Picture this: You’ve been best friends with someone for five years, even living together. They set you up with a guy, and you date for three years before breaking up on good terms. You think you’ve moved on, but then your bestie drops a bombshell on you during a wine night. Turns out, your ex cheated on you for most of your relationship, and your best friend knew the whole time! Now you’re left wondering if you should forgive or forget.
Besties for 5 Years

Playing Cupid

Love Connection

J’s Seal of Approval

Mutual Breakup

Still Friends

Moving On

Wine Night Confession

J’s Shocking Secret

A Cheater Revealed

Two Years of Lies

J’s Betrayal

Covering for D

Escape to Mom’s House

Blocking D and J

Leaving the Apartment

J’s Desperate Plea

Should I Forgive?

Best Friend’s Betrayal: Should She Forgive?
Our protagonist found herself in a whirlwind of emotions after her best friend of five years, J, confessed a shocking secret. J revealed that the protagonist’s ex, D, had cheated on her for two out of the three years they were together, with three different women. The worst part? J knew the entire time and even covered for D, making excuses for his whereabouts. Feeling betrayed and heartbroken, our protagonist left the apartment she shared with J and moved in with her mom. Now, she’s left wondering if she should forgive J for her past actions, or if this betrayal is too much to handle. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
BFF helped ex cheat for 4 years, can’t trust her now

Betrayed by best friend, but NTA for feeling hurt

OP’s roommate J was also involved with D. NTA.

Speculation of hidden history adds intrigue to betrayal story

Friend knew about cheating but only speaks up when in need

Supportive comment reminds to prioritize health after friend’s betrayal.

NTA’s friend betrayed her trust by covering up cheating boyfriend

Supportive comment advises OP to move on from toxic friend

Moving out, breaking the lease, and cutting off the cheating ex.

Forgiveness is tough, trust is tougher ♀️

NTAH. Ex is cheating trash and friend betrayed you ♀️

Betrayed by a friend for not telling about cheating.

Friendship over: Commenter calls out betrayal with no remorse

Clear your name, but cut ties. Crappy beings in life

Betrayed by best friend and partner, now on the hook ♀️

Guilt will eat them alive, OP did the right thing. NTA

Close friends don’t hide infidelity. NTA for confronting her.

Betrayed by best friend’s lie, NTA for feeling hurt

Empowering comment to dump cheating partner.

Speculation and advice on cheating friend, stay safe OP
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Ex-BFF knew about cheating, NTA for cutting them off

Lesson learned: trust is earned, not given,

Best friend betrayed her and helped ex cheat, NTA for cutting ties

Don’t listen to their excuses, NTA. Betrayal is betrayal

Betrayed by best friend and cheating partner, move on.

Friend knew about cheating spouse, but didn’t tell for years. NTA.

Betrayal by trusted friends is worse than physical pain

Friend’s failure to tell about cheating wasted 2 years

Roommate covering up ex’s infidelity is insanely wrong. NTA.

Don’t feel guilty for cutting off toxic friends

Standing up for yourself and saying f**k them

Betrayed by best friend and cheating partner. NTA. Move on.

Friendship over: commenter calls out friend’s betrayal

Friend betrayed trust, possible infidelity, NTA for cutting ties

Cutting out toxic friends for protecting cheaters

No sympathy for the backstabber, zero time for their BS

Friend’s betrayal worse for covering up cheating. NTA

Friendship broken: Betrayal by covering up for a cheater

Betrayed by mutual friends, can’t even imagine if best friend knew

Betrayed by a friend, but standing strong with no explanation.

Betrayed by best friend who lied for cheating boyfriend. NTA.

Empathetic comment offers support, declares OP not the a-hole.

Cutting toxic people out of your life is always justified

Cutting ties with shady friends – NTA

Best friend’s betrayal: Commenter advises not forgiving friend’s betrayal.

NTA’s friend knew about cheating, should’ve kept quiet. Agreed?

Friendship breakups can be just as painful as romantic breakups

Betrayed by friends who knew of cheating, cut them off forever

Betrayed by two liars, but good on you for setting boundaries. #NTA

Friend hid cheating and enabled it. Cut them both off.

NTA! Supportive comment, encourages moving on.

NTA, friend knowingly covered up cheating, good on you for blocking.

You don’t need a friend who condones cheating

Standing up for yourself and cutting toxic people off

Friend knew of cheating, betrayed you. Narcissistic ex is A-hole

Betrayed by your best friend, not the a-hole for leaving

Friend’s complicity in cheating earns commenter’s disapproval

NTA OP! Cutting toxic people out takes courage.

Accusation of infidelity leads to shocking reveal. NTA stands strong

Betrayed and Broken: Trust Issues Forever

Betrayed by both best friend and boyfriend . NTA.

Unpopular NTA opinion: J didn’t tell to help you, but clear her conscience

Protect yourself legally and move on from toxic ‘friends’

Betrayed by best friend for not revealing cheating partner

Friend sets you up, but ends up sleeping with him? NTA

Friend’s betrayal equals her cheating on you too. NTA.

Real friends tell you the truth, NTA for dropping them

NTA for telling a friend they’re being cheated on

NTA calls out best friend and cheating boyfriend, no holds barred
