AITA for Refusing to Raise My Parents’ Kids Anymore?

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama unfolding before our very eyes! Meet our 17-year-old heroine, who’s been saddled with the responsibility of raising her 4 younger siblings for as long as she can remember. From diaper duty to dinner duty, this poor girl has seen it all! But now, as her 18th birthday approaches, she’s ready to break free from the shackles of parentification and live her own life! Will her parents let her go gracefully, or will they guilt-trip her into staying? Let’s dive in and find out! ‍♀️

Countdown to Freedom!

Oldest of 5 Siblings, All Under 10!

Parentification from a Young Age

Feeding, Babysitting, Diaper Duty!

Diaper Changing & Baby Feeding Lessons

Freedom Comes at a Price

“Treasure These Moments” They Said…

Wishing They Were Never Born

Siblings Feel Like a Chore

Secret Savings Since 14!

Birthday Talk Turns Sour

“You Still Owe Us!” They Claim

“Think of the Kids!” They Plead

I’m Out! They’re On Their Own!

Teen’s Escape Plan Sparks Family Feud!

It looks like our teen heroine has had enough of playing mom to her younger siblings and is ready to fly the coop! But her parents are not having it! They’re pulling out all the stops, from guilt trips to emotional blackmail, to keep her tethered to the family. Our girl isn’t backing down though! She’s got a secret stash of cash and a burning desire for freedom! Will she make a clean break, or will her parents’ pleas tug at her heartstrings? The internet has some thoughts on this spicy situation! Let’s see what they have to say!

Former teen parent takes a stand, NTA, and gets support!

Go, thrive, and leave those terrible and boundary-less parents behind!

Protect your money from your parents

Don’t let them guilt you into raising their kids. NTA

Financially able to move out? NTA for refusing parenting duties.

Don’t let your parents guilt-trip you into raising their kids.

User empathizes with OP and condemns parental neglect ♥

Take charge of your life and get paid for your work

Don’t sacrifice your life for your parents’ mistakes.

Don’t give in to guilt. You owe them nothing

Supportive subreddit for parentification survivors, credit check/freeze advice. NTA.

Empathetic NTA decides to have a conversation with siblings ❤️

Set boundaries with your parents, but don’t cut siblings off

“You owe them absolutely nothing. Leave and never look back.” ‍♀️

Practical advice for discreetly leaving a toxic household.

NTA, comment suggests getting important documents and possibly calling CPS

Escape from parentification ‘prison.’ NTA

Not the a**hole. You’re not responsible for their irresponsibility.

Congrats on getting out of parenting vacation! #NTA

NTA. Move out, be careful what you tell them. Good luck.

NTA, you deserve your own life. Siblings can still visit

Take control of your life and don’t let them guilt-trip you. NTA

Play nice till 18, then move out in silence.

NTA. Commenter shares similar experience with parentification and advises distancing.

Consider hiding your move or siblings will show up unannounced.

Be careful, NTA, your parents might steal your money

Secure important documents before leaving to avoid hostage situation

Not their kids, not their problem. NTA!

Secure your documents and seek help. NTA

Oldest sibling shares similar experience and offers support. ❤

Resentment from neglectful parenting caused rift with MIL.

NTA and you owe them a grand total of jack s**t

NTA commented advice to secure paperwork and wished good luck.

Not the a**hole for wanting to live your own life.

Protect yourself first. NTA.

You’re not the a**hole for wanting your own life

NTA! You are not their parent or babysitter!

Being forced to raise your siblings is unfair and damaging. NTA

Taking a break to care for yourself is important

NTA. Stick to your instincts and fortify those boundaries.

Secure your documents and leave before birthday to avoid sabotage

NTA. Secure important docs to avoid future trouble.

Encouraging reply to OP’s decision to stop raising their siblings.

Leaving home at 18, advice on getting important documents and money.

Brutal honesty at its finest

Leave and don’t tell them the address

Taking on parental responsibilities as a child is unfair. NTA.

NTA! Good advice on planning and setting boundaries.

Family guilt-tripping won’t change the fact that NTA

NTA, stand up to your parents and don’t let them offload parenting

Demanding backpay for babysitting and moving on.

Taking a stand against parental pressure and guilt-tripping

Encouraging words for OP and wishing them the best

Encouraging anecdote of friend in similar situation, NTA.

Siblings feel like a burden, NTA for refusing to raise them

Secure your legal documents and money before leaving.

Don’t have kids you can’t handle! NTA

Live your life! NTA. Can’t wait for your update ❤️

Move out slyly and don’t leave an address!

NTA: Protect yourself! Gather important documents and plan for future

Find a trusted friend to hold onto important things

Next in line might have to bear the burden

Leaving without telling them? Savage! But securing your money is a must

Advice on dealing with abusive parents and setting boundaries.

OP has had enough of raising their young siblings. Recommends going low contact with parents for at least a year. NTA

Exercise wisdom and restraint when disentangling from an abusive relationship.

You’re NTA for refusing to raise your siblings.

Secure important documents before leaving. NTA for setting boundaries.

Take control of your life and finances. NTA

NTA! You deserve to enjoy your freedom and not be guilted.

Leaving toxic family? Here’s how to stay safe

Taking care of yourself is not selfish.

Taking care of your parents’ kids? NTA. Happy birthday!

Enjoy freedom (responsibly! ) and go NC if necessary. NTA.

Supportive comment, wishing OP happiness and best wishes.

Last Updated on May 17, 2024 by Diply Social Team