Teen Mom’s Ex Wants Contact with Daughter After Becoming Infertile

Imagine being a teenage mom, navigating the challenges of parenthood, only to have the biological father of your child voluntarily terminate his rights and disappear from your lives. Years later, he suddenly wants back in after discovering he’s infertile. This is the dilemma faced by a 30-year-old woman who’s now happily married and has built a loving family with her husband and daughter. The question is, should she allow the ex-boyfriend back into their lives? ‍♀️

International Custody Chaos

Pregnant and Supported

Biodad’s Hurtful Words

Terminating Rights

Parents’ Support

Age-Appropriate Explanations ️

Biodad’s Sudden Interest

Trustworthy Friends

Not a Second Choice ❌

To Reconnect or Not to Reconnect?

This brave mom has been through a lot, from being a teenage parent to navigating international custody arrangements. Now, she’s faced with the decision of whether to let her daughter’s biodad back into their lives after he terminated his rights and disappeared. With the sudden news of his infertility, he’s claiming he ‘deserves’ to have biological children. But should this mom risk disrupting her daughter’s life for a man who once called her a ‘half breed’? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Daughter’s choice matters. Wait until she’s older to decide. NTA.

Father wants contact after becoming infertile, but NTA commenters disagree.

NTA. Daughter has a loving family. Guide her if she wants contact.

NTA. Daughter not a biological backup. Let him wait.

NTA. Commenter argues that the world is better off without the racist ex reproducing. Replies support the sentiment and criticize the ex’s motives for wanting contact now.

Commenter warns Teen Mom about ex’s racist past.

Supporting daughter’s choice to contact dad when she’s 18

NTA. Having biological children is a privilege, not a right

Commenter calls out ex’s hypocrisy in emotional response.

Bio dad’s rights vs daughter’s wishes. NTA, let daughter decide

Ex’s desire for contact after infertility is ego-driven. NTA.

Abandoning your child doesn’t entitle you to parenthood

Let your daughter make an informed decision

NTA. He terminated his own rights fueled by his hatred.

Daughter should decide if contact with infertile ex-bio dad is worth it.

NTA, but pay up: Back child support for college tuition

Ex’s past racial slurs make waiting for daughter’s decision justified

Biodad wants back in after terminating rights. NTA shuts him down.

Father’s entitlement to biological children criticized in NTA comment section

Validating the commenter’s experience and advising against societal pressure.

NTA- Ex’s infertility doesn’t excuse past behavior

Bio dad wants daughter for biolegacy, not a**hole but selfish.

Father’s entitlement to see daughter after being absent and infertile

User calls out father’s racist past and motives for contact

NTA, but hear him out. If he’s changed, give a chance

Mother not obligated to let ex contact daughter after abandoning her.

Protecting parental rights in a sensitive situation.

NTA mom protects kids from abusive biodad, gets support

NTA. The guy sees your daughter as a consolation prize

Should the daughter have a say in reconnecting with her father?

Savage response to deadbeat dad wanting contact with daughter.

Daughter’s opinion matters. NTA for wanting contact.

Commenter calls out biodad’s prejudice, supports OP’s decision.

Involving daughter in decision to meet infertile ex

Should the daughter have a say? Betrayal concerns raised

Should a daughter have the right to meet her bio dad?

Passionate response defends father’s rights with fiery language

NTA gets sweet revenge.

Father wants contact with daughter after becoming infertile. Commenter says no.

Supervised video calls reasonable, but daughter’s choice should be respected

Ex’s entitlement to daughter after infertility earns NTA judgement

Don’t let him back in now that he’s infertile . Daughter’s choice later.

Let your daughter choose , NTA

Terminating rights as an adult. NTA. Infertility not your fault.

Curious commenter eagerly awaits update on custody battle

Devil’s advocate suggests considering possibility of racist parents influencing ex.

Demanding back child support for 15 years

Letting daughter choose father’s contact after infertility. NTA.

Navigating a daughter’s desire to know her estranged father ‍

Teen’s bio dad wants contact after becoming infertile, but commenters suggest daughter should decide. NTA, but bio dad sounds like a self-centered douche ‍♀️

Father wants contact after becoming infertile, called daughter racial slurs

Wait until daughter is 18 to decide, NTA.

Daughter’s choice matters. Karma’s at work. NTA.

Commenter doesn’t hold back on ex’s past behavior

Ex’s selfishness and lack of remorse. Limited contact not recommended.

Let your daughter decide if she wants to meet him ‍ but he sounds entitled

Father’s infertility doesn’t justify using daughter as backup plan

Ex wants daughter as backup plan after becoming infertile. NTA.

Father wants contact, but daughter’s feelings should be considered ‍

Father wants contact after infertility, daughter’s choice. Redemption attempt?

Consider your child’s feelings before making decisions. #NTA

Honesty is the best policy, but let your daughter choose

Consider giving him a chance at redemption.

Daughter’s opinion matters. NTA, but chat with her

Ex gave up legal obligations, no right to contact daughter

Putting the daughter’s needs first.

Honesty is key. Daughter should be aware of her options.

Former partner wants contact with daughter after losing fertility. Commenters support mother’s decision to follow established arrangements.

Let the daughter decide, not the infertile ex

Daughter’s choice to meet biological father after adoption. NTA.

NTA considers talking to mutual friends before allowing contact with daughter