Picture this: you find out your ex-wife cheated on you with your own brother, and to add insult to injury, your two youngest children aren’t even biologically yours. Fast forward a few years, and your biological daughter is getting married. Your ex-wife is invited, but you can’t stand the thought of being in the same room with her, let alone if she brings your brother as her plus one . But your daughter wants both her parents there on her special day. What would you do? Read on to find out what one conflicted father is considering…
The Cheating Ex-Wife and Brother

The Shocking Truth

Son’s Wedding Sans Mom

Daughter’s Wedding Dilemma

No Brother Allowed

Torn Between Parents

Blocked But Not Stopped

Feeling Guilty

To Go or Not to Go?

Father’s Wedding Woes: To Attend or Not?
Our troubled dad is faced with a heart-wrenching decision: should he attend his daughter’s wedding, knowing his cheating ex-wife will be there? His daughter has made it clear that she wants both her parents present on her big day, but he’s worried his ex might sneak his brother in as her plus one . The ex-wife even had the audacity to message him, telling him to ‘suck it up’ and not make it all about him. Despite feeling guilty, our father is torn between wanting to support his daughter and staying away from the toxic duo that ruined his family. Let’s dive into the internet’s top responses to this emotional rollercoaster of a situation…
Put your differences aside and attend your daughter’s wedding!
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Put aside your pettiness and be there for your daughter.

Father’s hate for ex-wife/brother vs. love for daughter

ESH except daughter. Dad, go to wedding and use social distancing.

Don’t be the a-hole dad! Attend your daughter’s wedding

Father’s selfishness is a YTA moment for daughter’s wedding

Be there for your daughter, even if it’s just for a bit.

Don’t let anger and bitterness ruin your relationship with family. ❤

Skipping your daughter’s wedding? YTA, and you’ll regret it ☹

Father skips daughter’s wedding due to family betrayal. NTA.

Putting your feelings aside for daughter’s wedding is tough

Compromises can save the day! YTA if you miss it

Compromising for daughter’s wedding despite painful family history is NAH.

Weddings are optional, mental health is not. Daughter’s TA.

Ex-wife is right, it’s your daughter’s big day. Don’t be YTA.

Father should prioritize daughter’s big day over personal grudges.

OP’s situation is deeply regrettable and deserves gentleness in judgment

Daughter cheated with brother, OP NTA for skipping wedding.

NTA refuses entitled daughter’s wedding demands. Family drama ensues.

Family betrayal at weddings? NTA says it all.
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Don’t let anyone tell you NTA. Stand your ground!

Skipping daughter’s wedding – valid reason or AH move?

Support for NTA who skipped daughter’s wedding after family betrayal.

Validated feelings and a compromise suggestion for a happy wedding day!

Choosing between daughter and ex-wife on wedding day.

Compassionate comment acknowledges emotional impact of wife’s infidelity.

Choosing to skip his daughter’s wedding, a man is called NTA by a commenter who warns about possible problems from his ex. The commenter advises him to avoid asking Reddit for advice and not to pay attention to those shaming him.

Father faces backlash for skipping daughter’s wedding, YTA verdict.

Putting aside past grudges to attend your child’s wedding

Redditor defends NTA ruling on sister’s wedding dispute.

Choosing not to go to your daughter’s wedding is unfair

Despite not being the a**hole, dad’s absence still hurts daughter

Setting boundaries for mental wellbeing. NTA

Skipping daughter’s wedding – is it worth the lifetime regret?

A heartwarming suggestion for the father-daughter dance. ❤️

Emotional abuse and family drama on wedding day

Wedding drama! Commenter supports NTA’s choice to stand up for themselves.

Choosing not to attend daughter’s wedding due to mental abuse.

Encouraging words to support a father-daughter relationship.

Wedding cynic thinks everyone sucks, hates celebrations ♂️

Heartfelt plea for father to attend daughter’s wedding despite ex.
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Father chooses ego over daughter’s big day
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Father’s betrayal discovered, but still find a way to support daughter. 툀

Navigating a tricky situation with ex and daughter’s wedding

Father’s justified decision to skip daughter’s wedding discussed.

Choose love over hate and be there for your daughter ❤️

Ex-wife ruins dad’s life, skips daughter’s wedding. NTA

Don’t be the a**hole at your daughter’s wedding!

Setting boundaries is important for self-care and mental health
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Rise above and attend the wedding. Be the bigger person. ✌

Family drama and ultimatums over wedding guest list. ♀️

Avoiding wedding drama with a reverse ultimatum

A heartwarming plea for a father to attend his daughter’s wedding ♥️

Father’s mental health concerns about ex-wife at daughter’s wedding.

Complicated family dynamics post-divorce, still in contact with younger kids?

Family drama averted at commenter’s wedding

Put your pain aside and be there for your daughter ❤️

Father chooses to skip daughter’s wedding for personal reasons. NTA.

Skipping daughter’s wedding: NTA, it’s okay to set boundaries.

Prioritizing feelings vs. daughter’s special day

Avoid drama at daughter’s wedding ceremony by attending briefly.

Who will walk her down the aisle? Don’t miss it!

OP’s dilemma: choosing hate for ex or love for daughter. YWBTA.
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Father refuses to attend daughter’s wedding without reason ♂️

Navigating difficult family situations at weddings

Be there for your kid, don’t let the drama win
