Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a classic case of opposites attract gone wrong! Meet our quirky robotics engineer, who’s struggling to fit in with her boyfriend’s posh crowd. From puking in the woods to accidentally flashing thermal cameras, this gal’s got some hilarious stories to tell! But her boyfriend’s not exactly thrilled with her potty humor and lighthearted jabs at AI. Is she the a-hole for being herself, or should she try to be more “cultured” to impress his coworkers? Let’s dive in and find out! ♀️
Buckle up for a bumpy ride in this relationship!

From humble beginnings to high-tech success!

But there’s a catch – social awkwardness alert!

Meanwhile, Jim’s living the cultured life!

Jim’s a networking pro, thanks to his family!

A match made in… awkwardness?

Happy hour turns into a robotics lesson!

Nerding out about neural networks!

Puking in the name of science!

Oops! Caught on thermal camera while taking a leak!

Boyfriend not amused by potty humor!

♀️ Feeling like a fish out of water!

Struggling to fit in and be herself!

Robotics engineer clashes with boyfriend’s cultured coworkers!
Well, well, well! Looks like our quirky robotics engineer is in quite the pickle! She’s got a heart of gold and a brain full of circuits, but her boyfriend’s not exactly thrilled with her potty humor and lighthearted jabs at AI. From puking in the woods to accidentally flashing thermal cameras, this gal’s got some hilarious stories to tell! But is she the a-hole for being herself, or should she try to be more “cultured” to impress his coworkers? The internet’s got some thoughts on this one, and they’re not holding back! ️ Let’s see what kind of wisdom (or shade) they’ve got to offer our mismatched lovebirds!
Don’t be embarrassed, your boyfriend needs to loosen up

NTA comment: Boyfriend needs to toughen up
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Avoid gross stories when socializing with his colleagues.

Embrace who you are! Don’t let anyone make you feel embarrassed.

Be mindful of first impressions, boyfriend could have been nicer

Don’t worry, NTA. Sometimes the conversation just gets too technical

Lesson learned: Keep the gross stories for after-work hangouts
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Talking about vomit story at work event: YTA but normal behavior

NTA. Presentation matters, maybe the delivery wasn’t great?

Improve your “politesse” with tips on small talk etiquette

Context is key – be mindful of your surroundings

Being hyper-excited may be perceived as childish, but NAH.

Love should not be about making someone feel small

Reading the room is key! NAH but keep it classy

Be mindful of the audience and setting

Embarrassing work event? Don’t worry, NAH, it happens to everyone!

ESH, but keep it PG! Gross details not appropriate for work.

Navigating work culture is tricky, but BF shouldn’t humiliate you

Keeping it classy at work events, even if it’s funny elsewhere
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Partner’s insecurities may be causing discomfort, NAH in situation

NTA’s advice on workplace behavior and audience awareness.

Coworkers approve of behavior deemed ‘uncultured’ by girlfriend.

Being cultured doesn’t always equate to being interesting.
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A relatable struggle with ADHD and social etiquette

Engaging and supportive comment, with a hint of sarcasm

Is the girlfriend’s behavior really embarrassing or is the boyfriend insecure?
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Embrace your quirks and find someone who appreciates them!

Empathetic reply shuts down boyfriend’s ‘high and mighty’ attitude.
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NAH, but some people are too immature for pee and vomit

Embrace your fun and interesting self, don’t let anyone bring you down!

Boyfriend’s elitism isn’t a good look

Choosing fun girlfriend over boyfriend at work events. NTA

Don’t let anyone make you feel small or ‘uncultured’

Share your stories, educate and entertain with confidence! ✨

Complimenting a great communicator for explaining a complicated situation

Dinner party etiquette drama! NAH, but communication is key

Supportive comment, encouraging girlfriend to be herself at work events
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Embrace your differences and stay awesome!

NTA commenter shares experience of artificial vs. natural behavior.

Is the girlfriend’s behavior acceptable at work events?

Respectful reply acknowledges individual differences and social awareness.

NTA commenter advises being cordial but not friendly with colleagues.

Engaging comment encouraging confidence and tact at work events.

Being unfiltered can be hilarious, NTA approves!
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Boyfriend overreacts to girlfriend’s harmless behavior at work events

Does the boyfriend even understand what she does?

Embrace your inner uncultured swine and share your idiot robot car stories

Different backgrounds are fine, communication is key for work events

Being asked to change who you are is a red flag

Boyfriend gets called out for hypocrisy, NTA wins!

Advice for ‘uncultured’ girlfriend to improve her behavior at work

Suggesting hand puppets and pretty pictures for better communication ♀️

Is it a matter of cultural differences or office etiquette?

NTA commenter defends the girlfriend and suggests self-reflection for Jim
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Polite advice for girlfriend to refine her behavior at work.

NTA, but communication is key for relationship growth

Polite advice to diversify topics and elevate language at events

Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for being yourself!

Passionate nurse defends talking about work at dinner. NTA

Double standards at work events. NTA for girlfriend’s behavior.
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Supportive comment encourages confidence and self-respect.

Keep being awesome and let the idiots be grownups

Don’t let him put you down, own your smart and funny personality

Don’t apologize for your excitement. You deserve wholehearted support.

Stay true to yourself and ignore toxic people

Engineering parents and healthcare job make story seem appropriate
