A man and his girlfriend have been together for nearly five years and have a two-year-old son together. The girlfriend has become increasingly intolerant towards their son and has been going out a lot. One night, the son has an accident and the girlfriend screams at him. The man confronts her and tells her to grow up, resulting in an argument.
The man wonders if he went too far. Read on to find out more about the situation and the reactions of the commenters on the post.
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In this story , a father has had enough of his girlfriend’s mistreatment of their child and confronts her about it. Despite being initially happy about the birth of their son, the girlfriend has become increasingly intolerant and annoyed by small things.
On a night out, the father woke up to his son telling him he had peed in his sleep. When he went to check on him, he found his girlfriend screaming at the two-year-old for the accident. The father confronted her and their argument escalated to the point where she told him she regrets having their son.
The father rightly points out that her behavior will be remembered by their child and urges her to grow up. Find out how their relationship progresses in the comments and reactions below.
Commenters suggest PPD, therapy, and finding middle ground for struggling SAHM.

NTA, but girlfriend may need a break and career counseling
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Commenter suggests PPD as cause for girlfriend’s behavior.

Family therapy may be necessary to protect the child

SAHM struggling but screaming at a 2-year-old is unacceptable ♀️

SAHM overwhelmed, but shouting at toddler not justified. NTA dad.

Commenter criticizes father for not taking enough responsibility for child.

Red flags in the relationship and potential abuse signs, consider counseling.

NAH, but girlfriend’s behavior towards child is unacceptable.

Encourage seeking help with for gf’s resentment issues.

Encourage her to find a job and help her with PPD

Encouraging parent to support stay-at-home mom with suggestions

Partner struggling with parenting – NTA, but open a dialogue ❤️

Commenter offers advice and a different perspective on the situation.

Commenter suggests therapy and daycare for girlfriend’s PPD and career

Discussion on the importance of proper child care and communication.

Hormonal birth control can have serious mental health side effects.

Parenting is tough but taking it out on a child a**hole-ish

Commenter shows empathy and suggests seeking professional help.
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Struggling to balance work and family while dealing with a difficult partner.

Protect your child’s mental health, prioritize their safety

Supportive comment urges father to prioritize his son’s well-being ❤️

Couple needs counseling and sex education, plus better birth control.

Father stands up for his child’s well-being amidst girlfriend’s immaturity

Age seems to be a point of contention here

Commenter calls out excusing abusive behavior towards child.

Questioning if girlfriend’s behavior is due to depression or lack of freedom

Important reminder to pay attention to your child’s behavior

Heartbreaking story of a child being mistreated for bed-wetting

Listen to her regretful words and take action

Parent expresses concern for child’s safety in toxic environment.
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Supportive advice for struggling partner and parenting tips

Understanding NTA’s empathy for stressed new parents

Reevaluate family dynamics and discuss childcare options to improve relationship

Protect your son from abuse Stand up to her

A humorous take on an unexpected comment.

Father stands up for child’s well-being. #ParentingWin

Encouraging therapy for girlfriend’s subconscious frustration towards child ♀️

Offering an out to girlfriend who resents son.

Collaboration is key . Consider taking on more responsibilities.
