Picture this: you find an amazing deal on a toy for your adorable 3-year-old nephew at a yard sale. It’s a power wheels John Deere tractor, and although it’s not working, you believe your boyfriend can fix it. You’re excited to give your nephew the time of his life driving around your boyfriend’s big field. But when your sister-in-law comes to pick him up, she wants to take the tractor home, and you’d rather it stay at your house. Is it wrong to want the toy to stay at your place? Let’s dive into this story and find out!
A Yard Sale Find
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A Working Tractor and a Free Trailer
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Fixing the Tractor
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A Day with My Nephew
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Potty Training Struggles
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Tractor Fun at My House
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All Smiles
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Sister-in-Law Wants the Tractor
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My House, My Rules
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Sister-in-Law’s Reaction
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A Tractor Tug-of-War
Our protagonist found a broken power wheels tractor for her nephew at a yard sale and, with her boyfriend’s help, managed to fix it. The little guy had a blast driving it around her boyfriend’s field, and it seemed like the perfect way to bond with her nephew. But when her sister-in-law came to pick him up, she wanted to take the tractor home. Our protagonist preferred the tractor to stay at her house so her nephew would be excited to come over and play with it. Her sister-in-law wasn’t too happy about this, calling her an a**hole for getting a cool present he could only use at her house. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA defends gifted tractor as a fun childhood memory
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Keeping toys for grandkids at home doesn’t make OP NTA

NTA. Tractor is for aunt’s house, mom can buy one.

NTA for keeping toy at your house, great idea!

Normal to have special toys at relatives’ houses

Teaching kids about sharing and SIL needs to learn it too

Tractor gift? NTA says it’s like toys at the pediatrician.

Gift or not? The dilemma of shared property.
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Tractor gift drama: NTA, entitled sister-in-law gets called out.

Tractor gift creates family drama due to wording. NAH.

Mom wants gift, gets mad when denied. NTA wins.

Sharing is caring! NTA, it’s okay to have special things.

Aunt’s gift causes sister-in-law’s fury. NTA. You decide.

Keeping toys at your place for a loved one is great

Toys at Aunt’s house = Fun visits. SIL just jealous

A tractor gift sparks no drama, only wholesome boyfriend appreciation

Creating a special environment for a niece, NTA.

Sharing a toy car causes family drama.

Aunt offers tractor gift to nephew, sister-in-law furious! NTA explains benefits

Toys at relatives’ houses – convenience or expectation?

A thoughtful suggestion to diffuse the situation

Experience with entitled parents and ducks suggests brother must act.

Hold your ground , it’s logical and cool to have toys only at family’s home. Plus, it will tear up her yard .
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Aunt’s toy rule gets sister-in-law furious

Sharing is caring: A thoughtful way to bond with family

Enthusiastic comment with a touch of humor

Stocking up toys for kids is NTA, sister’s greediness ESH

NTA’s thoughtful gift brings joy to kids, sister-in-law furious

Gift-giving etiquette explained, offer alternative toy tractor solution. ✔️

Nostalgic comment about grandparents’ toys and happy memories.

Share the toy tractor with other kids to keep peace.

Sharing a special activity with a child is priceless ❤️

Defending the gift: SIL has no right to dictate ownership.

Aunt gifts tractor with a condition, SIL not happy

Toy tractor gift causes family drama, but NTA for keeping it.

Keeping the toy at your place is a smart move
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Keeping the toys at home, NTA wins the day!

Encouraging comment supports giving tractor gift without conditions.

Aunt accused of being an a**hole for giving nephew a cool present with conditions. Replies side with aunt.

Generous gift sparks family drama, but OP is NTA

Generous aunt defends her yard-sale gift to nephew.

Aunt gifts tractor toy, sister-in-law angry. NTA explains.

NTA uncle shares his experience with letting kids take toys home.

SIL upset over tractor gift. NTA wants nephew to enjoy.

Grandparent plans to move closer to family, buys toys for grandson.

Passing down family toys: wholesome or problematic?

Grandpa’s ball pit experience proves NTA’s yard-sale gift smart

Sharing is caring, even for kids’ toys! NTA.

Aunt buys tractor for nephew, sister-in-law gets angry. NTA.

Sharing toys among family members teaches valuable life lessons

Grandparents’ love for toy tractors earns new nickname and appreciation ❤️

Aunt gifts toy tractor with condition, NTA for keeping it.
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Giving away a cherished gift to deserving person. NTA

Sharing toys is a great way to entertain guests!

Setting boundaries with gifts and teaching a valuable lesson.

Sharing toys with young kids is tough, but NTA

Ungrateful SIL outraged over a gift with one condition

SIL’s notion of ownership: “I used it, therefore it is mine”

Keeping toys for visiting kids is NTA. Happy nephew, happy visits!

A heartwarming gesture with a clever twist ❤️

Toys and games at grandma’s house: a smart solution!

Teaching gift etiquette to avoid disappointment. NTA.
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Aunt defends gifting tractor toy to nephew, NTA.

Setting boundaries with gifts is understandable and reasonable.

Keeping toys at your house is a smart move!

Aunt’s gift sparks sister-in-law’s anger, commenters side with aunt.

Keeping toys at family’s house: reasonable or unreasonable?

Sharing toys with family is normal. No A-hole here.

Auntie’s got it right! Nephews love toys at their aunt’s house!

NTA creates a fun “kid kit” for babysitting. Sister-in-law overreacts.

Grandparents’ toys not for taking home, NTA explains to sister-in-law

Sharing toys among family members is NTA and fosters community

Toys at relatives’ houses work, NTA. Memories are priceless

Having toys for a child at your house is common sense
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Aunt defends gifting toy tractor that works best at her place.

Grandparents keep toys and clothes for granddaughter, NTA.

Let the kid have fun at his grandparents’ house!

Aunt’s gift sparks SIL’s jealousy and aunt gets NTA support

Auntie popchex toys and blow up furniture make kids feel welcomed
