A mother shares her story about her daughter’s 7th birthday party, which ended up with her daughter’s best friend being rushed to the hospital due to an allergic reaction. The mother had warned the friend’s mother that the cake would contain Nutella, but the friend’s mother forgot that Nutella contains nuts and let her daughter have a slice. The friend’s mother then called the mother of the birthday girl an a**hole, causing the birthday girl to feel guilty and refuse to eat anything. The situation has caused a rift between the two families. Read on to find out if the mother was in the wrong for ordering a Nutella cake for her daughter’s birthday.
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A birthday party turned sour after a Nutella cake caused an allergic reaction. A mother shared how her daughter’s friend’s mother called her an a**hole for serving a cake with nuts in it even though she had warned her beforehand. The incident has caused tension between both families and the daughter is feeling guilty about her friend’s reaction. The mother claims that in her country, Nutella is advertised as a chocolate spread, so many people don’t realize it contains nuts. What do you think? Was the mother in the wrong for serving a Nutella cake? Or was it the responsibility of the friend’s mother to ensure her child didn’t eat anything with nuts in it? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
NTA. Mother’s projection and lack of responsibility is concerning.
OP is NTA for not serving Nutella cake at party.
NTA for serving Nutella cake at daughter’s party despite allergy
NTA: Mom forgets Nutella has nuts, doesn’t think of child’s allergy.
Serving a Nutella cake at a party: NTA, but the other mom is.
Surprising number of people unaware of Nutella’s nut content
Was the Nutella cake an act of aggression or a harmless mistake? NTA.
Are Kat’s mom’s actions just a little too suspicious?
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Serving Nutella to nut-allergic person: NTA according to comment
Teaching children to ask about ingredients
Misunderstanding about Nutella allergens sparks debate. NTA.
You warned her, NTA.
Mom struggles to make daughter understand food sacrifices for friends
Mom ignores warning, blames OP for Nutella cake. NTA
Commenters question authenticity of NTA’s post about Nutella cake.
Providing full disclosure, NTA served Nutella cake, no blame.
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Mom refuses to apologize after blaming Nutella cake for daughter’s ER visit
NTA for serving Nutella cake but entitled mom lashes out ♀️
No guilt here! NTA for serving Nutella cake
Parent with nut allergy outraged by Nutella cake: NTA wins
No nuts, no problem! Nutella cake is a safe bet.
Definitely NTA! ♀️ Don’t blame yourself for someone’s forgetfulness.
Being diligent with allergies is crucial. Other parent is to blame ♀️.
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Commenter defends OP’s Nutella cake, calls out entitled mom.
Setting boundaries doesn’t work: Mom feeds child allergen. NTA.
Spread the love, not the hate (and definitely not the Nutella)
Mom’s negligence causes allergic reaction, NTA for Nutella cake
Defending the use of Nutella: Language barriers can be tricky. NTA
Kat’s mom gets called out for bad parenting ♀️
Is this a reference to a previous AITA post?
Being cautious is always a good thing
Taking precautions didn’t help: Nutella cake drama
Two moms serve allergen at a party: ESH for endangering children.
NTA for serving Nutella cake, but important to consider severe allergies
Confusion over nut allergy and chocolate cross-contamination
Standing up for your child’s allergies
Always check for allergies! NTA in this situation
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Defending Nutella cake served to allergic child: NTA wins.
Food safety at a party: ESH for serving Nutella cake
Serving Nutella cake is NTA. Explanation was sufficient
No Nutella drama here! Providing alternatives makes you NTA
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Unbelievable story, commenters calling out inconsistencies and lack of logic
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Being cautious with allergies, commenter concludes ‘not the a**hole’
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