Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy story that’s sure to get your heart racing and your jaw dropping! Meet our leading lady, a 28-year-old woman who’s been dating her boyfriend for over two and a half years. She made it clear from the start that kids weren’t in the cards for her, and he agreed to live without them. ♀️ But hold on to your hats, because a shocking discovery from her past is about to turn their relationship upside down! Get ready for a wild ride filled with secrets, betrayal, and a whole lot of drama!
A Shocking Discovery from the Past!

He Wanted Kids, But Decided to Compromise

A Blast from the Past Revealed!

The Truth About My Surrogacy Journey

Just a Handy Oven for That Bun!

Boyfriend Feels Betrayed and Upset

Apologizing for Not Telling Him Sooner

Did I Do Anything Wrong Here? ♀️

ℹ️ Additional Info: Surrogacy Requirements

A Family Affair: Trusting a Sister

⚖️ The Legal Side of Surrogacy ⚖️

A Surrogacy Bombshell Rocks Their Relationship!
Well, well, well… looks like our leading lady has been keeping a pretty big secret from her boyfriend! When he stumbled upon some old photos of her pregnant at 20, he was shocked and upset, thinking she’d had a child and given them up. But the truth was even more surprising – she had been a surrogate for her sister who was struggling with fertility issues. Now, her boyfriend feels betrayed that she was willing to carry a child for her sister but won’t consider having one with him. Talk about a sticky situation! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama!
NTA user stands up for surrogate after boyfriend’s unreasonable request.

Partner wants kids, find someone who doesn’t ♀️

Confusion about surrogacy criteria sparks curiosity in comment section

ESH for not discussing desire for kids; bf for insensitive reaction

Boyfriend in denial about wanting kids, but NTA for surrogacy ❤️

Hiding surrogacy for 2.5 years from SO makes YTA

NTA for being a surrogate. Boyfriend misunderstood situation.

Not sharing such a big thing during a 2,5 year relationship
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NTA or ESH? Lack of communication and empathy. Relationship in jeopardy. ♀️ ♂️

ESH. Boyfriend overreacts to surrogate photos, both need communication.

Surrogate girlfriend should have been honest with her boyfriend

Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for being a surrogate

Surrogate mom not obligated to tell BF, but he’s allowed to be surprised
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User thinks GF should have disclosed past as a surrogate.
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Body autonomy matters. NTA. His reaction shows incompatibility. ✊
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Red flag? Partner might want kids despite saying otherwise.

Sharing big personal details is important in a serious relationship

Not disclosing surrogacy during parenthood plans – YTA.

End the relationship. His resentment will only grow over time.

Partner lied about being okay with no kids, NTA.

Stick to your guns, NTA.

Surrogate shuts down boyfriend’s baby request with brutal honesty.

Dissenting opinion: YTA for hiding surrogate pregnancy photos.

NTA for not telling boyfriend about being a surrogate. Potential true colors showing situation. ⚓️

Woman defends decision to be a surrogate against unsupportive boyfriend.

Be upfront about deal-breakers early on

Boyfriend an a-hole for thinking surrogacy means wanting kids. ESH.

Trust issues arise over undisclosed surrogate pregnancy photos

NTA. The boyfriend’s desire for kids isn’t her concern.

Hiding surrogate pregnancy photos from partner – YTA.

ESH. It’s important to communicate big events with partners but maybe it’s not meant to be

BF agreed to surrogacy despite discomfort, both wronged in situation

Debate on honesty and responsibility in surrogacy.

Gender double standards in surrogacy. Thought-provoking N.T.A comment.

Relationship doomed. Move on, nobody is happy.

NTA for not wanting kids, but YTA for not mentioning surrogacy

Surrogate mom criticized for not telling husband about pregnancy.

NTA cooks up a kid, but will it change his mind?

Communication is key, ESH for not being upfront about surrogacy

Partner upset about hidden surrogacy, ESH for persistent comments.

Stand your ground, but reconsider if you’re on the same page

Honesty is the best policy . He should respect her decision.

Blindsiding BF with pregnancy pics? EHS for not warning him

Partner’s lie about wanting kids can lead to relationship problems ♂️

Miscommunication leads to YTA verdict for not being clear.

Brutal honesty: Expecting privacy as a surrogate is unrealistic.

Time for a serious talk with your baby-hungry boyfriend

YTA for not telling him about surrogate pregnancy. Splitting up advised.

Break up with him! You’re more than an incubator. NTA

Surrogacy bombshell shocks long-term partner, needs time to process ♂️

Former surrogate warns OP about potential future issues with partner

Surrogacy is like blood donation? NTA, according to comment.

Choosing not to have kids? Let your partner know early. NTA

ESH for not being honest about surrogacy. He’s an AH for staying.

Boyfriend wants surrogate for his own child, red flags abound.

Father defends surrogate’s decision, calls out boyfriend’s jealousy.

Being a surrogate doesn’t mean you owe anyone a kid

Harsh advice on relationship, YTA verdict, heartbreak

Partner’s reaction to surrogacy reveals incompatibility. Break up advised.

NTA but YTA for not telling him. Reflect on why.

Surrogate GF’s BF doesn’t support children anymore
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Surrogate GF didn’t disclose info, BF needs time to process

Mixed opinion on boyfriend’s concern for surrogate pregnancy.

Boyfriend thinks it’s unfair but NAH, he needs to understand surrogacy.

Surrogacy is not equivalent to raising a child together.

Boyfriend not okay with surrogacy, but it’s not her fault ♀️

NTA! Your body, your choice. Boyfriend’s red flag. End relationship.

User warns OP of potential consequences of staying with conflicted partner.

Not obligated to share as surrogate, his reaction is telling

NTA comment shuts down potential father’s ignorance

Honesty is key in relationships. Listen to partner’s needs. NAH.
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Surrogate’s partner wants kids, she doesn’t. Deal breaker?

Surrogacy is not parenthood. NTA for not telling him.

NTA for being a surrogate, but tough situation with bf

“NTA” commenter defends surrogate’s choice to not reveal pregnancy photos.

Advice for discussing surrogacy with partner.

Surrogate pregnancy photos upset boyfriend, but not her fault. NTA.
