Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, friendship, and some serious drama. Meet our leading lady, a gal who’s found herself in quite the pickle with her boyfriend, ‘C’. They share the same squad, but lately, the boys have been ditching the girls for their exclusive ‘guys nights’. Our girl is feeling left out and isolated, watching her BF living it up with HER friends. Things came to a head when she confronted him, and let’s just say it wasn’t pretty. Now she’s wondering, is she the a-hole for losing her cool? Let’s dive in and unpack this messy situation!
Trouble in Paradise?

The Squad

‘Guys Night’ Shenanigans ♀️

Feeling Left Out

Every. Two. Weeks.

Inside Jokes Galore

The Confrontation

Priorities, Much?

Breaking Point

Seeking Refuge ♂️

Hobbies vs. Exclusion

Gender Discrimination?

Quality Time? ️

Scheduling Conflicts

Feeling Isolated

The Verdict Is In! ️ Is She The A-Hole?
Well, well, well… what a tangled web we weave! ️ Our girl is caught between a rock and a hard place, watching her boyfriend and her friends living it up without her. She’s feeling excluded, isolated, and downright frustrated. But when she finally confronted her man, things got heated real quick! Now the question on everyone’s mind is: was she justified in her reaction, or did she cross the line? The internet has spoken, and the opinions are rolling in! Let’s see what the masses have to say about this juicy drama. Grab your popcorn, folks, because this is about to get interesting!
NTA, but commenters misread post and being dicks. Boyfriend selfish. Good luck.

Feeling left out? Find new friends who actually care about you!

Supportive comment suggests finding new friends if boyfriend doesn’t change

Boyfriend has ‘guy time’ every 2 weeks, GF feels left out

GF gets called out for being too clingy

NTA for wanting to hang with her friend group.
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Take control of your happiness and find your own circle!

Compromise or new friends/boyfriend: ESH in this situation.

Importance of ‘Guy Time’ and making new friends for couples

Girlfriend is not a priority in boyfriend’s life. NTA.
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Female commenter sympathizes, offers advice for friend exclusion situation ❤️

Confusing post leads to YTA judgements, seek clarification before posting.

Suggests making new friends, but is OP really the a**hole?
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Being excluded by long-time friends and BF sucks

Partner’s need for guy time is valid. YTA for jealousy.

Addressing insecurities and trust in relationships with YTA comment.

Girlfriend prioritizes friendship and gender is irrelevant. NTA

Girlfriend called YTA for overreacting to boyfriend’s ‘guy time’.

Excluded from friend group, boyfriend prioritizes ‘guy time.’ NTA.

NTA, have a conversation with both and reconsider their value.
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Advice to accept guys’ nights & plan alternative activities for Saturdays.

Dump the boyfriend, dump the friends You deserve better

Feeling left out of ‘guy time’ led to trust issues

Excluded from the group because she doesn’t have a d**k ♀️. NTA.

Excluded every weekend? NTA. Better friends and SO needed.

Breaking gender barriers in social groups – NTA’s unpopular opinion

Boyfriend prioritizes ‘Guy Time’ over date night – how to compromise.

Challenging toxic masculinity in ‘guy time’ tradition. NTA.

User criticizes judgment on ‘guys night’ controversy with profanity.

This commenter thinks ‘guys night out’ is idiotic, and wants to have fun with their S/O

Boyfriend’s ‘guy time’ gesture might be inappropriate, but NAH overall.

Let your bf have his guy nights But don’t overreact ♀️
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Finding new people might be the best choice for OP.

Solid advice for dealing with a busy boyfriend

“Guy Time” every weekend? Maybe it’s time for a change.

Sharing hobbies with significant others is important for relationships.

Expecting to be included in everything is unreasonable

Don’t be too quick to judge. YTA but ex-bf is worse.

Recognize his preference and move on. You deserve better.

Empower yourself with some girl time!
