“I’d Rather Send My Baby to Daycare Than Have MIL Watch Them”

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy story of a soon-to-be mama caught in the middle of some serious family drama. This 25-year-old expecting her first child with her boyfriend of four years is facing a monster-in-law who’s determined to make her life a living hell. From snobbery to unsolicited advice, this MIL is pulling out all the stops to assert her dominance. But our mama-to-be isn’t going down without a fight! Get ready for a wild ride as we dive into this tangled web of family dynamics, financial struggles, and the ultimate question: who’s the a-hole here?

Unexpected Baby News!

Wedding Bells on the Horizon?

Money Matters: MIL’s Snobbery Exposed!

Covid Chaos: Financial Struggles & Delayed Dreams

Determined Mama: Balancing School & Baby

️ Perfect Timing? Baby Due in May!

Determined to Finish Degree: Back to School at 7 Months

‍♀️ MIL’s Unsupportive Stance: A Mother’s “Advice”

Retired In-Laws: A “Sacrificial” Offer?

Mama’s Discomfort: MIL as Daily Caretaker? No Thanks! ‍♀️

Grandma Time: Yes! Full-Time Caretaker? No Way!

‍♂️ BF’s Reaction: Should I Have Considered MIL’s Offer?

Monster-in-Law Showdown: Who Will Win?

Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a classic case of a meddling monster-in-law! This poor mama-to-be is caught between a rock and a hard place, with her snooty MIL offering to be a full-time babysitter (more like a full-time nightmare! ) and her own desire to spend quality time with her little one. To make matters worse, MIL has the audacity to accuse her of being a freeloader! The nerve! But fear not, our determined mama has a plan: affordable university daycare and a supportive boyfriend by her side. Now, let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! Grab your popcorn, folks, because the comments are bound to be a wild ride!

Standing up to condescending MIL and prioritizing baby’s safety.

NTA-

Set boundaries with MIL and prioritize affordable daycare.

Moving MIL to our city means we’re their entire life?

Cutting off toxic in-laws and choosing daycare over MIL

Set boundaries with MIL, or it will only get worse.

Setting boundaries with MIL to protect child from toxicity. NTA.

Stand your ground and focus on your priorities

Stand your ground and protect your family!

Setting boundaries with in-laws can be challenging.

Spouse needs to step up and set boundaries with his mom

Boyfriend needs to handle his mother or *you* will.

Rejecting her offer immediately was the best way to deal with this.

BF needs to step up and shut down MIL’s atrocious behavior

Supportive comment acknowledging the OP’s situation and offering empathy.

Daycare provides socialization & learning opportunities for children. Stand up for yourself.

Set clear boundaries and don’t let MIL watch your baby.

Protecting baby from toxic MIL, NTA

MIL’s offer to babysit after wanting the baby aborted – NTA

Free childcare from relatives is never really free

New parents advised to prioritize discussion about future parenting approach.

Daycare or MIL? Comment advises against MIL for childcare

Supportive reply advocating for partner to handle MIL conversation

Daycare over MIL. Neglectful experiences shared. NTA.

Draw a line in the sand and exclude grandma until apology

Stand your ground! BF’s mother can kick rocks

Supportive commenter encourages standing up to toxic MIL

Don’t let her babysit. Time for BF to stand up. NTA

Communication with partner key to MIL/babysitter issue

Supportive comment suggests seeking help on JustNoMIL and others

Standing up to an overbearing MIL and spineless BF

MIL lost privilege to interject noxious opinion. Husband should demand respect.

NTA claps back at grandma’s child care superiority complex.

Boyfriend needs to stand up to his mother or CPS risk.

Boyfriend’s mother is a problem, NTA for choosing daycare

BF needs to grow a spine and stand up to mommy . NTA

Choosing daycare over MIL as caretaker wise. She may damage relationship.

BF needs to step up before MIL causes baby drama

Loved daycare at college, daughter didn’t want to miss snack time

Choosing daycare over MIL for baby, spouse’s support is key

BF and MIL are AHs, NTA for not wanting her near child

Protecting your child from toxic family members

Daycare was great for the commenter’s kids, not everyone is same.

Setting boundaries with MIL while keeping peace with BF.

Future MIL is a nightmare, better to trust daycare

Inspiring story of overcoming adversity and pursuing education while parenting.

Avoid MIL’s claws, NTA. Private school offer = lifetime debt.

Assertive advice for dealing with disrespectful in-laws.

Don’t let MIL disrespect you and your baby! Stand up!

Daycare over toxic MIL, boyfriend needs to step up

Cutting off MIL for childcare? Bold move, let’s discuss.

Set boundaries with toxic MIL to avoid parenting criticism. NTA ✌

Setting boundaries with MIL and prioritizing family support

Get on the same page with BF or suffer r/justnomil.

NTA suggests confronting MIL with cold hard truth sandwich

Setting boundaries early is key . NTA, you’re doing great OP.

NTA, but boyfriend needs to talk to his mom about behavior

Cutting off toxic MIL, NTA. Trust your instincts

Grandma’s toxic behavior caused resentment in the child.

Grandma privileges are an HONOR, not a given

Suggest daycare with school visit or limit MIL contact.

Set firm boundaries with MIL who won’t respect your decisions. NTA

NTA’s firm boundaries with BF’s overbearing mother. Stick to plan.

Supportive comment praising OP for her character and offering advice

University daycare offers unique benefits for child development

Grandma’s toxic behavior is not welcome around the baby. NTA.

College daycare with early education provider interns may be the best option. Avoid the bullying MIL, set boundaries, and stand your ground

NTA commenter suggests f***ing the MIL; advises OP to keep cool.

University daycare programs are well-monitored and a great option. NTA.

Set firm boundaries with MIL or she loses time with grandchild.

Choose your partner over toxic family. Don’t entertain opinions.

Set boundaries and communicate through text to avoid MIL drama

NTA. Establish boundaries with MIL and boyfriend. Good luck, OP

Supportive commenter congratulates OP on plan to avoid MIL.

NTA and stand firm against MIL’s disrespectful behavior

Supportive comment advising OP to communicate with SO and set boundaries.

Choosing daycare over MIL due to the need for consistency

Grandma gets roasted for bad childcare approach

Setting boundaries with toxic MIL, prioritize baby’s wellbeing ‍ ‍

SO needs to stand up for OP against MIL’s condescending behavior ‍♀️

Motherhood doesn’t have to derail your education or career goals

Supportive comment with advice on dealing with toxic family dynamics.

Dealing with difficult MILs: NTA, but communication is key

Grandma wants grandma time without apologizing or mending relationship. NTA.

Set boundaries with MIL and talk to boyfriend about it

Defending against accusations and setting boundaries for baby’s sake.

Choose your own life plan for your baby. NTA