTA response.

Boyfriend prioritizes himself over cancer-stricken girlfriend’s safety and support.

Supportive comment encourages seeking help outside of unsupportive boyfriend. ❤️

No compassion from boyfriend. Commenters sympathize.

Cancer patient seeks help for rides after boyfriend’s terrible behavior

Community offers support and agrees: NTA.

A supportive partner is crucial in tough times.

Heartfelt support for cancer-stricken person. Reconsidering priorities advised. ❤️

Compassionate commenter advises cancer patient to dump unsupportive boyfriend ❤️
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American Cancer Society can help you with transportation. Keep fighting!

Dump him! Boyfriend won’t drive girlfriend with cancer to appointments. NTA

Supportive comment about boyfriend’s lack of support during cancer treatment ❤️

Listen to the wise words of this NTA commenter!

Dump him! ❤️ Contact your doctors for transportation help.

Dump him! Cancer scare is a wake-up call. #NTA

Dump him . Better to learn now than later.

Partner’s lack of care for cancer-stricken girlfriend is fatal incompatibility

Heartless boyfriend fails to support girlfriend battling cancer. NTA.

Don’t settle for a spineless partner. It will only get worse.

Supportive comment encourages OP to reevaluate relationship with selfish partner

You deserve better Sending healing thoughts your way

Red flag alert! Lazy and unmotivated boyfriend won’t help with cancer.

Partner’s lack of support during cancer treatment raises red flags
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Heartwarming support from commenter, contrasting with unsupportive boyfriend ❤️

Don’t waste your energy on someone who doesn’t prioritize you.

Supportive comment, encouraging OP to find help and leave unsupportive boyfriend.

Supportive comment calls out boyfriend’s behavior, encourages self-worth

Break up with him, you deserve better

Red flag alert! Dump the a**hole and focus on healing.

Heartwarming reply offers support and well wishes for cancer patient ❤️

Encouraging comment supporting the OP to leave her unsupportive boyfriend

Partner lost license, still offered to drive. Boyfriend TA.

Choose a partner who puts you first ❤️

Supportive comment calls out toxic behavior in partner.

Don’t waste time on someone who won’t support you. Consider alternative transportation

Sassy NTA comment shuts down unsupportive ex-boyfriend

Partner should prioritize cancer-stricken girlfriend. NTA

Unemployed boyfriend won’t drive cancer-stricken girlfriend to appointments , should she end it?

Supportive comment encourages cancer-stricken OP to prioritize her wellbeing ❤️

Supportive comment, encouraging to leave unsupportive partner. ❤️
