A 17-year-old slim girl found herself in a heated confrontation with her 19-year-old obese friend after enduring weeks of body shaming. The slim girl had never commented on her friend’s body, but the obese friend repeatedly made remarks about her slim figure. The situation escalated during a lunch outing, leading to a dramatic exchange and a social media storm.
Slim Girl’s Struggles

Obese Friend’s Comments

The Shirt Incident

Lunchtime Confrontation ️

Slim Girl’s Response

Obese Friend’s Reaction

Social Media Backlash

Questioning Her Actions

Edit: Weight Update ⚖️

Standing Up for Herself

Understanding Obesity

Body Shaming Showdown: Who’s the Real Victim?
A slim 17-year-old girl and her 19-year-old obese friend found themselves in a heated argument after the obese friend repeatedly body shamed the slim girl. The confrontation took place during a lunch outing, where the slim girl finally snapped back at her friend’s comments. The incident sparked a social media backlash, with people accusing the slim girl of body shaming her obese friend. The slim girl questions if she’s in the wrong, while also revealing she has gained weight and has stood up for herself in the past. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions below!
Both parties engaged in body-shaming, ESH. Mature communication needed.

Comment section argues about OP’s weight and BMI, ESH for body shaming.

NTA- Perfect response to body shaming friend. Friend is insecure.

Both parties at fault for body shaming. Classier response suggested.
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Friend learns not to body shame after receiving clapback.

Communication breakdown leads to explosive confrontation over body shaming ♀️

Body shaming is never okay, but two wrongs don’t make a right.

Teen stands up to friend’s hypocrisy in body shaming.

Overweight women are judged more harshly than underweight women. ESH.

When you fight fire with fire, everyone gets burned.

Body shaming goes both ways, but let’s not shame weight.
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Both friends body shamed each other, but weight isn’t everything

Playful banter over fruit nicknames in comment section

Standing up to body shaming: Teen claps back at friend

Weight shaming goes both ways, ESH in this situation ♀️ ♂️

Body positivity wins! Supportive comments spread love

Slim teen stands up to body shaming friend, sparks ESH debate

Don’t dish it if you can’t take it

Concerned commenter suggests medical check-up for underweight OP. ⚕️
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Body shaming between friends? Not cool.

Body shaming and unsolicited advice on weight gain vs loss.

Weight debate turns ugly, both friends behaving badly. ♀️

Body shaming goes both ways. OP is underweight according to commenter.
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Standing up against body shaming: NTA for clapping back

Body positivity wins: NTA claps back at fat-shaming friend

Friend body shames, gets triggered when called out. NTA.

Body shaming is never okay, regardless of size. ESH.
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A cycle of body shaming and insecurity, both at fault.

Struggling with body image, both friends lash out at each other.

Standing up for yourself without body shaming. Good advice

Thin commenter defends weight against friend’s body shaming

Body shaming is never okay, but both could have handled better.

Skinny teen stands up to fat-shaming friend, NTA

Respectful response to body shaming, calling out hypocrisy.

Standing up to body shaming: NTA for defending yourself
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Standing up to body shaming: a satisfying NTA clapback

NTA. Body shaming is wrong, even if it’s towards healthy people.

Commenter expresses concern for OP’s health but acknowledges fault too.

Fair game: Slim teen claps back at obese friend’s body-shaming

Standing up to body shaming: NTA claps back

Supportive comment against body shaming with a call to action.

Male commenter supports slim teen against friend’s body-shaming. NTA

Standing up to a bully: OP claps back and wins

Standing up to body shaming: NTA claps back

When body shaming goes wrong, everyone sucks ♂️

Standing up to body shaming without being an a**hole

Empowering response to fat-shaming friend. NTA for standing up.
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Honesty without harm. NTA for standing up against body shaming.

Standing up to body shaming: Empathy vs Ignorance

Standing up to body shaming: NTA for calling out friend

Standing up to toxic friends like a boss!

Body shaming happens to skinny people too. NTA for speaking up.

Standing up to body shaming with a NTA clapback
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Standing up to body shaming: NTA not ESH

Standing up to body shaming: NTA for clapping back

Teen shuts down body shaming friend. NTA wins
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Standing up to body shaming with a taste of their own medicine
